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unfriendly reminder

this has been sitting in my drafts for a while so i might as well post it because people have recently been adding angry comments to my strap on post: to all of you who insist that since lesbians use strap ons and dildos, they MUST also like dick: strap ons dont impregnate you! strap ons dont infect you with disease! strap ons have a completely different texture than that of a penis! dildos and strap ons used by lesbians DONT EVEN LOOK LIKE DICKS! They are sex toys! not! genitals! They were created specifically for female pleasure! THEY LITERALLY VIBRATE! not to mention, dicks are attached to male bodies! with male secondary sex characteristics! with literally all the other things that lesbians are not attracted to! So stop saying lesbians have to like dick if the person it’s attached to ~identifies~ as a woman!

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from an article in spare rib: a woman’s liberation magazine no. 74, september 1978

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excerpt from hot wire magazine vol. 9 no. 1, january 1993

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i’m a lesbomaniac (self diagnosed)

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Support GNC girls and women

💚 Girls and women who shave their heads but not their legs 💚

💚 Girls and women who buy clothes from the men’s section 💚

💚 Girls and women who never wear makeup 💚

💚 Girls and women who stand up for themselves and one another 💚

You are strong, capable, and inspiring. You help show young girls everywhere what a woman can be.

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Sometimes when you’re depressed, you draw more Daphne/Velma ✨

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what did you mean by 'what happened to lesbians?'

I mean that this “soft clueless lesbian uwu” shit is not cute. It’s infantilizing and de-sexualizing. We are sexually mature adults and we can handle a date or a relationship just as well, if not better, than straight people.

I understand that part of that phenomenon is the fact that lesbians are wary of openly expressing sexual desire for another woman because of fear of an homophobic reaction. Lesbians are also wary of assuming another woman is interested in them because they don’t want to “read into it”. The myth of the predatory lesbian contributes a lot to this, we often don’t want to “inflict” our lust on some other woman.

But you know what, we ARE sexual beings. Lesbians ARE attracted to women. This is not wrong, or dirty, or offensive, and being so afraid of wrongly assuming some other woman’s intentions that you get stuck in anxious inaction forever is not fucking cute. It’s a sign that our society stills sees lesbian desire as something to be avoided, and something to be punished. And I hate seeing this being adopted as some cute little tumblr joke.