Please help! Urgent!
I recently had an extremely unfortunate situation.
Last month I moved in with my S.O. and her family. We quickly began having issues and it was clear that I was unwanted. I tried to break up with her and she begged me to stay. I agreed under the condition that she addressed my concerns. 2 days later, she broke up with me. Four days before my birthday. She proceeded to spend the next week manipulating me. Between the gaslighting and telling me that she needed me to “try harder” if I wanted her to love me again. I spent my (very little) birthday money taking her out, and she spent the whole time on tinder. She said I was being controlling and manipulative when I broke down crying.
The next day I told her that I was going to spend the night at my dad’s, and she responded with “if you leave then I can’t promise I won’t move on”
She intentionally made comments comparing me to my mother (my mom was incredibly toxic and abusive, and she’s addicted to a variety of drugs) knowing that my biggest fear is ending up like her. She screamed all sorts of insults at me, while I was having a full blown panic attack trying to pack my things. She even went so far as to punch me in the chest/shoulder when I stood up to her.
I finally got to my dad’s and I got to rest for a night. I went back the next day, only for her mother to tell me I was no longer allowed to live there.
I also had to pay my now ex $20 (for what was originally supposed to be my birthday present) to keep her from destroying my snowglobe collection I’ve been working on for 15+ years.
I’ve been staying at my dad’s, but I can’t stay here. He has given me until September 1st to find a place to live. I have a job 45 minutes away but I have no car/ability to drive. My boss is scheduling me off until I can get an apartment in the area, but I can’t get an apartment without money, and I have no money.
Please, please, please! If you can spare anything, anything at all, please do so. It took me over a year to find this job and I don’t want to lose it, but if I can’t get there, I will. My dad is helping where he can, but he has a baby on the way and he’s also providing for my autistic brother, so he can’t really cover the cost of me and my dog at this time.
Please, if you can spare even a dollar, it helps. And if you can’t, please reblog this post. Anything you can do helps.
My PayPal: paypal.me/KaijaW
Thank you. May you all be blessed.
























