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SWer, model, & artist. Bisexual transmasc femboy & part time woman he/him ♏🔞 23 $countfae

[lemonlavenderpoetry]

Metamorphosis I

Metamorphosis II

Metamorphosis III

A beautiful word, metamorphosis

a painful word, for change stings

like winter wind's bitter kiss.

Pain gives way to beauty, wings grow

while falling in the endless abyss.

Patience, not knowing if

I'm actually changing at all,

mourning the loss of

a bygone life I called mine.

But then I see, through bloody tears,

the image of who I am becoming

all the long and painful years...

Worth it, for this power I can hold

pushing through chocking fears.

[lemonlavenderpoetry]

[oliviawebsite]

stepping outside for a smoke after the rain and wind has died down is absolutely blissful. silence stillness and lingering gray clouds in transit. the sounds of water dripping from the eves and treebranches. the beauty of earth as she is

[transandrogyny--turtlebug]

How come bisexual men get to call themselves gay or bisexual interchangeably, but if bisexual woman calls herself a lesbian, she gets her whole upper body bitten off cartoonishly.

[aranock]

Because TERFs and bioessentialists and others that are similar have created a mentality of people "taking away lesbians" and lesbians and womanhood as this sacred thing that must be protected from those that wanna take away from their space and their "sanctity." You can see it in the "they are dtealing our lesbians" stuff thrown at trans men, or the "men are trying to invade our spaces" thrown at trans women and trans masc lesbians and multigender lesbians and lesbians who use he pronouns and butches and especially those who fit into multiple of those categories. It stems from exclusionism of that type, the belief that identities need to be policed. They think there is a platonic ideal of lesbian, the cis gold star lesbian. It also connects to some peoples view of bi people as being not really queer, as if theres some like queer test you have to pass to earn being a lesbian, or any other queer identity for that matter see transmedicalists or anti bi sentiment in gay mens spaces(which is rampant too) or people who think ace and aro people are not queer enough.

All of them are fools and all of them are erasing queer history. Lesbian has always included bi people and trans people and there is no perfect platonic ideal, this box you can place around a label, for any queer label. So call yourself whatever you want and change it if you need to because in the end labels are tools, ones we should use for connection not division.

To the exclusionist pathetic weirdos, have fun being disconnected and miserable I'm going to be having a lovely time with all the lesbians you are too pathetic to love. I hope someday you can get over your puritanism cause you sound like christians at a witch burning.

[ziggy-solarecreator]

Proper boundaries

[hedwig-dordt]

it’s an important distinction. You cannot CANNOT control what other people do. You shouldn’t want to, but that’s another kettle of fish. You have control over you.

[emotionalsupportdaddy-deactivat]

Aftercare ideas that aren’t just “cuddle”: presented by yours truly:

• Give each other back scratches/massages, bonus points if you hold each other and scratch each others’ backs at the same time.

• Have one partner lay on the others chest and let yourselves both decompress.

• Tell each other your favorite part of your special time and give them reassurance that it felt good.

• Play a game that can be played together in bed (do not nut in her and get up to go play val.)

• Make a shared playlist you can both add songs to and listen to it together.

• Have water/snacks on hand before starting so neither one of you has to get up and you can cuddle n recharge.

• Hair play!! Run your fingers through their hair, scratch their scalp, ruffle it gently, etc. hair play is one of my favorite forms of physical affection ngl.

• Give each other your clothes to wear (bonus if you’ve been wearing them so they smell like you).

• Taking a shower together where you help the other person to wash back, arms, not sexual, just romantic, and you tell them how pretty they are or hug under the water.

Never forget aftercare is NECESSARY, prolonged or not. dom drop is real, comedown is real, and aftercare will never be an optional thing.

[oliviawebsite]

stepping outside for a smoke after the rain and wind has died down is absolutely blissful. silence stillness and lingering gray clouds in transit. the sounds of water dripping from the eves and treebranches. the beauty of earth as she is

[themakeupbrush]

Caroline Polachek at the 2024 Grammy Awards (top) wearing Olivier Theyskens Fall/Winter 1998 (bottom)

[intersectionalpraxis]

[strangeauthor]

this isn't true there are still people in northern gaza do not fall for propaganda

[min0uet]

israel may have claimed this but it's a lie, there are hundreds of thousands of people left in northern gaza. do not let them be erased

[northgazaupdates]

There are still some 800,000 people left in northern Gaza. They have no functional medical facilities of any kind, no food, no water, no electricity, no wifi, and receive absolutely none of the humanitarian aid that enters central and southern Gaza. Israel is counting on you believing their lies about the north so that you will look away, so that they can kill those 800,000 people without interruption. Do NOT let them.

The number one thing people in north Gaza are asking for is that we tell their stories, so that they don’t die nameless and in silence. This blog shares updates from people on the ground in northern Gaza. Please follow those people and boost their content.

[passionpeachy]

How To Find A Sea Unicorn (reupload)

[yuumei-art]

Starfire Dance~

[marzipanandminutiae]

Saw the most fucking morally bankrupt oil and gas ad on TV during the Macy’s parade today

A woman goes into labor – because of course they have to tug on the heartstrings – and she and her husband rushed to the hospital. Only to find the whole room is empty! Oh no! A magical nurse appears and says something about how this is what the hospital would look like with no oil and gas. But then – hey presto! Equipment and chairs and signage start appearing again! This is all the stuff in our world it’s made possible by oil and gas, so clearly we still need that!

Notice how they neglect to mention why we make everything out of oil nowadays, or why that’s apparently so great. When, you know. Our reliance on plastic is actually terrible for environment and potentially our health, and it really doesn’t need to be used to make things except for a few very specific purposes (single – use medical equipment, etc.).

Genuinely hope everyone involved in that one steps on a tack

[valtsv]

fuck off it's not a collar it's to hide my decapitation scar. my head will literally fall off if you take it off it's not a sex thing. the decapitation was a sex thing though yeah.

[theconcealedweapon]

[boyflesher-deactivated20230106]

im like if a dead body was alive

[kleefkruid]

My cats have this meow that means "please come with me to fix this" after which they'll lead me to the problem in question, usually a empty (or 'empty') food bowl or a closed door they want open. They look at the 'problem', they look back at me, clear message.

What fascinates me is how this illustrates what they percieve as being in the realm of my 'power.' I control the food, I control the door, sure, but my cats love to sit on the balcony in the sun, and it has happened plenty of times that on a rainy day they come get me, go to the balcony and show me... the rain. "Please fix this" they say. "Please get rid of the wet"

"Silly kitty," I say, "I can't control the rain." I then walk into the shower and turn on the rain.

[bunabi]

Using a fear of Palestinian revenge as justification for the occupation is both wild and familiar

Aint nobody thinking about vengeance after getting freedom 😭 all we wanna do on this planet is drink chilled juice and not die

[appendingfic]

Also “we need to keep oppressing people to keep them from retaliating for all the atrocities we committed against them” is not the winning argument you would want if you’re the one using it

[slopaganda]