im meeting my ldr girlfriend for the first time in a couple weeks, we've only been dating a month but im so nervous and so excited at the same time. im only out to a couple friends, her, and my mom. im so scared to be out to anyone else, including the rest of my family. how do i get over the fear of rejection even if i dont tell anyone else? also, how do i stop overthinking ever little thing thats going to happen when i meet her, im scared lol.
Being nervous is normal when meeting your long distance partner for the first time. Just relax and breathe and you’ll be fine :) - once you’re with her you’ll forget about being nervous and everything will be fine.
As for telling people about her, it might take a while for you to work up the courage to do it, but ultimately it’s the best thing to do because then you feel more like a couple afterwards. Your family will want you to be happy, they won’t reject you or her for being together, if she makes you happy then that’s all that should matter to them. As for telling other people, their opinions shouldn’t really matter, if you’re happy being in a relationship with her, then don’t let anyone stop you. Nothing should stop you from being happy or in a LDR. :)
You can’t really stop overthinking things that might happen when you’re with her, however you could plan what you’re going to do when you’re together, for example if you want to go on a romantic walk or play video games or whatever you both enjoy doing. Once you’re together you probably won’t even have to think, everything will happen naturally. It might be awkward to start with and things might go wrong, but that’’s bound to happen the first time. But think about it this way, everything that can go wrong can be a learning experience too. Instead of thinking about everything that could go wrong, try thinking about everything good that could happen :)
Hope I helped - Let me know how it goes? :)Feel free to ask more questions or message me.