the BEST dynamic between any two mdzs characters that are not immediately related is like. being extremely judgy about how the other one treats their sibling. the sheer Contempt they have for each other for how they handled family dramas, it's beautiful. and painful. there is so much.
like, nhs? nhs, planning his great revenge, looks at jiang cheng and cannot fucking believe jiang cheng had the audacity to 'disown' and 'kill' (nhs does not have all the details) his own brother. looks at lan xichen who let his didi get whipped and, being a spoiled youngest child himself, has no inhibitions about hurting lxc for his own goals.
lxc? watching jc let wei wuxian descend into alcoholism and demonic cultivation? watching nhs ruin his own morals to get revenge, betraying every ideal nie mingjue stood for? he keeps quiet because he is lan xichen, hes got that oldest daughter syndrome, but oh, he does have opinions.
jc, the youngest kid, feeling the pressure of being the sect heir since forever, becomes the sect leader as a fucking teenager and watches the nies - watches nie huaisang being absolutely NOT prepared to take over. thinks about how nie mingjue knew he had no other heirs and still spoiled little sangsang, allowed him to become the headshaker. jc post-canon, always having been judged by lwj for letting wwx isolate himself - now watches lwj let xichen go into seclusion. ironic.
wen ning? forever bitchy about jc letting wei wuxian down during the burial mounds era.
lwj? obvious issues with jiang cheng.
nmj considers wei wuxian a traitor both to yunmeng jiang and to jiang cheng.
everyone except for maybe lwj thinks wen qing a monster for allowing her brother to become the ghost general.
even better, it's not like they think that themselves they were 100% Right. they are also bitter about their own actions, they also regret many things. nhs couldn't ever face his brother again after what he did for him. wei wuxian hopes the secret about the golden core is never revealed. wen ning wishes his sister hadn't led them to jinlintai. lwj stares at the quiet hanshi, the lonely shadow inside it.
there are no correct answers! there are no good solutions! there is just a bunch of adult people who made choices and watched others make choices and are extremely bitchy about those choices.
anyway. i love all of them.