50. What is something you hope to have accomplished this time next year?
October 2015: Finish a shadowing program for the marketing job and have gotten a full time marketing position that pays 60k starting.
49. What are your plans for the weekend?
I have work tomorrow & Sunday morning. I haven't made any plans yet, but lately Sundays usually involve getting lunch with my boyfriend and having people over for drinks & dinner in the evening.
48. What is something you are looking forward to in the coming week?
There are 4 things:
- Brunch with Paul
- Halloween, even if I'm working, I love this holiday.
- Receiving my Note 4! iPhone can suckkkk it.
- Seriously starting my hunt for the best puppy ever
47. Are you happy? Yes, for 4 months straight now :P but really, I'm happy, I have never been so positive in my entire life.
46. What are you doing tonight? Going to figure out what to do for dinner with my handsome boyfriend and have an us night ;)
45. Whats your favorite soup?
Matzoh ball soup
44. Your favorite sandwich?
Paul has me addicted to chicken parm with vodka sauce!
43. If you could have any food right now, what would it be?
Cheesecake factory dinner & dessert
42. How do you take your coffee?
Iced-caramel&mocha mixed-light & sweet
41. Who inspires you?
A lot of people. Anyone who possesses a trait or skill I wish to sharpen or attain is an inspiration to keep pushing myself and raising the bar. Definitely my mother though.
40. If you could learn any language what would it be? French, definitely. Gaelic next.
39. If you could say something to your enemies what would it be?
I don't have 'enemies,' because noone poses any kind of threat to my life or quality of life. But as far as people who dislike or hate me, its simple-- I'd rather be me on my worst day than you on your best day.
38. Do you have any plans to change your appearance?
I'm growing my hair down to the middle of my back/stomach and then dying it a red ombre that fades to white blonde. It will be the last time I dye my hair an 'alternative' style. After that its just blonde shades again, but I really want my natural hair to be that long and red one last time while I'm in my 20s. Outside of that, I'm hoping to to lose more weight and get more tattoos.
37. A show you recently started watching?
Don't Trust the Bitch in Apartment 23 & because of Paul, Parks n Rec
36. What is something you miss?
Carnivals from the way I remember them in my childhood
35. Do you enjoy your job? Its the first job since Blockbuster that I dont hate. I would say I like it, I just cant wait to get those bigger checks soon
34. What are little things you appreciate or like?
- sitting on my porch when it rains
- crisp fresh apple cider with crumbcake
- the first cigarette on the drive home from work
- that perfect temperature you only achieve when you wake up under blankets on an autumn morning
- when my bf kisses my shoulder or arm when I'm driving and he's singing a long to cheesy songs
- hot showers
33. Your ideal pet? An australian shepherd or a klee kai puppy
32. A movie you would recommend? Boondock Saints. Its a requirement of knowing me.
31. Where have you lived? Various parts of Jersey and I spent a year in California.
30. Pet peeves?
- two faced behavior
- passive aggressive people~ just be straight forward, hate that childish bs
- people who walk or drive too slow in front of me
- overly flirtatious people. Calm yourself.
- obnoxious strangers
- being given the wrong food/drink when I order somewhere
- cliche tattoos with cliche meanings
- most democrats/liberals
29. What is one pet you would never own? A bird. I think they're annoying.
28. Where do you want to travel to?
A bunch of places honestly. ireland is number 1 though.
27. Would you live anywhere else?
I've been to a handful of states and a few other countries, I've lived on the west coast and so I can say most likely no. The only other place I'd enjoy living is New Hope, PA. And besides that the only way I'd move is if;
A. It was to a nicer area of Jersey
B. I got a marketing job that paid 75k or higher & had to relocate for it
26. What do you want to be when you grow up?
The marketing president of a company. I want to create the appeal of products or services, I want to decide on the content used in advertising materials and methods, and I want to help with strengthening the brand. Ideally, I'd like for this to include my own office, company car, and a M-F 9AM-5 or 6PM schedule. To paint a picture, I want to be a feminist modern version of Don Draper from Mad Men--a creative & innovative leader who goes on dinners and lunches with clients and contributes to their success, which results in my success.
25. Do you want children?
Yes, one day. 2, one boy and one girl preferably. But not until I'm 30 most likely. I need the next 5 years to finish my bachelor's degree (by December 2015) get married, build my career, get a house, enjoy married life for at least 2-3 years and then prepare to be a mom. I don't want to rush through anything or into being a mom because it will only lead to struggling and half ass parenting which is too common. I want to make sure the person who fathers my kids is as in love with me as I am with him, is secure and stable and that we have a very strong team work ability so we may provide our kids with great opportunities and comfortable lives.
24. Do you know what you want in life?
The previous questions answer this pretty well. But to answer anyways, yes and I have known for quite some time. I am a very decisive person. I'll add that I also want my relationship with the person I marry to include going on dates until we're too old to leave the house. I want to fall asleep in his arms or next to him happily each night-- going to bed upset or angry bc of a significant other is something I wont tolerate anymore simply because I'd never allow my significant other to fall asleep that way, I'd make sure they were okay beforehand. I want to host dinners with our friends, I hope that our kids can be friends with our friends' kids so we can plan some wonderful trips and events for them. I still would want passion to exist through out the years and for us to do nice things for eachother like breakfasts in beds, walks through parks holding hands, finding perfect views of the city from various towns, etc. I don't think the romance should fade, I think when you really love someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them & more importantly you want them to spend the rest of their life with you, you should always make an effort to be the reason they smile.
