hmm
I've noticed something strange in the last few days regarding the Pedro pascal community of fans and some folks have been very weird with their words and behavior in regards to what they see about or think they see regarding his personal romantic life which is precisely why he doesn't share that part of himself with anyone.
So, now I see a shift where some of ya'll don't like what you see in a pic or what you think you see, you have taken him off the pedastal you placed him on.
I have seen comments like:
"Oh well i think he's changed since materialists."
" He seems more full of himself." "
"He's more arrogant and attention seeking."
" He seems like he's trying too hard."
"He's changed. he's not the same."
But what's really happening in the Parasocial relationship you've developed with him and this perfect image you have of him in your mind has shifted because you feel his behavior doesn't match up with who you think he is. And so because of that, to deal with the distress you're experiencing, you have to find reasons why he isn't that great lately anyway. He's fake...or he's changed....or he's arrogant now etc.
But the reality is...we see Pedro in media. We see Glimpses of him. We don't see the whole person. He has shared intimate details of some of his personal life with us but at the end of the day, we will never really see everything.
Listen, I love Pedro. I have followed his career since his big break. I really started following him during Narcos and to me, he is the same. Albeit more reserved with the stardom he has garnered.
I am a clinical social worker. A therapist by trade and I also read energy pretty well. Pedro, for the most part, is pretty unproblematic. I am not saying he can be free from criticism. But, the things I have been seeing to me, is just a reaction to him challenging who you think he is.
Energetically, Pedro is shy. He is genuine. Authentic. Kind. Funny. Sad. Humble. And he has confidence issues. NO, i do not know him personally, but this is what I have gleamed of him in media.
I'm rambling at this point, but i felt compelled to say something. I think Pedro does deserve some grace and respect. I think it's important to know the fan relationship you have with a celebrity needs boundaries and you don't have to devalue the person when they are doing something that doesn't appear harmful to you directly or other people.
