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29, bi and trans, poly and partnered, just wanted a place for my sapphic things

[leather-futch]

heyo, here to be horny on main. Wanted a place to put all my bullshit instead of screaenshotting tumblr posts and putting weird horny thoughts in my phone notes.

29, they/them, butch-ish, bi, poly and partnered 2x. Kinda vampire-coded. Sadomasochist and bottom-leaning switch. Bratty at times. Member of my local leatherdyke club, been part of the broader kink community since I was 18. Been on T for a couple years now.

I fuck around with some pretty hard kinks, so they'll pop up if I keep this thing up, will do my best to tag.

I like and might post about: sharps (needles/sutures/staples), blood, medfet(?), leather, boots and bootblacking, fireplay, intox, somno, cnc, kidnapping, rough body play, praise and degradation, bondage/suspension, dacryphilia, impact, biting, exposure and exhibitionism, genital torture/pain play, fisting, anal, knives, electro, a lil denial as a treat, non-woo primal stuff.

I just do my best to block what isn't for me and I'm not upset if folks do the same.

[unkillabledog]

cum seeking behavior

[gatheringbones]

[“Oftentimes when we think about preparing for penetrative sex, we think about the willingness and readiness of the penetrator: a penis becoming a boner, a dildo being lubed up. And yes, sadly, a phallus can usually make its way inside a canal whether the canal is ready or not. But wet and swollen pussies and rectums and throats are, simply put, better for fucking.

That’s one of the many advantages of fisting for people who enjoy being penetrated: unlike a cylindrical phallus, it requires patience and finesse to get the considerably bumpier shape of a hand inside. It’s easier for most penises to slip into most vaginas or rectums, but “easy” doesn’t necessarily translate to “more pleasurable” for anyone involved. Fisting emphasizes what the fistee wants and needs in order to relax and open, which changes the act of penetration from “let’s get this done” to “let’s take our time.” It’s not that it always requires hours of tantric foreplay: I’ve seen people swallow hands in a matter of minutes. But fisting tops and bottoms do need to be attuned to each other more than in any other kind of intercourse.

Adamczak mentions fisting several times in her piece (“a closed hand around a dildo, of lips around a foot, of a vagina stretched over a fist”). To my mind, getting fisted is the ultimate act of circlusion, even if the term itself refers to the penetrating body part. Fisting necessitates communication, patience, finesse, embodied listening, and active breathwork. This may go some way toward explaining why fisters tend to enter a meditative, trance-like state. Fisting requires intentional engagement from the bottom, because in order to take a fist you really have to breathe deeply, to communicate about slowing down or wanting more, to reach for the poppers, to ask for the lube. And these are all things bottoms could be doing all the time, but fisting takes us out of our assumptions that the bottom is there to satisfy the top’s lust, to simply take it. A fistee must be a size queen, someone who loves to be filled up with something massive. Opening to a fist is a trust fall for everyone involved. When your hand is deep inside someone, you can feel their heart beating back against you. Sometimes when I’m up to my wrist in an aroused, engorged bottom, watching and feeling and listening to and smelling a partner so aroused they’re thrashing and bearing down and grasping back and contracting over and over, I think: Why would you fuck a hole that isn’t turned on? Sure, I take pride in turning people on and driving them insane with ecstasy, but fucking an engorged hole is just more fun, like bouncing on a trampoline or being tossed into the air by a taut parachute, with all the verve that inspires.

It’s not just penises that enjoy being circluded either. Clit heads respond to pressing and smashing and mashing, especially once they’ve been teased into arousal. The suction of a mouth or pump toy vacuum sealed around the vulva can create the feeling that your junk is swollen enough to put inside of something or someone. “What matters is not what parts a body possesses, but rather, which parts are put into action,” concludes Adamczak, and this is a queer manifesto bigger than circlusion, bigger even than fisting. When we reinvent and remap our anatomy for the purpose of pleasure, we leave behind inherited anxiety and shame around what our bodies are capable of, opening wide to engulf the future.”]

tina horn, from why are people into that? a cultural investigation of kink, 2024

[pansylad]

need to be fucked from behind with my hands tied behind my back so i can’t even hold myself up

[kisseism]

my cunt feels sooo warm and soft btw. in case you're wondering

[angel-in-your-basement]

The doctor said I need all of your attention 24/7. Yeah, that’s what they said, that I don’t get enough attention. They said I have “attention deficit”.

