I usually save posts like this for the middle or end of the season. But the situation has escalated way too fast and too ugly for me to stay quiet.
And I’m saying this as someone whose blog is literally about Toto. I’m a fan of the team, I admire him, and yet I’ve still spoken up whenever he does or says something I don’t agree with. Because you can be a fan and still have critical thinking. What you can’t do is lose basic respect.
The attacks on Toto and the team started from the second race. Constructive criticism has always been fair game. The problem is that they crossed the line a long time ago. This isn’t just scattered opinions or one or two hateful tweets anymore. Now they’re organizing on other social networks to spam the team and Toto with hate. You even brag about it yourselves. And you seriously think wishing death on someone, staging fake funerals, or saying you’ll celebrate the day he dies is going to change anything? That Mercedes is going to read that and think, “They’re right, let’s change course”?
Everyone is free to build their own theories about what happened in the race, what was said on the radio, or the strategy, that’s part of the sport. But jumping from that to claiming it’s sabotage? That’s a huge leap. Who in their right mind believes a team would throw away millions, development work, and the Constructors’ Championship just out of spite, just to hurt one driver? Do you even hear yourselves when you say that out loud?
And yes, it scares me. It genuinely scares me what could happen at a GP to Toto, to Bono, to any team member or their families. It worries me even more because there’s a part of the fandom that doesn’t just do this, but actually applauds it. You see them commenting “Whole house is mad” when someone wishes death on another person. Celebrating the hate like it’s an achievement. Normalizing threats as if they’re just part of being a fan.
Some of you might think I’m exaggerating. I say that hate gets normalized in comments until one day it stops being just comments. Never say “it could never happen.” Because when you have hundreds of people cheering for someone’s death, you’ve already created the perfect environment for one of them to try and make it real.
So please: be respectful. If your anger has reached the point where you think threatening someone or wishing them dead is a valid reaction (and this isn’t the first time with Toto), stop. Seriously. Close the app, go get some fresh air, disconnect for a while. I promise that once you calm down, you’ll realize none of this is worth your mental health or your humanity.
And get this through your heads: you’re not doing your driver any favors by acting like internet trolls. Don’t think he’ll be proud that people are wishing death on his team principal, his engineer, or his entire garage side. He won’t be. All you’re doing is making him look bad and dragging the rest of the fandom down with you.
Stop measuring who’s the “better fan” by who throws more hate. Being more toxic doesn’t make you more loyal. It just makes you toxic. And posting “Whole house is mad” while harassing a real person isn’t funny. It makes you complicit.
Please, just be respectful.