@death2america is extremely ablest
dont harass the account please just block/report.
it’s not worth your time to interact
sorry if this is out of line, but dont you think it's unfair for you to say this kind of thing about a disabled girl and then offer 0 explanation, context, reason, or source? isnt THAT ableist?
since you were nice about it I’m gonna respond bc I admit I should of had the full post ready before posting.
am currently working on a proper callout post with receipts and explanations.
not that it’s any of your business but I am physically, developmentally, and learning disabled. (My therapist thinks I also might be autistic but I haven’t been tested yet) So this callout is not made by an able bodied person.
regardless, I will have the full post with proof up soon and when I do I will take this one down.
sorry, im on another side blog here. i'm autistic as well, so i understand where youre coming from. i understand that you may not agree with everything she's said, but why would you take away one of her primary coping mechanisms and cause another disabled person more unnecessary suffering in a world thats already against her? do you really think it's your place to put somebody else through that? she's already going through so much, i just dont understand why would you feel the need to worsen her mental state and cause more harm to somebody who's already suffering? isnt living as a disabled person in this society enough of a punishment?
All I did was say “hay all of my 20 followers! don't interact with this one person and just block them bc they do a bad thing.”
How is that “causing suffering” or ”takeing away a coping mechanism“
its not like I harassed them and sent people to dog-pile them. (I explicitly said not to harass them and not to bother talking to them)
i'm really sorry that you went through that, but i never said you were harassing her. blocking her is completely within your right, you should block anybody that you dont want to interact with! however, instead of just blocking her, you were @ing her URL in a public post and calling her a piece of shit, and now you're constructing a callout post with the intention of having people report her blog, in an attempt to get it taken down. (her blog, which she uses as a primary coping mechanism.) correct me if im wrong, but that COULD count as inflicting emotional suffering and bullying another disabled person.
Again, I have like 20 followers and it pretty much won’t be seen but sure, sit on your soapbox and cry me a river. They literally memed about me so they clearly aren’t that bothered.
if this entire “thing” is too much for you to emotionally handle then just block me, I don’t care.
also; “but I never said you were harassing her”
Which is it?
idk i'm good. i'm sorry that i made you upset.
she did seem genuinely shaken up by the prospect of her blog getting removed, because its one of the only things thats keeping her from social isolation. but if believing that your actions hold no consequences helps you sleep at night, then by all means, stay in denial.
if you only have 20 followers and it wont be seen, why even use your valuable time and effort? what do you gain from calling out a disabled girl online?
I was mildly annoyed at worst, but now Im starting to get pissed so that apology is worthless.
my actions have done jack shit to her, the only reason I’m bothering to make a more detailed post is bc of pepole asking for receipts and bc of you.
I could ask you the same thing. What do you gain by arguing with a different disabled girl online???
I’ll respond to what you said in the notes here bc you can’t send pictures in the notes;
I was not aggressive, I made a single post. i literally told people to not harass them and they made a meme about this whole thing so they clearly are not that bothered.
but by your logic, could you technically be harassing me??? Jk but you see how flawed the logic is?
i aproached you asking a genuine question, and was understanding of your perspective and opinions while responding. you @ed her and called her a piece of shit while trying to get people to block her and get her blog taken down. how is that comparable to you? and how is that not aggressive?
i didnt go into this looking for an argument. i guess i was just naively hoping that maybe you'd try and have some empathy for a girl who has similar struggles to you. you seem like a person who's kind and willing to defend underdogs, so i figured i might offer a different outlook on the situation and that you might understand. i hope that one day you'll realise that you should uplift the people with similar struggles to you, rather than beating somebody who's already on the ground.