[jessiewithaj]

sex, but instead of fucking you, we both get naked and i hold your head in my lap and forgive you for everything you think you've done wrong.

[jessiewithaj]

hey every girl rbing this with "please", "need", or somesuch, come here.

i am giving you a big hug from which you cannot escape.

i am squeezing you into my chest until all that tension eases and you can relax and feel safe in my arms.

[jessiewithaj]

happy Pride, all you traumatized, touch-starved lesbians <3

[dogeuphoria]

mean butch that makes fun of how wet i am or how pathetic I sound or how I clench around their fingers. butch thats 3 fingers deep and saying the most perverted shit in my ear and then making fun of me for just taking it. "youre really gonna let me treat you like this? oh you like when im mean to you, dont you?"

[olderbootbutch]

pussy from the front is so cute it makes me want to get on my knees and kiss it sweetly and open it up slowly and tell it how pretty it is. pussy from the back, however, triggers my werewolf in full rut transformation.

[lilnasxvevo]

the spirit is willing but the flesh is chronically ill

[ryebreadgf]

i'm hotter than i think i am but i'm also uglier than i think i am. won't elaborate

[sluttystranger-deactivated20260]

she's a freak but u gotta fuck the shy out of her first

[altar-of-flesh]

Bossy bottoms save me

[altar-of-flesh]

They will know

[technofeudalism]

i think the near-extinction of people making fun, deep and/or unique interactive text-based browser games, projects and stories is catastrophic to the internet. i'm talking pre-itch.io era, nothing against it.

there are a lot of fun ones listed here and here but for the most part, they were made years ago and are now a dying breed. i get why. there's no money in it. factoring in the cost of web hosting and servers, it probably costs money. it's just sad that it's a dying art form.

anyway, here's some of my favorite browser-based interactive projects and games, if you're into that kind of thing. 90% of them are on the lists that i linked above.

A Better World - create an alternate history timeline

Alter Ego - abandonware birth-to-death life simulator game

Seedship - text-based game about colonizing a new planet

Sandboxels or ThisIsSand - free-falling sand physics games

Little Alchemy 2 - combine various elements to make new ones

Infinite Craft - kind of the same as Little Alchemy

ZenGM - simulate sports

Tamajoji - browser-based tamagotchi

IFDB - interactive fiction database (text adventure games)

Written Realms - more text adventure games with a user interface

The Cafe & Diner - mystery game

The New Campaign Trail - US presidential campaign game

Money Simulator - simulate financial decisions

Genesis - text-based adventure/fantasy game

Level 13 - text-based science fiction adventure game

Miniconomy - player driven economy game

Checkbox Olympics - games involving clicking checkboxes

BrantSteele.net - game show and Hunger Games simulators

Murder Games - fight to the death simulator by Orteil

Cookie Clicker - different but felt weird not including it. by Orteil.

if you're ever thinking about making a niche project that only a select number of individuals will be nerdy enough to enjoy, keep in mind i've been playing some of these games off and on for 20~ years (Alter Ego, for example). quite literally a lifetime of replayability.

[bayesic-bitch]

it seems like in bdsm the "rewards" and the "punishments" look very similar. this concerns me a great deal, because it points to a system of misaligned incentives. if we're not careful, it's even possible that a rational actor could deliberately violate regulations, because the penalties for rule violations are in fact incentivized. one shudders to think of the consequences of such an arrangement

[greelin]

do you know how many times i’ve been sent this

[yourstruly9489]

@vamplire

[vamplire]

official vamplire post

[rowlfthedog]