But did Epic Calypso really act in an abusive way towards Odisseus during those seven years on Ogygia?
I don't know, does Odysseus look like he shared seven years in there with a friend? Does he sound like he wants to spend one more second with Calypso? Because normally in fantasy stories when two prisoners share years in the same space, if they are on the same ground, they develop a bond. They share, they talk, they become friends. When one gets freed, they'll at least wish they could take the other with them.
Why does Odysseus feel he has the need to threaten Calypso with killing her? Why is he suicidal and begs her to give him space? Why doesn't he feel sad for leaving Calypso behind? Well, he's so particular and also tummy hurts. Or, something is off with Calypso.
I will not psychoanalyze fictional characters. I'm just saying Calypso is one of the monsters Odysseus is meant to endure on his trip home. Whatever name you want to put on the way she hurt Odysseus, her role as a character is not a companion.
Now, this is the part where I get serious. What moves me to write this is not that I care immensely about Odysseus, again, a fictional character. It's that our attitude towards Calypso mirrors the attitude society has toward abusive situations. Where instead of focusing on the victim's experience, we'll trust our eyes and ears more to decide things happened/didn't happen, when we were never there in the first place to witness them. You have a person, a second person who's clearly uncomfortable and avoidant towards them, and you'll say "but I didn't see it happen". Or, "but they are so loved by the community!"
So, idk. I will not try and draw a huge conclusion here. Just give it a thought.