[heavensghost]

Soon you’ll get better // Taylor Swift

[lilac0205]

How do you tell someone you don’t like who they are becoming when maybe they’ve always been that way? What if you are just now seeing clearly? How do you tell someone these are the things I hate about you but don’t change because you should never change for anyone in this world, keep being you but just without me.

In the end I need to explain to someone that I can keep loving you, but I don’t want to.

[thoughtkick]

Don’t hang out with people who don’t love you. Don’t try to impress people who aren’t worth it. Don’t try to win people over who aren’t worth it … Focus on the people who are really awesome and who love you.

Beth Ditto (via thoughtkick)

[moominirl]

[neckkiss]

“I don’t hate you, but i’m done investing my time in you.”

— (hatin)

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Care Less about what Other People Think

1. Know what matters to you, personally – what you stand for, and what your values are .

2. Don’t be anxious about breaking social norms. The more often you do this, and go against the flow, the less it will bother you to simply be yourself.

3. Decide not to live as a people pleaser, or to get upset and take rejection personally.

4. Hang out with people who are self confident, who know what they believe in, and what they want from life. You’ll find their self-confidence will rub off on you, too, and you’ll start to worry less about what other people think.

5. Working on becoming more competent in the skills and areas that matter to you. That will naturally enhance your self confidence, and develop a self image that is strong and positive.

6. Travel, or spend time with lots of different people. That will show you how diverse attitudes and outlooks are. That is, there’s no one way of being – so find, and be, yourself.

[safe-haven-safe-place]

[serious]

[lilac0205]

I never told anyone as much as I told you and that’s the part that hurts the most

[zarathustra-would-be-proud]

[fxck-it3]

Maybe one day I’ll forget your birthday and won’t be sad the whole day

Maybe one day I’ll forget the smell of your cologne and the warmth of your hug

Maybe one day I won’t have to convince myself not to message you

Maybe one day I won’t look through every profile looking for updates on how you’ve been

Maybe one day I won’t wonder what or how you’re doing

Maybe one day I won’t reminisce our memories

Maybe one day I won’t think of you

Maybe one day I’ll forget about you

And when I do, and I will one day, when I do, oh god I hope you think of me

[londonfromparis]

“Of course, you never really forget anyone, but you certainly release them. You stop allowing their history to have any meaning for you today. You let them change their haircut, let them move, let them fall in love again. And when you see this person you have let go, you realize that there is no reason to be sad. The person you knew exists somewhere, but you are separated by too much time to reach them again.”

— Chelsea Fagan, How We Let People Go (via wnq-writers)

[perfectfeelings]

“If you have to beg someone to be in your life, they don’t deserve to be there.”

— Mandy Hale

[perfectfeelings]

“I will never give up on us.”

—

[heavyemptyheart]

“In this cold harsh world, it takes a special kind of courage to remain soft and kind. Build that courage. Be soft. Be kind. Be an example.”

—

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

currently in need of: “you’re my person” and dancing it out

[londonfromparis]

You never are fully gone. You may have left, and maybe I’ll never see you again, but you’re not erased. You still exist. You still come to mind. I can shove the memories as far back as I want, but it’s impossible to forget them -it’s impossible to forget you.