i can see that you're the devil's pride

do i look like the kind of man who dies?

[womansart]

Lady Mouse in Mob Cap, Helen Beatrix Potter, c. 1902

[fuckmountain2-deactivated202204]

[generalpostoffice-deactivated20]

polyamory people be like, you should reprogram your brain to be okay with this

[generalpostoffice-deactivated20]

just eliminate the superego and then you can fuck

[circuitous-revenge-deactivated2]

expose your brain to graphic sexual violence until this is fun bro

[liber-legis]

Each of the five people in my polycule meet a specific need I have because that’s what relationships are for

[lesbianmouse]

this was in a conversation with topdyke of all people, but here’s @thestrippershateyou saying that women who work in shady places should just have better standards to avoid being trafficked or hurt. that victim blaming isn’t a very cute look 

oh and.. wasn’t she talking about how lax her industry is earlier? wow, i’d hate to be turned down from a job because of how much i weighed! 

[thestrippershateyou]

No, that’s me getting pissed at someone who said ….

- I was homophobic on the grounds that I’m queer

- claimed I was straight repeatedly and said I’m not allowed to be queer because I’m a sex worker

- called me a fat pig and a smurf who looks like a man

- mocked me for being poor and talked about how she made so much more money dancing than me so that makes her better than me

- repeatedly portrayed me exactly as I said, as some one dimensional caricature who’s sole motivation in life is cock

I AM A HUMAN BEING. I am allowed to be angry. I am allowed to feel pain. I am allowed to snap and go off on people who fucking dehumanise me. I am allowed to give someone a taste of their own victim blaming, dehumanising medicine. I am allowed to have emotions. Sex workers are no automatons who take your abuse in silence and feel nothing.

You even point out who who this was BECAUSE YOU KNOW how they treat sex workers and you know if a radfem got treated like that and snapped you’d be okay with it.

Btw? If you don’t want to be turned down at a job for your weight then don’t ever be a ballerina, model, actress, gymnast, really any form of athlete at all, or even a fucking flight attendant. Sex work ain’t the only ones that do that and Denver has some of the most insane body restrictions in the country. Just as all cities aren’t Miami, they aren’t all Denver. Btw, know what else Denver has? Some of the safest fucking clubs. Female run clubs. They’re picky because they’ve got women from all over the world flying in to work there and,much like the NYC fucking ballet, that means they get to have their standards sky high.

[lesbianmouse]

‘you’re apparently okay with working in miami rape dens and i’m not. i have standards.’

‘just because YOU chose to dance in one of the most dangerous areas in the country...’ 

‘you don’t work in miami unless you want to have sex for money because you will anyways’ (irdc if other dancers told you that, it’s still victim blaming!)

and very importantly: ‘every strip club and every dancer is not responsible for your bad decisions.’

(emphasis mine!)

i mean, women who work in clubs like those must subject themselves to it right? they should just have higher standards and move on, like the dancers like you with real standards. :’)

i mean... i’m opposed to a good amount of the jobs you listed too, for reasons that you wouldn’t even wanna understand if someone explained em to you. i live in denver btw and those sAfE eXcLuSiVe ClUbS are 1. trashy as fuck and 2. financially exploitative of their dancers. :) 

[lesbianmouse]

some people know exactly what’s wrong with their bodies in such a specific way and im here just like ‘ow ‘

[lesbianmouse]

this was in a conversation with topdyke of all people, but here’s @thestrippershateyou saying that women who work in shady places should just have better standards to avoid being trafficked or hurt. that victim blaming isn’t a very cute look 

oh and.. wasn’t she talking about how lax her industry is earlier? wow, i’d hate to be turned down from a job because of how much i weighed! 

[lesbianmouse]

i made $98 in cash alone today without having to demean myself or pretend to be attracted to men 😜

[delicate-doe]

Stop telling girls they have to be super heroes and not princesses. Stop telling girls that wanting to be a mother or a homemaker isn’t a real job. Stop telling girls that makeup isn’t art. Stop making fun of girls who like being in a relationship and looking for love.  STOP telling girls that femininity is bad. I thought being a feminist and being a woman’s rights activist was about giving women the freedom to choose. Stop the internalized misogyny. 

[powerfulwizard]

[thestrippershateyou]

Sometimes I wonder if any of these radfems who like prostitution being illegal realise a stripper going on stage with her shoes off is a violation of anti prostitution laws. Dancers kick them off all the time to be able to do dangerous pole tricks more safely and legally that’s the same as grabbing a random guy from the audience and getting paid to fuck him. I wonder if they know that it’s a violation of anti prostitution laws for strippers to wear flats in some places and the heels have to be a 3-4 inch minimum depending on your county. Strippers are probably the only job legally required to wear dangerous footwear.

I wonder if they know that prostitution laws in my county state that if I’m topless on stage and I get within 3 feet of a man then that’s considered me consenting to anything he does to me and, if he touches me without my consent, then *I* am violating the prostitution laws. He is not guilty of assaulting me. It is impossible to assault a topless stripper on stage from a legal standpoint. I do not have the legal right not to consent to being touched if I’m topless.

