I gained a small amount of followers and noticed something so I thought I'd just say it.
You are worth it.
You're worth it. You are. You don't have to be okay right now, because sometimes things get to be a lot.
I promise you get better. I promise you don't stay like this forever. I know it might be months or years of things not being okay, but I know personally it gets better.
I will not lie. This shit is hard work. It's hard work with no reward at first; you shower or brush your teeth because you have to. You clean up because you have to. You smile because you have to.
What is the reward, then?
A sunset, every day. The warmth of heaters when it's cold outside. Your next meal, which could be so delicious, the one that's going to knock you out of the park.
Your reward is new friends, people you meet in 10 or 20 or 50 years. Your reward is experiences, like that road trip after your divorce or joining a book club that meets once a month. Your reward can be selfish and it can be goofy, like putting up the holiday decorations you like.
There is a world out there for you. For all of us. Not everyone is going to like you, nor will it be easy very often. But that's okay. Deep breath in. Deep breath out.
Good health, long life, and great fortune to you.













