Self love doesnāt mean to accept yourself and nothing needs to change. Self love is loving yourself enough to be honest about what needs to change.
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Self love doesnāt mean to accept yourself and nothing needs to change. Self love is loving yourself enough to be honest about what needs to change.
Your life is yours to live. Make your own decisions. Make your own choices. Start thinking for yourself. Stop allowing other people to dictate your belief system. Tune into yourself, tune into your intuition. If you allow others to think for you, you will never create a fulfilling life for yourself. Only you know whatās good for you and whatās not.
As long as youāre your best friend and greatest supporter youāre on your way to creating a magnificent reality for yourself. You canāt expect that people who donāt work on themselves and never pay attention to their inner world will understand you. You donāt have to shrink into their limiting beliefs. Think for yourself and follow your purpose.
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motivating yourself
hey loves! as you mightāve noticed from all my posts a big thing i talk about is being consistent. consistency is the key to achieving your goals, etc. but one thing i know a lot of people struggle with is actually staying consistent and being motivated, so i want to talk about that now:
why arenāt you motivated?
your new routine is very different from your old one- thus your uncomfortable
youāre stressing yourself out and making tasks seem more taunting than they are
you have old habits that youāre set in, and making a drastic change is too hard
youāre losing sight of what youāre working for
thereās an external problem in your life, or mental illness
how to moviate yourself
find whatās going wrong. why arenāt you motivated? is it a lack of time, is your new routine too much of a drastic change? get to the core of your challenge.
find your why. this is the most basic thing that everyone says- find what youāre working for, find why you need to work so hard and surround yourself with that.
make small changes. if the problem is that your change in routine is too drastic, make changes that are more attainable. start with a small change thatās easy to stay consistent with.
work on your mindset. work on your self-talk, how you view yourself. a big shift we all need to make is a mental one where we believe in ourselves more and have more perseverance.
visualize your success. imagine yourself doing good, getting what you want, etc.
remember progress isnāt linear. self-improvement is never constant improvement. you mess up, you go through tough times and what makes you grow is learning how to get back on track.
take time to be mindful. take time out of your day to just meditate and think positively. it might not feel like itās working but after a while youāll begin to have a positive change in your mindset.
work on all aspects of your life. you might also not be motivated do to mental illness, external problems, etc. if thatās the case shift your focus towards those conflicts.
Everyday of trying is a successful day
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I pray in 2023 I am more organized, focused, driven, motivated, smarter, wealthier, and healthier. Do more things that feel fulfilling on a soul level. Alchemize every negative emotion and experience and trust it works out in my highest good. I romanticize life because the beauty we see in everything is a reflection of the beauty we see in ourself. š
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take yourself on a date. get to know who you are. learn your interests. prioritize yourself. we spend too much of our time out of touch with who we really are. we try so hard to fit in, to impress others, we lose sight of ourselves. itās time to put ourselves first. itās not selfish, it is self care. you cannot grow if you never change. you deserve the life that you dream of.
Discipline is the strongest form of self love. Itās ignoring current pleasures for bigger rewards to come. Itās loving yourself enough to do whatever you need to do, to give yourself everything youāve ever wanted. Itās giving up the good for the great. Itās about being relentless and having tunnel vision. Itās about believing in the long game and knowing you will accomplish the things you want.
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Inner beauty manifests in our outer beauty. You should spend as much time working on your inner self, as you do your looks.
Some feminine attitudes you can work on:
1. Happiness: when youāre happy with yourself you radiate positivity, joy and peace that is magnetic. You are a joy to be around because you make others feel good just by being around you.
2. Classiness: being classy is more than how we dress. Itās also about our attitude, our manners, how we speak and interact with others.
3. Kindness: being āniceā can be faked. Kindness cannot. Kindness comes from the heart, itās warm, loving, caring, and compassionate attitude that comes from a person who isnāt lead by their ego.
4. Authenticity: authenticity means being the real you, unapologetically. being the real you without living for others or getting triggered and offended by others thoughts about you is the core of self confidence. People respect real confidence and can see through fakeness.
~how to feel like a princess~
style:
find your style, and wear clothing that makes you feel good- ofc dresses, skirts, and flowy materials are most obvious, but wear what makes YOU feel like a princess
have a signature perfume
experiment with different hairstyles
add ribbons to your hair
activities:
have self-care sundays (do bubble baths, face masks, treat yourself!)
start writing poetry
keep a diary
find hobbies that make you happy
put on some music and just dance
watch disney/barbie movies :)
listen to music you love
spend time in nature (even if itās just a little walk outside)
take bubble baths
attitude:
walk with confidence, donāt let anyone bring you down
stay true to what you believe in, let your morals guide you
help others, through kindness and acts of service
donāt say self-depricating things, instead, shower yourself in positive affirmations, and be kind to yourself
practice gratitudeĀ
Little things for when youāre not doing great:
peppermint tea in your favorite mug
watching your favorite tv show
reading a good book in the afternoon sunlight
enjoying the silence and natural sounds of your home
buying your favorite snacks and eating them all in one go
going to the library and checking out books on topics youāre interested in
buying a cheap bath bomb and bathing in water slightly too hot
buying a new plant
going for coffee at a local cafe
a new journal and a fresh pen
making lists of everything (especially things you love)
buying a new fruit at a fun grocer and giving it a try
used books stores
finding that perfect vintage sweater at the thrift store
petting a sleeping cat
standing in the grass, putting your face toward the clouds, and feeling the soft breeze
painting something with cheap art supplies (bonus points if itās really bad and you frame it for the memories)
doing a load of laundry with all your favorite pieces
the first pages of your favorite book
wearing sweat pants all day
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taking a walk around the park
knowing that there are so many thing in this world that you havenāt gotten the chance to fall in love with yet