Sweet Nothings

Born in Kauai, Hawaii (: Class of '16

[ambermaitrejean]

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

Our culture really romanticises the idea of a (usually male) brooding misunderstood loner who’s an asshole to everyone but secretly has a heart of gold, so it’s frighteningly easy to meet a guy who treats everyone around him badly and believe without evidence that he has a heart of gold. 

Don’t fall for it.

And a lapse in cruelty is not evidence of kindness.

[chipper671740-deactivated202006]

Our culture tells girls that boys being awful to you it’s okay because they actually like you and don’t know how to say it.

Don’t believe this shit.

[thecommonchick]

I LOVE THIS

[needsmoarcat]

[kittymudface]

It gets better—the guy is deaf, and he taught his cat the sign for “food.” So the cat’s not just saying “put that in my mouth,” it’s actually signing

[lutefiskcrowsandbeef]

Not only that, but if you notice at the beginning, the cat *gets the man’s attention* as any person who wanted to talk to a deaf/hoh individual would (well, and vice versa IME). I’ve done sign since I was 5, and generally, w/o eye contact initially, you wave a hand or lightly touch the arm (if that’s ok with the person you’re trying to converse with, of course).  Generally, adult cats meow mostly to humans, but this cat has figured out that’s not going to work and has adapted. Animal companions! They are INCREDIBLE.

[leannewoodfull]

Amazing.

[fromseveralroomsaway]

EVERYONE STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND LOOK AT THIS CAT.

[oldgray-blog]

this is pretty remarkable 

[bakwaaas]

i don’t want a guy who will drop his hoes for me, i want a guy who didn’t have hoes in the first place because he has morals

[itsagifnotagif]

I actually have so much love for dogs

[kushandwizdom]

my mom told me.. “a person who values you, wouldn’t ever put themselves in a position to lose you.” and that really hit deep.

(via kushandwizdom)

[spunkh]

[fuckyouandyourwhiteceodad-deact]

[weloveshortvideos]

The coolest bumblebee ever.

[fangirltofangod]

omg unmute, it’s so innocent

[mischievous-rabbit]

camera person: “wave” bee: *raises arm* camera person: “yaaaay, what’s up mr. bumblebee?”

[lagonegirl]

Since 2010, every senior class has had 100 percent of their students admitted to college, the school’s website says. The school’s motto is “We Believe,” which serves as a reminder “that Urban Prep students will not fall into the trap of negative stereotypes and low expectations,” the school’s website says.

#BlackExcellence #BlackPride

[stability]

[angryblackgirlrants-blog-deacti]

The truth.

[dickprintbandit]

lawd.

[micdotcom]

Ariana Grande took an awesome stand against sexism and objectification last night on Twitter, relaying a story in which a fan asked if her boyfriend Mac Miller if he was “hitting that.” Grande made it clear that language like that towards women is simply not OK — and continued to engage and educate fans in the replies.

[inkskinned]

Can I tell you a secret? You don’t have to be in a relationship.    I mean it. I know they force it down your throat until you choke on it. Girls aren’t pretty unless they’re wanted. Boys aren’t men unless they’re having sex with someone. People aren’t lovable until they’re dating someone.    But a relationship won’t always make you happy, and as wonderful as romance is, it isn’t the only love that exists. I have seen friendships that are deeper and more pure than couples who swear it’s forever - and yet the friendship is the one people ignore.    I have heard so often “nobody loves me” out of the mouths of people who are single. And it kills me because if you ask them: where are your parents, your teachers, your classmates, your pets - they say, yes, okay, but it doesn’t count. Of course it counts, love doesn’t diminish just because someone doesn’t want to have sex with you. In fact, doesn’t it sort of make that love more real that they want nothing - not even a date - out of you?   It is pretty to be in love. It’s magical, I’m sure. But it’s also wonderful to stop for ice cream in your prom dress with six other girls. It’s also wonderful to go visit the world with nothing but a bunch of buddies who are really excited about learning.    The problem is: we’ve made everything about “the one”. But maybe “the one” is just you, loving yourself, having fun, and being happy. Maybe instead of looking for our other halves, we should be piecing ourselves together.   Maybe I wasn’t born unfinished. Maybe I am the one who makes myself better.

Single serving size // r.i.d  (via drinkyourfuckingmilk)

[hplyrikz]

Clear your mind here

[thatadult]

sending “I hope you get that job” vibes to the people out here tryna get jobs

[theeeprotagonist]

reblogging for yall bc the shit worked for me lol

[blkmedusa]

Karma will pop me if I don’t