I've met this really nice guy (S) and we've been friends for a while. We've been talking a lot more recently and I think he rlly likes me he's been dropping hints and we've been on 2 hangouts so far (3rd one coming soon) ... but he's just not G.
I tell myself I've moved on from G but I can't ever stop thinking about him.
S would treat me so much better than G. G "wasn't ready for a relationship" but wanted everything someone has in a relationship. He said he loved me but didn't show it. He's aggressive and entitled but so why do I feel the need to explain myself to him.
I'm scared too. What if S turns into G and starts to hate me. What if I ruin things with S because of G. Don't get me wrong, I would never get with G because I know it won't work... but at the same time I just wish I could have a changed G instead of S and I feel so bad for it.
Maybe I just need to get to know S a bit better.
I'm not going to jeopardise things with S for a hope that G will change and come back to me or change enough to come back to me and let me help him change.
I'll trust things with S and hope he can love me so much that it purges out G...