Chill Outside, Crabstickz Trash Inside

My blog is not a dessert topping it doesn't have to be consistent. *Hey if you got the reference^ then we should totally be friends*  I create this blog as an escape from real life and because I'm under Chris Kendall's charm.

[notsolovelylorcan]

what doesn’t kill me, might make me kill myself.

[korra]

awkward how reassuring i find this

[womensstudiesofficial-deactivat]

well ya duh society shames speech patterns associated with young women

[vickorano]

“Speech fillers” are just a human’s way of saying “wait a sec I’m thinking”. It means we think more before we speak, always trying to find the right way to say it. Every language has them. And people shouldn’t be annoyed by it, ever.

[askclint]

Fun fact: even Deaf people and ASL users have a “filler” and depends on the person. Sometimes it’s almost like a wave, other times it’s wiggling fingers.

[kitcat-stickz]

Aaahhh I'm back!

But crabstickz isn't :(

[kitcat-stickz]

We cut off people who hurt us in hope it would stop our pain. But often times, no, it doesn't stop the pain. It would reduce the pain and further damage, yes, so it's obviously the right thing to do. But the wounds they've caused, the trust issues, the terror, fear, grief, insecurities, scars... they don't go away so easily. It sucks to think that even after we cut them off of our lives, they still could cause us pain.

[littlemixens]

why do people say “don’t be a pussy” when talking about weakness more like “don’t be a man’s ego” because you know there isn’t nothing more fragile than that

[nothingnowherenoonearchive]

uh 

because “pussy” is the shortened form of the word “pusillanimous”, which means “timid, cowardly”

and not the slang word for the female genital region?

[follow-puppy-luv96-deactivated2]

literally no one else knows this. nobody. 

[definitelyshitty]

WHAT

[tyronesuplac]

Sensational.

[definitelyshitty]

Remarkable.

[geraltcirilla]

it’s a real word

[snarky-gourmet-deactivated20250]

you: pussy

me, an intellectual: pusillanimous

[kitcat-stickz]

Letter to My Younger Self #3 Greetings, mortal. Have a seat and tell me, if I ask you to list every single thing you love, how long would it take you to mention yourself? You know that loving others is important, but do you know how to love yourself? I wish you do, I wish you could learn how to. Self-love is not conceited, narcissistic, or selfish. Self-love is appreciating the gift of life by taking a good care of yourself; physically, mentally, and spiritually, instead of letting people walk all over you. You gotta love yourself, because at the end of the day, you're the only one you got. Love yourself well enough that you don't have to depend on anyone else to make you feel good. Love yourself well enough to embrace the fact that you are different from most people in some ways and that's totally okay. Love yourself well enough to live the life you really want instead of letting others restraint your every thought. Speaking of love, be careful with that word when it comes to your relationship with others, it's a trap. Be careful on understanding the concept of it, do not confused one kind of love with another. What? Oh yes, there are different kinds of love, you haven't really learned about it, have you? Brace yourself, you're gonna learn about it the hard way. There is one thing you always need to keep in mind though; if it doesn't make you be a better person to others, it's not love. And by others I mean everyone around you, not just that one person on the other side of the relationship. It applies for every kind of love and relationship, not just the romantic one. Don't be disheartened when you realize that you gave your love and trust to people who don't actually deserve it. Just pat yourself and continue on your merry way, this is where the importance of self-love comes in, don't rely on others to define your worth. I wish I could keep your childish optimism all the way through. Stay kind. Stay grateful. Love yourself. Stop eating noodles as a midnight snack. -Cat-

[kitcat-stickz]

[learninglinguist]

Link to the original tweet 

[kitcat-stickz]

My reaction to Peej's ig story

[kitcat-stickz]

Ohmagawd those eyes tho 😍😍

[thefibrodiaries]

We need to destroy the idea that teenagers showing genuine signs of depression are “just being teenagers” and that they are “just experiencing normal mood swings”

[reckless-rationality-deactivate]

fucking please!! lemme explain to ya’ll something. I am a mentally ill person who now works in the field of psychology and I often interact with other mentally ill people (both clients and people from day to day situations) 

I work with adults from 18-fucking 60′s and 70′s. The most common thing I hear is about how they have exhibted symptoms from a young age but never saw treatment in their younger days because their family either shamed them, wouldn’t let them, guilted them about it or completely wrote off and undermined their mental health. 

