Why I Refuse to Hate My 30s
by Cassie Voisin
Lately I have been caught saying in conversation, “I’m almost 30!” People then seem to respond with sympathy. “I’m so sorry, that was a rough one for me.” “Oh my. You’ll be ok though.” I feel like some people want to freak me out about this milestone…
Well on January 22nd, I will hit 30 whether I like it or not :). I have to say, I have been very blessed in my 20’s. I started working for Life Church in November of 2005 (going to be 10 years this year!!!), met my husband/best friend and got married in 2009, had our first daughter Emma Rae in 2012, achieved one of my biggest accomplishments in 2014, graduating from college (that was a BIG deal for my family and I, first to graduate), and then a month later had our littlest daughter Molly Ann. Life is good.
It truly has been a decade of loving life, growth, finding myself, knowing my calling, building my confidence and just being ok with me. I have set the foundation for this incredible Woman of God to make a huge difference in this world, in this community, in my family, in my friends, and in myself.
I do have to say, getting older can be pretty amazing. I have collected a lot of knowledge these past 30 years. Lessons from my parents, mentors, friends, random people I don’t even know… I’ve learned from my successes, and failures. I have even learned that it’s ok to fail - a concept that took me a while to get, and I still have my moments! I’ve made amazing relationships, opened up to people, and loved more then I have ever thought was possible.
Most importantly, I have learned that attitude is everything. One of my favorite books “Developing the Leader Within You” by John C. Maxwell has a quote in it that I am absolutely in love with. It’s my anthem.
“We cannot choose how many years we will live, but we can choose how much life those years will have.
We cannot choose the beauty of our face, but we can choose the expression on it.
We cannot control life’s difficult moments, but we can choose to make life less difficult.
We cannot control the negative atmosphere of the world, but we can control the atmosphere of our minds.
Too often, we try to control things we cannot. To seldom, we choose to control what we can… our attitude.”
So powerful for me.
So now, I get excited for what my 30’s will bring me. Everyday is a new adventure and a day for God to move. Here’s to loving bigger, growing deeper, making better decisions, and going boldly for what I am passionate about. Life is a gift, live it and live it to the fullest. Thank you for sharing life with me Life Church Family! You make it EXTRA special.











