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[lildorker]

You can call me B. He/him. Late 20's.

This is my vent blog.

I do enjoy trying to give words of encouragement or advice, unsolicited or otherwise. I understand the heartthrob of pain, hard #relatable. Don't be afraid to ask me for the same- affirmation wise.

Please excuse the sprinkle of interests that I post, I can't help but share. It's impulsive. But whatever, it's my blog, eat me. Stay or don't.

I've also experienced a new thing online where I get overwhelmed easily, call me a little bitch boy, but I still want to be here to learn and enjoy what everyone has to say. I used to be a shitposter here when I was just a young'un, back in the good ol' days, so:

Please feel free to ask questions or correct me if I am wrong. Or just straight up tell me if I'm being insensitive.

It's a new world out there, dawn of new eras and shit. I have been sheltering myself and that isn't healthy. Gotta start somewhere.

Be kind to people.

Everyone is in pain.

[lildorker]

grumbles I think I'm losing my fixation

[partycoffin]

When you’re trying to get into the meat of your Canned Cinnamon Rolls, how do you open it

Whack it hard on the counter until it opens

Politely press down like the Packaging says too!

Huh??

Voting ended onJul 20

[lildorker]

supposed to catch up on sleep during the weekend but whatever brain lets just mull over the other week you spent in your hometown because thats so much more productive than not being able to zone out on video games or god forbid have a creative enough line of thinking to support your two-bit hobby of writing

i love that my sister can still do this shit to me. its her back n forth swing of "i need your help" and "im independent and gtfo of my face" some sort of absence makes the heart bs

ya no sis ill totally help you figure your shit out, try and move tf out of there or w/e but holllly shiiit if this old ass bitch doesnt even want (re: refusing to bc of x, y, and ztupid reasons) to go to work to pay the current bills she has?? nope, its fine, just have a mental breakdown about it and keep doing the SAME FUCKING THING the very next day.

i swear. love this bitch, will ALWAYS be there for her through WHATEVER she needs, but if she doesnt get her shit together soon

[turing-tested]

lindsey graham died??????

[turing-tested]

what the fuck is happening

[overcastboy]

[uncle-fruity]

[evilwizard]

just a heads up. im gonna do a big curse soon

[evilwizard]

okay so honestly i wasn’t expecting they’d be able to hide the body for this long

[evilwizard]

LINDSEY GRAHAM ?

[nitashinori]

That post about death note being "everyone's first anime" (untrue statement) made me curious and now I want to gather data for science

Can you reblog this and tell me where are you from and what was your starter anime?

[pikestaff]

"Stop saying 15 year olds with weird interests are cringe, they're 15" this is true however you should also stop saying adults with weird interests are cringe because who gives a shit

[themythicalcodfish]

To wit:

[switchelsweets]

I want to share some wisdom from my high school art teacher.

In my AP Art class, there was a girl who was just starting to experiment with mixed media. At this point she was still playing around, trying to decide what direction she wanted to go with her portfolio. So one critique day, she brought in an abstract canvas with some rhinestone highlights and painted and real peacock feathers. She loved sparkles and peacock feathers so she thought she’d try introducing them a *little*. And after everyone had given some input, the teacher gave her his advice, VERY roughly paraphrased here:

“So here’s the thing… I do not like this style. These are just elements that do not speak to me personally, but I see that you like them, and you’re doing interesting things with them.

“My biggest critique is, I only merely *dislike* this piece. I want you to make me HATE it. Go crazy with the things that you like. Don’t hold back trying to make it palatable to people like me. Because I am NEVER going to like it. And if the audience does not like it, it should drive them crazy seeing how much YOU love it.”

Her portfolio was chock full of neon colors and glitter and rhinestones and splashes of peacock feathers and it was a delight. Our teacher despised every piece lol, but she got great marks and I think even won some awards. And more importantly, she was happy and proud of the results. Because she didn’t limit herself by trying to appeal to people who were never going to enjoy what she enjoyed.

Takeaway here: be as cringe as you want. Don’t limit yourself based on other ppl’s tastes. They’re not you, and you are incredible 💕

[magnuspeccatori]

This is the most inspirational thing I've read all week. Possibly all year

[roguedeer]

Being asexual and racist is embarassing as fuck. Being racist at all is obviously embarassing as fuck but the amount of racism and especially antiblackness i have been seeing from asexuals recently is obscene.

One of the only asexual activists is Yasmin Benoit, a Black woman. She has raised so much awareness for the community. She was the first asexual person to lead Pride in London, she started the #thisiswhatasexuallookslike movement and is THE leading voice for the community.

And you all will celebrate international asexuality day on April 6th but we wouldn't even have that if she hadn't cofounded it.

Edit: why are you all too scared to repost this. Cmon. Be vocal about being against racism

[sanyu-thewitch05]

No hate to OP, there are other Black asexual activists besides Yasmin Benoit.

Marshall Blount: https://www.instagram.com/marshall_blount?

Ace in Grace/Ashabi: https://www.instagram.com/_aceingrace_?

Yagirllici: https://www.instagram.com/yagirllici?

This one is more of a group but there’s Black Ace Culture: https://www.instagram.com/blackaceculture?

Asexual/AroaceBarbie: https://www.tiktok.com/@asexualbarbie?_r=1&_t=ZT-97gFM9iWa3a

Kim Riottt: https://www.instagram.com/kimriottt?

Jacques Jacky: https://www.instagram.com/jacguesjacky?

[variegated-fairywren]

everybody start complimenting brown eyes NOW ‼️

[variegated-fairywren]

every person i’ve ever been with has had brown eyes and every time i say their eyes are pretty they say “huh, really? i’ve never heard that before. i think they’re kinda boring” are you FUCKING kidding me i could stare into your eyes forever and not be bored for a second

[variegated-fairywren]

of all the posts i’ve ever had breach containment this is the one that made me genuinely excited I hope this gets notes fr i hope it lands on the dash of my brown eyed boyfriend and reminds him how beautiful he is

[lildorker]

[rosenkranz-isnt-dead]

is it just me or have people really stopped writing tags under art reblogs

[rosenkranz-does-things]

WE'RE ON TUMBLR! BLEED YOUR HEART OUT!

[lildorker]

bought coffee. still tired. gnight sun.

[lildorker]

sleeping too much in the middle of the day gives bad headaches

[lildorker]

living alone and tryiong to budget groceries is still foreign to me

like, im used to buying/making lists for a household of 2-3 that will last over two weeks and i cant break that even if the items have changed??

yeah, no, lets get 5 big ass cucumbers and 3 packages of mushrooms. why not get 6 apples. itll last you a while and then i dont have to order anything for a while. jokes on me, shit is rotting in the fridge bc i dont eat that fast.

bitch you get food delivered to your door whenever you need just buy a couple meals worth at a time. a full fridge is lost moneyyy

[jehovahhthickness]

Praying that $1500 randomly comes to you when you need it the most this year.

[jehovahhthickness]

Okay inflation is crazy.

We bumping up the price to $15,000 for 2026.

[lildorker]

upset my days are starting to blend together again. tomorrow is already monday? what tf did i do for the past two days? nothing important obv

[finchfaes]