4.01.23 ~ ๐ฝ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ท๐ฐ๐ผ ๐ ๐ป๐ฎ๐ช๐ต๐ฒ๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ช๐ซ๐ธ๐พ๐ฝ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ฎ
Let go of negative people. People are hands-down the biggest threat to our inner peace. Hindi naman maiiwasang mapaligiran tayo ng mga toxic na tao. Yun bang mga taong focused masyado sa mga negative na bagay kaysa sa positive. And having people in our life who constantly treat us poorly is a surefire way to destroy our peace.
Isa sa mga pinakaiiwasan ko ay yung magkaron ulit ng kaibigan na backstabber. Also, yung mga kaibigan din na dinidisregard na nga yung feelings and experience mo โ hindi pa masaya sa mga small achievements or accomplishments mo. Yung mga inggitera ba? Kailangan pag bobo sila dapat bobo ka din. So we have to choose our company wisely. Kapag hindi mo na gusto yung treatment nila sayo, don't be afraid to cut ties with them.
Ganon din sa family. Minsan kung sino pa yung maka-Diyos yun pa yung mga mapanghusga. Wala nang nakitang tama, lahat mali. And since I can't completely cut ties with them, I just limit my time around them.
Sa relationship, kapag emotionally draining na and your positive feelings for them are starting to fade away. Tapos you can't be yourself around them na at hindi ka na naggrow kasi mas madalas nililimitahan na nila yung buhay mo. Iwanan mo na. Wag kang manghinayang sa taon, sa itsura o pinagsamahan niyo nung tao. Sabi nga sa kanta, "Too much love will kill you.". Been there, done that. At nanghinayang lang ako sa mga panahon na sinayang ko, na dapat masaya ako, na dapat hindi ako nasasaktan โ emotionally and physically, kasi akala ko pwede pang magbago, na pwede pang bumalik sa dati. Naniwala ako. Nagtiwala. Pero anong nakuha ko? Trauma.
So regardless of who they are, if they're toxic, it's time to let go. You can talk to them about how they make you feel and then move on with your life. And most importantly, forgive them. So that you no longer have to carry the burden of how they hurt you. โจ
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