Lady Nehemah

A glimpse into the inner mind of a modern woman.... A collection of random thoughts and musings of mine, including everything from funny pictures, political commentaries, fashion critiques, sexual fantasies, sharing literature and philosophical rants...basically, everything that goes through my head, without needing to be censored. Feel free to ask me questions, if something piques your curiosity, and I'm also quite active on the SL community as well, so feel free to look me up there if you're looking for more direct interaction. Also, I have Kik and YIM, though I'll give them out on a case by case basis, as I don't want to be inundated by messages from people where I don't know where they came from, heh :) Also, almost none of the artwork here is mine, I just collect things and repost them, or give them new descriptions, so let me know if you want something taken down or credit given to you.

[ladynehemah]

Recently you've posted about having a new boyfriend who is an Alpha (congrats btw). Has he ever seen your blog or does he have any idea about your blog? If so what were his thoughts? And if not, why not?

No, he doesn’t know about my blog, not quite yet.  Mostly I haven’t told him because of the cuckolding aspect, its a bit early in the relationship to let him know I like the idea of introducing other guys to it.  A new relationship is a complicated thing, so I don’t want to rock the boat too much until we get a good feeling for each other.  But I’m time, I’m hoping to share with him.

[ladynehemah]

At what point is it just too small for you?

I would love to say “It isn’t the size that counts, its how its used”, but honestly, that’s only like..60% true.  The difference between 7 and 8 inches isn’t that big, and skill is more of a difference there, but the difference between 5 and 7 inches is pretty damn big, regardless of skill.  I would say anything in between the 5-6 inch range is on the small side, but you can make up for that with good skill.  Once you start getting below 5 inches though is when it starts getting a bit too small to do anything about.  I’m not saying you can’t please a lady, just that you’re going to have to come up with some moves that don’t involve your penis in order to supplement things.

[ladynehemah]

"For a myriad of reasons, I have recently become much, much more attracted to black men than I am to white men." I would actually be very interested to hear you elaborate on these reasons a bit. Did they precede you getting a black boyfriend, or follow on after?

Who knows how we develop things we are and are not attracted to?  I have plenty of theories, but they’re all conjecture, as ultimately, I’m sure the differences between black and white guys are pretty vague, short of the skin color difference.  Given how powerful the urge to procreate is within me, I’m sure some of it is seeing someone with a wildly different genetic makeup than me, and nature loves diversity, so I think a large part of me is drawn to a man who is so genetically different than me.  Part of it also is that my parents are so widely different in their ethnic backgrounds (mom is Cuban, dad is Russian) so for me growing up, interracial relationships was the norm as well.  I'm sure there’s other aspects there also, that’s just all that immediately comes to mind.

[ladynehemah]

So at this point your basic message is that "once you go black, you don't go back" is very true and that everyone involved needs to accept it?

No, I would say for me its find what makes you happy, and embrace it with no regrets and no apologies.  For me, I have a thing for dark skinned men, so I’m embracing it.  Some women will only like white guys, some women will only like outdoorsy types, some like booky types, some guys like domming women, some guys like more vanilla relationships.  If you find something you love, run with it. 

[ladynehemah]

Would you like your Black Master to share you with his friends and choke hold you as he makes you fuck and suck each until they have all come deep inside your ovulating pussy?

Well I certainly do get weak in the knees at the idea of being shared, I’m not a fan of violence, so we can leave the choke holding off the table for now ;)

[ladynehemah]

The ir couple is from the Secret lives of bees movie.

Haha I feel sorry for people reading this now, I think that post is like...200 posts ago, by the time I got to this, haha.  Thank you though!

[ladynehemah]

I think everyone can agree that betas belong in chastity, but do you think betas belong in panties too? Seems more appropriate.

It depends on what you’re ultimate objective is.  If you’re trying to feminize him to be more like a girlfriend, then yes, that would make sense.  For me, I still want him to be a guy, to be my partner, not a girlfriend, so all I want to do is curtail and control his sexuality, not redirect him into being an entirely different person than he is.

[ladynehemah]

I have gone through some of your posts and I have to say it's amazing and in India there is a parallel movement where Indian Hindu guys like me who have small dicks with poor performance are slowly going pussy-free or at least giving assent to their lovely hindu girlfriends and wives to experience real sex with harder, stronger, longer better performing Muslim dicks. What are your views on it and can you create some posts to encourage Hindu girls and guys to submit to Muslim dicks.

Its interesting how different societies and cultures can formulate another group as their ‘superior’ in their mind, depending on what kind of history of adversity they have with them.  I am certainly happy you have found a direction that makes you happy, and are giving yourself into it entirely.

Now, just for the sake of disclosure, I  have never viewed African men as ‘superior’ in any way, I just feel myself more drawn to them, for me personally, they do more for me than a similar man of other ethnicities, but I don’t think they are any ‘better’ than other genders.  Its like...most women prefer tall guys.  We don’t think tall guys are ‘better’, they just appeal to us sexually more than short guys.  I also am  not entirely on board with the Muslim aspect either, but at the risk of alienating a lot of my leftist followers, I won’t go into that in any detail.

[ladynehemah]

No question from me, just want to say I love your blog. It has everything a beta boy could want. Keep up the great work. Us betas look forward to all of your posts.

Oh why thank you!  I always love hearing that people are enjoying my work, I’m happy to keep producing it for you!  Keep on embracing your role in life too!

[ladynehemah]

People often criticize female characters in comics and video games for having sexualized bodies, while male characters are muscle-bound power fantasies for men. However, some argue that big tits and ass are the female equivalent of big muscles on men, and therefore sexualized heroines are actually just female power fantasies themselves. Do you agree with this?

See, questions like this is what tells me that I live in the greatest country in the world.  While half the world’s population is wondering where they will get clean drinking water from, the issue that keeps us up at night is how big the boobs and biceps are on our comic book characters. 

Jokes aside, I think people are reading too far into media like this when they start ascribing some kind of hidden societal motive and meaning to fictional characters like this.  Comic are a fantasy, an escape for people.  So, in people’s fantasy, they want to be buff and manly, and they want the woman to be sexy and beautiful.  Its not sexualizing anything, men or women, its just a supplier of a product supplying a product that's in demand: tales of buff men and beautiful women doing amazing and fantastic things. 

[ladynehemah]

Just found your blog and I've definitely been enjoying it so far. Definitely going to be following and looking through more.

Oh why thank you!  I have to say, I'm delighted you reached out, I like a lot of your work also!

[ladynehemah]

I’m Back!

Back from vacation, and getting all settled in.  It might be a day or two before I start posting again, but I’m going to do my best to hack through all the asks and messages I’ve received over the past several weeks, have a wonderful new year all!

[ladynehemah]

Vacation!

Attention all my loyal blog followers, I'm on vacation, so don't expect any blog posts for a bit. Don't worry, I haven't left, I'll be back when I can sit down at my computer and write. Expect some them to start showing up after the first week of January. Happy New Year all!

[ideservenewshoesblog]

Ralonda - Black Heels by Shoedazzle

[ladynehemah]

Hello girls...

[tastefullyoffensive]

Bad to the bone. (via aden34)

[thenatsdorf]

Dancing added to classic Christmas movies. [full video]

[ladynehemah]

me: *does weird things when home alone*

me: I bet there's hidden cameras