screaming into the void
so we've got, what, a decade plus to catch up on?
graduated undergrad, went to culinary school, dropped out, went to grad school, ended up near the top of my class.
broke up with college ex, she later came out as trans which, honestly, wasn't a surprise for anyone.
have had so many good and bad relationships, but currently in a very healthy, stable one (even if he acts like a child when i take him with me to ulta).
mom is now in middle stages of some kind of dementia. i have my theory as to what kind, but she refuses to go to any kind of a doctor. so she's been staying with my 90 year old grandfather.
i'm currently undergoing testing to figure out what the hell is wrong with me medically (hypermobility, but with additional pain and not enough other signs to point to any one thing).
i quit working in public libraries during the pandemic, i quit working in academia last year because the school i was at just...didn't give a fuck about anything except pivoting to AI use? i'm working in music and at a bookstore, and honestly, i love it?
i do still want to go back to school to get a phd in film studies because like, duh. but might wait till after boyo gets his degree and we have a kid first.



















