[liketheherb]

Intro post

Call me Herb. I'm an aromantic sadist dom in my mid twenties, here to explore my interests with miscellaneous anonymous strangers.

I love inflicting pain, I love being in control, I love to take what's given to me and then take a little more. I love provoking reactions. I love to leave marks.

I'm a very submissive-focused dominant. I like to take submissives apart and understand what makes them tick.

My DMs are open for: casual flirtations, exchanging of fantasies, philosophical discussions about kinks, fellow dom/sadist pen pals.

I'm not interested in committed or romantic relationships.

[girlsadist]

Voyeurism as an act of sexual sadism save me

[girlsadist]

I just want to watch him get absolutely beaten and I want him to be aware i'm there and not helping him

[missthiss]

needles by Dennis Eymer. originally posted to BME on 12/6/11.

one of my favorite sets of all time. idk why its just always spoken to me :)

[abjure-obsolescence]

the masochist with sensory issues really liked when you bit it really hard on the arm, but can you please wipe the spit off now? please? ....why are you looking at it like that?

[theperverttiger]

holding someone in my place with my teeth while I fuck them… dreamy sigh

[bjuglee]

riding you with your hands cuffed to the bedframe, one of my hands covering your mouth, the other one around your throat. i wanna be selfish and use you exactly how i want, your pleasure entirely an afterthought. if you cum it will not be because i am trying to make you to

[diaryofagoodmutt]

my cervix said it wants to be bullied btw

[ace-trainer-alice]

Ok so like a few years ago, I got really into giving good compliments as a sadism thing. If your observational skills are good enough and you're half decent at writing and delivery, you can cause someone to shed tears, to struggle to even parse what you're saying and repeat it back over and over, and force them to engage with differences between negative aspects of their identity and reality. Most people just aren't very good at giving compliments, so a lot of people have a really low tolerance for it. I mean in large part I just really like making cute girls cry. But also this is probably not what you mean by having a praise kink?

[k-t-daisies]

the hottest part of masochism might not even be the pain itself, but looking at your partner and seeing how much fun *they’re* having. seeing that you squealing in pain turns them on. they Like hurting you. they get off to hurting you. in a cnc scene watching them as you beg them to stop and you start to cry and then. and then seeing that fills them with Glee. knowing that they see you scared and crying and they Like it. that’s the real good shit right there

[lustfilled-indulgences]

"i've got you" "you're okay" "it's okay i'm here" during sex,,, aahaahaa aheheeeeheee

[hunysckle]

what if we were in the middle of making out but i told you to keep still? with my hand on your jaw, keeping you in place. lips hovering above yours. keep yours parted just so, and don't move. don't kiss me back while i press my lips to yours, slowly kissing your upper lip before moving to the corner of your mouth, then kissing the other corner. hovering over you again, so close you can feel my breath but you can't do anything about it. kissing you again. and again. and again. slow, deep, loud, wet. eventually licking your upper lip, gently, relishing the way you twitch against my touch. tracing your lower lip now with the tip of my tongue. kissing you again. licking your lip again. over and over, just as slow as when i started teasing you. finally using my hold on your jaw to get your mouth open a little wider, just enough to snake my tongue between your lips and lap at yours. moaning into your mouth. kissing you hungrily, so so messy and needy. taking your face in both of my hands and pulling away to look at you. smiling at how heavily you're breathing after being denied something as simple as kissing me back while i played with your mouth.

go on, then. you can kiss me now.

[domwitch]

Thinking about penetration as an act of servitude. You're literally giving a part of yourself to someone else, you can't even see it anymore because it's no longer yours, it's theirs and it's inside them. Your body becomes a means to their end.

[pup-jpg]

It's always morally correct to cuff his wrists to the headboard and press a vibe to his dick and hold down his hips when he tries to pull away from it btw. If he says anything along the lines of "please it's too much" or "I can't cum again" that means you're doing the right thing. I know it may seem extreme but it's really important that you watch him twitch and cry pitifully and bite down on his lip to try and muffle a moan as he cums, eyes welling up with tears, too overstimulated to speak, cock still twitching reflexively. For his own enrichment.

[firm-hand-soft-heart]

I'd never kick a puppy, but a dog on the other hand...

[sockwolf]

"just let it happen" is one of the hottest things you can say during sex

[ace-trainer-alice]

also in the running for hottest noises a human can make is that specific kind of moan/groan/plea for attention that people who can't open their mouths or use their tongues make out of desperation.

[ace-trainer-alice]

[desperately horny voice] haha yeah did you know that studies have shown that vocal expressions of pain actually increase your pain tolerance? yeah, even if it's volitional, you should really be making lots of loud noises while you're in pain. please. if you want we can even practice right now.

[ace-trainer-alice]

this post was kinda funny because a section of the responses missed the word "horny" and were just excited for good advice/talking about an interesting phenomenon and another section of the responses read the word "horny" and assumed the advice was bullshit.

both of you are wrong. i am deeply horny about pain noises *and* reality conforms to my vision. yet another victory for sadists everywhere.