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Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
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he wasn't even looking at me and he found me
Aqua Utopia|海の底で記憶を紡ぐ
Alisa U Zemlji Chuda
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Three Goblin Art
Peter Solarz

izzy's playlists!
"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
Jules of Nature
we're not kids anymore.
Cosimo Galluzzi
PUT YOUR BEARD IN MY MOUTH

Kiana Khansmith
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Mike Driver

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@labyrnith
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'detach with love' shirt from 69herbs ⋆
i simply need everyone to understand that i am tired all of the time. literally at all moments. if i ever go somewhere and do something, it is not because i am somehow full of energy, but instead that i have carefully stored up all of my little bits of energy like a dragon collecting jewels, and am now vaporizing them all at once
suddenly remembered this poem as i was making breakfast this morning & frantically googled “poem remembered to buy eggs?????????” & somehow managed to find it & it utterly knocked the wind out of me just as much as when i first read it
Job interviews
The reason the work you’ve done on how you feel doesn’t seem like it’s working is because you need to do it until it works. It’s never been “this strategy will pull you up” it’s always been “here’s something you can do that will END with you getting out of that hole” the climbing still hurts and the being underground still hurts but that doesn’t mean it’s not working
*doing laundry* “this doesn’t feel better
*cooking meals* this doesn’t feel better
*exercising* this doesn’t feel better
*making art* this doesn’t feel better
*cleaning the apartment* this doesn’t feel better
*somewhere months or years down the line*
holy shit
tl;dr
Look at a stone cutter hammering away at his rock, perhaps a hundred times without as much as a crack showing in it. Yet at the hundred-and-first blow it will split in two, and I know it was not the last blow that did it, but all that had gone before.
Jacob Riis
mike’s hard past couple of months
oh hey sorry I’ve been distant lately…. I’ve been really busy having a brain that is bad
bedtime is a very difficult.
“you want to kill your circumstances”
You want to kill your pain
I really needed to hear this. And I am sure that others do too.
Meirl
snippet from opinion piece “Complex trauma, dissociation and Borderline Personality Disorder: Working with integration failures“ by Dolores Mosquera & Kathy Steele from the European Journal of Trauma & Dissociation (Vol. 1, Iss. 1, 2017), which is still one of the articles i think about most frequently
not all professionals believe that integrative capacity is possible in all cases, and alternatively adopt an inner family model to cope with a lack of integrative capacity which may present with symptom remission unable to be differentiated from actual integration, so the proposal of a formalized approach to building integrative capacity rather than necessarily ending at an assessment of said capacity is very interesting.
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18. Sequential steps to improving integrative capacity by working with parts
As outlined in the two cases in this article, there are somewhat sequential steps to working with parts and improving integrative capacity, as follows:
promote curiosity;
enhance reflective thinking and capacity to mentalize;
promote compassion and understanding;
identify when and why parts/voices appear: - when do they appear - what is the function/purpose/goal? - what are they trying to achieve; what purpose do they have? - how do they appear or respond to the moment? Are their coping strategies working or are there other ways that work more effectively (as in the case above)?
link impulses/urges/reactions with triggers to traumatizing events;
explore how parts experience therapy (or whatever is happening with the client in the moment);
promote collaboration and cooperation: - engage parts, help them feel they have an important role in achieving a better functioning; - model new, more effective ways of communicating and relating between parts, > What does this part think about what is going on?, What do you as the adult think about what is happening? Are there any other parts that feel differently than you do?, Can we listen to them too? > If parts are less developed and separate: What do you experience when you respond from the perspective of that part of you?
Introduce an Adult perspective. If the adult part can be present most of the time while being aware of and compassionate toward other parts, there can be better integration and less switching in the more dissociative cases.
Introduce common goals that are shared, accepted, and make sense to the whole system.
Prepare clients for future difficulties with parts of themselves, given that work is ongoing. The process may not always go as smoothly as the client wishes for. This normalizes therapeutic challenges, helps the client hold the dialectical tension between acceptance of where parts are and the need for change and avoids going back to conflictual responses between parts. Helping the client anticipate potential problems supports them in being more open and understanding to challenges from parts of their system (e.g., hearing critical comments or commands to self-harm, or voices that wish to avoid thearpy).
These steps can be followed in all cases where integrative failures are present. The main differences in the work will be related to the degree of development and autonomy of parts. In clients without serious dissociation, parts will be less developed, and dissociative phobias will not interfere as much as they do in dissociative BPD cases. Although there is still conflict in these clients, the work tends to flow more smoothly, with less resistance. Some issues can be solved by simply helping clients understand what their symptoms are related to, introducing adaptive information that was not available before, and working with and integrating core traumatizing experiences that are preventing better functioning. In dissociative BPD cases, dissociative phobias and barriers will be stronger and it may take considerably longer to begin resolving conflicts. Psychoeducation and cognitive work are not be sufficient in themselves, and integrating traumatizing experiences is not always possible due to the fragility of the client’s inner structure. The more amnesia the client has for the traumatic past and the less realization, overall, the more the therapist understands the client has more limited integrative capacity and needs to go slower.]
you fucking ??? you liar??? & the way you run hide & lick your wounds. i fill myself with ice.
you said forever?????