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writing is just sitting in front of a computer and making up problems for imaginary people while ignoring your own. fun and casual hobby.

#tbh

baraphalloplastyclinic

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

ladyfoxfire

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

dressedupliketheking

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

#tbh #people severely underestimate how easy it is to become homeless #and the fact that there is such a high need for women's shelters specifically should tell you enough

revvethasmythh

I did have a better idea, but everybody said no. I can get into the fucking place!

#critical role #cr spoilers

I know that Robbie, Travis, and Ashley have been a little more subtle compared to other players at the table, but the moments when they do show vulnerability and glimpses of their past have been truly so impactful and wonderful to watch.

Teor's scene with his brother and reciting the poem their father used to tell them. Every single scene Vaelus has had with Hannan. Kattigan's cold open with Tyranny exposing the grief he's been dodging around. An absolute masterclass!

#critical role #cr spoilers #teor pridesire #kattigan vale #vaelus

All three locations for this big night are going to be really tense and fun to watch I'm sure, but I am most looking forward to watching Wick sit in on the meeting of the Sundered Houses. I can only begin to imagine the drama that's going to unfold there, goddamn.