I wonder if they know that back when I worked in Florida a few years ago that asking a customer for anything at all besides lap dances was considered soliciting prostitution. And I don’t mean asking for other sexual services. I mean every 6 months or so we would have a few girls vanish without warning because undercovers came in, a dancer asked for a bottle of water from the bar or a $1 bag of chips from the snack machine, and the undercovers arrested them a few days later. Their full names, photos, and charges were often put on the evening news outting them to their families, other employers, and any customers who might stalk them. All because someone said “God I’m thirsty after that stage set. I’m dripping in sweat. Can I have some water?”.

I wonder if they know that having visible pubic hair in a non nude club is considered nudity and is a prostitution charge. Dance panties sit much lower than regular panties and thongs cover pretty much the bare minimum so most pubic hair is visible in standard dance wear. I watched dancers at my club in Florida get sent home for having stubble. I am legally required to be shaved almost as bald as a 5 year old. Y’all talk about how it’s so evil that society merely pressures women to shave but y’all support laws that make me LEGALLY REQUIRED to shave and that will have me arrested as a prostitute if I don’t. 

Y’all are really out here supporting governments legislating our bodies. You’re pro choice because you understand a government should have no right to control people’s bodies and that women should have bodily autonomy. But when it comes to sex workers, you don’t believe in that anymore.

[lesbianmouse]

this coming from the same person who pretends her job is fun and empowering because she gets to ‘wear pretty outfits, flirt with her coworkers, and have customers buy her drinks’. the hypocrisy... astounding

[lesbianmouse]

me when mordecai interrupted muscle man and starla’s wedding to break up with cj and then everyone just like forgives him even though he’s a dick 

[godh8er-deactivated20220626]

r we not gonna talk about how much of a dick muscle man HIMSELF is? always talking about someone’s mother n being the definition of toxic masculinity. tuh. I have mad respect for Starla but maybe just MAYBE, muscle man deserved to have his wedding trashed 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[lesbianmouse]

oh another mordecai apologist just sweeping the way he treated cj under the rug? ? ? 🤔

[lesbianmouse]

do you ever wonder why this shit even matters? like i have endless compassion for women who are being hurt in systems they want to end. my compassion dies out when it comes to the women who GLEEFULLY defend those systems. women who profit from the suffering of others. women who refuse to look past themselves and see how others are hurt by what they’re doing. i’ve never pretended to care about men or their handmaidens, or anyone who would happily perpetuate misogyny because it’s not hurting them, personally. i don’t fucking care. and then, you know, people on tumblr are the most deliberately stupid people ever so that doesn’t help. but the thing is, nobody is on this site to listen. nobody thinks they’ve done anything wrong, ever. have you ever felt especially remorseful about things you do that make other people upset? idk if i have. i definitely don’t feel sympathy for strippers online or that one dude i called an ableist slur because he goaded me into it. what i’m getting at is that we’re all basically the same on here unless you’re smarter than i am and stay out of drama lmao. nobody has ever sought out an argument intending to change their mind, or someone else’s. we should all understand that nobody actually wants to understand us at this point. i’ve been here years and years and the only time i’ve changed my mind was when i was personally motivated to. i’m making bandit change the password of my tumblr later so i cant come on here (there are some things i want to save and reference though so i can’t just delete). this has been weighing on my mind for a really long time, like, i already deleted my insta weeks ago and my twitter as well. there is no point to any of this. social media is useless and has no positive impact on my life or yours. i am not changing my mind on gender, sexuality, or the sex industry, i just don’t really need to be discussing them or entertaining other people who don’t care on them. i also tend to get really upset because i’m unmedicated and severely mentally ill and then i become an angry lesbian feminist who just screams online.

if you want to be a mutual on pinterest, lmk, because that’s the only thing i’m keeping as of now… i will probably keep snapchat too since it’s the least discourse-y thing possible. other than that i’m done, i’m not playing this game anymore because it’s all so fucking stupid.

[lesbianmouse]

i’m sticking w this decision 

[lesbianmouse]

:3

[eastegg-deactivated20200528]

best homo oscar goes to that guy in hereditary who texted alex wolff “bring your dick!”

[lesbianmouse]

me when mordecai interrupted muscle man and starla’s wedding to break up with cj and then everyone just like forgives him even though he’s a dick 

[neonelven]

The tide is high by Susan Blase

[lesbianmouse]

@terfslying here’s @thestrippershateyou implying that i am abusive because i criticize the sex industry and my wife wouldn’t want to sell nude pictures :’)

[terfslying]

Hmmmmm no it’s implying you’re abusive towards sex workers because you’re dehumanising sex workers. For someone who is so keen on reading what other people “really mean” you’re shockingly thinly veiled on that one.

[the-bipan-anti]

People that sell nudes photos are not objects and fon’t veiw themselves as such. They’re doing a job they enjoy.

[lesbianmouse]

are you kidding me? she implied that my wife, a married lesbian, would be the one in the hypothetical situation. not actual, willing people who sell their nudes. and anyways, selling nudes is in a whole different category than literally having to perform survival sex work on the streets so you can try and make your rent. though plenty of camgirls get stalked and harassed as well, there’s really nothing glamorous about being a sex worker

[lesbianmouse]

the end to the drama