23. Have you ever been in love?
Yes, I currently am. I love my boyfriend very much. He is the strongest connection I have ever had with someone & I hope it only continues to grow.
22. Whats your favorite color? Green
21. Favorite genre of music? A lot of my favorite bands fall into nu metal/hardcore/and hardrock genres, however, I listen to a little bit of everything. For example, I've been on a The Fray kick lately and I go through periods of only listening to female artists like Fiona Apple or Florence & the Machine.
20. What is your greatest achievement yet?
I would have to say its the starting point to achieving all my goals. Reaching that starting point was an achievement all its own. When I say starting point, I'm referring to everything I got done the last week of August/first week of September: I moved into my own (no roommates) beautiful apartment, I got hired at my current job, I set up a graduation expected plan for my bachelor's, and I started officially dating Paul. Each of these was a huge step in the direction that leads to accomplishing bigger goals.
19. How many siblings do you have? 6, but I only talk to 4.
18. Do you have a good relationship with your family? Yes, its been getting better with age as well. I am so grateful to my parents, aunts & uncles, cousins, and siblings. They have each bettered me in some way or another.
17. What do you do for fun?
I'm pretty simple when it comes to this. I like finding new places to go to--little shops, hookah bars, restaurants/cafes, parks, scenic walks, etc. I like taking photos of people candidly. I enjoy coffee & conversation. Smoking and watching horror movies. Baking occasionally. When I'm stressed out or have an abundance of energy, I like to organize anything I can organize.
16. Describe your idea of the perfect sex life.
Personal but sure. The same one person for the rest of my life, to start. Second, I think every month should include these 4 types of sex:
A. One time when its completely sporadic/unexpected, keep it adventurous
B. One time when its the "making love" category and its maybe following those moments where you feel completely emotionally connected
C. One time after its been built up all day and you know you're going to do it the minute you get a chance because you're that into eachother physically
D. One time when where you have alot of free time before and after so you can literally take your time to enjoy every single second--where its right after a shower together and then followed by cuddling and either talking or watching a movie
In between those 4 times, I think every week (if possible) should include some sexual activity if not sex in general. 60% of the month, I'd like to have an active sex life with my significant other. 25% is automatically off limits bc I don't do the whole sex while bleeding thing, I just find it gross and uncomfortable. The other 15% I attribute to being too tired, too busy, or no opportunity presenting it self.
I am very direct before making any guy my bf that I am this way and carry expectations regarding this area of the relationship. Of course almost every bf said they were the same/wouldn't want it any other way, but besides the current bf, none had really kept up with this. And heres my opinion: I don't like the whole casual hooking up thing for myself as an individual, I am not into being with more than 1 person in a short period of time, and in order for me to want to be this sexual with a guy, I need to really like him/close to love him. I cannot get into sex with someone I'm not serious about, and when I am serious about someone, I want to be with them in this regard very often because I am reserved and I feel closer to that person when being intimate with them. Thats just me though.
15. Celebrity crush?
Eh..I think ian somerhalder is pretty hot.
14. What was your first job?
A bank teller when I was 15.
13. How old were you when you lived on your own for the first time?
I was 17 when I dormed in college for the first time, and either 17 or 18 when I moved into my first apartment with roommates. I was 23 when I lived in an apartment with just a bf for the first time, and now at 25 I have my own place.
12. Do you go to college?
Yes, I attend Seton Hall for marketing. 1 year left.
11. What kind of cellphone do you use?
Buying the Samsung Note 4 today :)
10. What social media site do you use most? Tumblr
9. What has been the best year of your life? I would say this year but it didn't start getting so amazing until July, well as long as things continue going this way it'll def be the best 6months out of any year of my life.
8. Whats your favorite clothing store? Probably Forever 21, Urban outfitters and Ross.
7. Do you have OCD?
Yes, with certain things definitely
6. Are you an introvert or extrovert? I am an INFJ. An introvert who appears extroverted to most people.
5. What are you doing tonight?
Buying my new phone with my bf, whos getting the same phone and were going on a plan together. First legal contract together haha. Than getting dinner together and relaxing at home.
4. Who do you spend most of your time with? Paul, Veida, and Jon when hes around now.
3. Are you more of a short term or long term relationship person? Long term. My shortest relationship was 6months, 2nd shortest 1.5 years and it only goes up from there. 1 that was 2 years, 1 that was 3 years, and 1 that was almost 4 years. I wont date someone officially if we aren't connected enough to last at least 6months.
2. Do you think you know yourself very well? Yes. I am very certain/aware of who I am and I am proud of myself.
1. Who do you think about before you go to sleep every night? Paul, sometimes my family if we talked before I called it a night.
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