Your teenager who won’t leave their bed or do their homework isn’t lazy, they could be suffering from depression. 

Your teenager who won’t ask the cashier at Walmart for the correct change or can’t seem to make friends might not be a late bloomer, this is a symptom of anxiety. 

Your teenage son who likes to bully and beat up his sister, family pets or other kids isn’t just “being a boy”. The intention to hurt others from a young age is a symptom of an aray of disorders. 

Your child who expresses suicidal thoughts or engages in reckless behavior isn’t going through a rebellious stage or just experiencing normal hormones, they are struggling with their mental health and the affects left untreated could be deadly.

Please, please, please talk to your kids about mental health at a young age and let them know that you are willing to find them professional help if they ask for it. 

So many years of life could have been improved for the mentally ill adult if they were given an opportunity of treatment and understanding from their childhood. 

[thefibrodiaries]

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[philpj]

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[kitcat-stickz]

It stings. When the ones you actually care so much don't care that much about you. When you genuinely wanna reach out but they just brush you off because, what good are you to them? When you learn to trust them despite your trust issue but they take it as if your trust worth nothing. When you are willing to cross the ocean for them but they don't even want to jump a puddle for you. It stings that you thought you would be used to those kinda treatments but in reality it gets more and more painful each time.

[kitcat-stickz]

Take these words from someone who had thought of numerous ways to kill herself and visualized them in her head countless times. 1. There's no guarantee that life will get better and easier. However, you will get stronger, if you choose to be. 2. When things go wrong and break you down, you can choose to just crawl into a hole and die, which I did at some point. Or you can choose to take your lesson, be a wiser person, and help others who's going through a similar rough path, which I'm trying to do now. 3. When you feel like you can't take it anymore and you just want to end it all right then and there, just hold on one more day. It's okay even if all you manage to do today is just breathe and survive. 4. If you successfully commit suicide, your pain doesn't go away, instead, you will just pass it on to other people. 5. Drink enough water.

[altonzm-deactivated20170213]

french recipes: if you’re not making this in paris then what’s the point. fuck you

italian recipes: use the left leg meat of a pig from one of three farms in this specific area of tuscany, or from this day my grandmother will begin manifesting physically in your house

[thirdtimecharmed]

american recipes: buy these three cans of stuff and put them in a pan congrats you cooked

[svynakee]

chinese recipes, as handed down from mother to child: season it with a pinch of this and some of that. you want to know the exact amount? feel it in your heart. ask the stars. yell into the void. 

[orriculum]

English recipes: boil and salt it. Okay that’s it enjoy

[digitalfare]

Greek recipes: You followed all the right steps but this isn’t quite right. I don’t know what to tell you.

[jamesandlilys]

Australia recipes: chuck it on the barbie

[monsterhighalumni]

Latinx recipes: you will never make it better than your abuela, face the facts

[megatrcn]

Filipino recipes: add rice and soy sauce and some more rice MORE RICE MORE RICE MORE

[merak-zoran]

Serbian Recipes: everything is salad. Ajvar? Salad. A single whole hot pepper covered in oil? Salad. Cabbage? Salad. Kajmak? Salad.

[allmyemptyspace-deactivated2021]

Lebanese recipes: If you don’t have at least 3 family members cooking this dinner with you than you aren’t doing it right.

[zarglepoetry]

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[123iloveyoutoo]

okay but PSA about rabies:

not all rabies victims will be foaming at the mouth. rabies isn't gonna be super obvious to those who don't know what to look for there is only one documented case of someone recovering from rabies

TELL TALE SYMPTOMS:

cat does not act aggressive but attempts to bite with no warning cat is off balance and falling over often cat is spinning in circles for no reason and /or has no sense of direction increased vocalization paralysis and seizures

[zarglepoetry]

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[123iloveyoutoo]

i just wante d people to b safe cus i love and care about people and you mock me like this

[zarglepoetry]

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[faceitttiger13]

“You couldn’t swing a cat in Ancient Greece without hitting one of Zeus’s ex girlfriends.” - Percy Jackson’s Greek Heroes