just because someone posts aesthetically pleasing photos does not mean they’re inviting sexual messages in their dms. there’s this weird mentality online where people think: “If she posts pics I find attractive, then it’s normal for me to message her sexually.” no. that’s not how basic social boundaries work. you can find someone attractive. you can even think someone’s posts are sexy. what’s not normal is going into a strangers inbox acting horny and expecting them to entertain it. that’s not confidence. that’s not flirting. that’s just being weird. the internet has made some people forget basic decency. porn culture and anonymity have convinced people that every woman online is a character meant for their entertainment. but real people exist behind these accounts, and most of us do not want strangers treating our dms like a comment section for their sexual fantasies. posting pics I like/fit pics is not an invitation. if you wouldn’t walk up to a stranger in public and say it, don’t send it in a dm. basic respect isn’t that hard.