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Y'all for real please do these. Even if you're certain your posture doesn't suck. One day you will wake up with impinged shoulder pain like I did and let me tell you it fucking HURTS. Do these exercises even just once a week and it will make such a difference. Especially my fellow creatives out there, stop shrimping over your work and go do these right now. RIGHT NOW.
Also, if you’re even a little concerned about getting a hump or having trouble standing fully upright in your old age, this is how you prevent that. If you want to be up and about when you’re old you have to start when you’re younger. And keep in mind there is no bad time to start and it’s never too late. Starting today is way better than never starting at all.
I thought about just tagging this 'nuff said, but it's not.
I want to say something to all of the women under 50 on this site. Ready? You do not have to be over 50 to start taking up space.
Can I make that blink? Is that a thing Tumblr can do? Because, seriously. The sooner you believe you are allowed to take up space, the better life will be.
Love color theory and light spectrum stuff
Eshkachech being sung with cave acoustics??!
i know this has been said before but the progressive language around gender that i've experienced in my lifetime has undergone such a radical shift. Because my grandmother is a lesbian I'm like older than my years in gay years but when I was little it was like 'gender is a system of social categorisation that says NOTHING about you on the inside.' It's pronouns and other people's expectations but it doesn't mean anything about feelings. It doesn't need to determine how you dress or talk or your interests or hobbies or where you want to work or what you can do or who you can relate to or be friends with or connect with and those things are personal and should be shaped by your values and how you're feeling right then.
and now i walk into theoretically progressive spaces and it's like well you can pick your gender but it means everything about you so select the right one and stick to all of its rules. now do you like she/her and girl math and not walking alone at night and expecting someone else to take care of you? you can pick nonbinary but then you gotta be flat chested and use power tools. and if you pick he/him get ready to get more strict about gender roles than a boomer grandpa, you have to take the garbage out. hey you picked the pronoun, you gotta live with all the strictures, those are the rules for some reason. some really wild spaces accept the concept of genderfluid, which now means going into each of those modes depending on task. 'im in man mode time to mow the lawn.'
They’re adding soulslike elements to Grindr
this is going to sound like such a little sibling ass take but i genuinely believe that being a little bit annoying is actually a greater sign of maturity and self awareness than being universally likeable and on good terms with everyone
if some people find me annoying and can't stand me because of how i think and act then that means i'm a fully realized human being with my own personality and opinions and free will and not just a reflective surface for other people's desires, which is in fact a good thing despite what people who want you to just be a reflection of their own opinions and desires will tell you, and why being considered "cringe" or whatever doesn't bother me at all
also it's really funny when you're confident enough in yourself to know that people not liking you isn't always a sign that you're the problem. like there's something undeniably hilarious about being aware your mere existence has the power to piss someone off and ruin their day and i recommend embracing it.
Oh fucking thissss
Shizun, this disciple can't help but wonder, if things could've been different if I simply remained by your side.
i actually love molluscs so much theyre so so cool and diverse and beautiful
sorry for linking a video but aughhh theyre so cool
Hey do you know what rumination is?
Rumination is probably the most common type of OCD compulsion, but I rarely see anyone talking about it. I've talked to multiple people diagnosed with OCD who didn't even recognize it as a compulsion.
Basically, if you have OCD you have terrible intrusive thoughts. They can be about anything, but common themes are fear of being a bad person, fear of hurting someone, fear of contamination. etc.
Rumination is when you get stuck in a spiral. Rumination is when you spend hours catastrophizing, overthinking, analyzing, telling yourself it's going to be okay.
I'll say it again:
Rumination is a compulsion.
Rumination is a compulsion, and that means you have to stop doing it.
I did ERP (exposure response prevention) for my OCD with a therapist! For 9 months! And it did help, but the idea didn't really click until I found this website a couple years later.
And Oh My God. It made things make so much more sense, and I was able to pull myself out of an episode even though I wasn't in therapy or on meds at the time.
Genuinely if you have OCD, or even if you suspect you have OCD, I'm begging you to read some of these articles.
Like this was genuinely life changing for me.
Here are some of the ones that were most helpful to me:
Defining Rumination
How to Stop Ruminating
ERP Exercises for Compulsive Rumination
What to Do When You're Triggered
-> listening to a jaunty country style song -> hear the lyrics wrong -> pause. frown. go back a few seconds to relisten -> hears the same fucked up lyrics -> check the actual lyrics to see what it ACTUALLY says
-> oh!
I've written about Naruto being Sasuke's weakness [here], [here], and [here]. People see Sasuke speak about his feelings for Naruto in a flowery manner in 698 and 699 and then pretend that their relationship is primarily "tell" while ignoring the showing that Kishimoto did prior to his reveal. So this is one in a series of collages I'll be making where I compare Sasuke's monologues with his actions in the earlier manga.
As early as Chapter 27, Naruto was specifically and deliberately used as bait in battle to lure Sasuke to his "death." There were several ways Kishimoto could have taken Sasuke out of commission so that Naruto, as the protagonist, could have his one-on-one confrontation with Haku. Yet, he chose to emphasize Sasuke's protectiveness and build on the theme of Naruto being Sasuke's weakness, which was shown as early as Chapter 3 (i.e. Sasuke defending Naruto even though Naruto antagonized him & empathizing with his loneliness).
In chapter 46, Sasuke was in the midst of battle when he noticed Naruto was in trouble and paused to help him. Kishimoto specifically used that moment to highlight Sasuke being in a vulnerable position which the enemy then took advantage of. Why did helping Naruto specifically have to be the moment when the enemy was able to find an opening to attack Sasuke? Kishimoto has no problem establishing Sasuke being out of his depth when it comes to an enemy. After all, he did so in the Land of Waves arc. Better yet, why was Naruto the Team 7 member that was chosen to place Sasuke in a vulnerable position to begin with?
And the answer is, again, because Kishimoto wanted to build on the theme of Naruto being Sasuke's weakness. To do so, he needed to create instances that clearly distinguished Sasuke's treatment of and reactions toward Naruto as special, which is precisely why the arc ended with not one, but TWO seperate people (who served as Kishimoto's mouthpieces) observing Team 7 and coming to the conclusion that it was Naruto who was removing Sasuke's darkness.
During Naruto and Sasuke's long-awaited reunion, in Chapter 309, Sasuke dispelled Kurama's chakra, but before Kurama fully disappeared, he warned Sasuke that he would regret killing Naruto... a moment followed by a close-up of the sharingan of love that Sasuke transformed for Naruto. Next, we were shown several panels of Sasuke staring at Naruto.
Now, the first panel of Sasuke staring at Naruto deliberately depicted Naruto and Sai positioned in similarly vulnerable ways while Sasuke stood tall, lordimg over the both of them. The framing screamed at the reader that both Naruto and Sai were equally viable options to look at. After all, it was Sai who was able to deflect Sasuke's sword while Naruto stood still. Naruto was passive all throughout their encounter. And yet, it was Naruto who Sasuke chose to stare at while engaged in battle with Yamato. Again, Sasuke was depicted staring at Naruto for multiple panels. Not once did he think to survey the other foes surrounding him, people who were much more active in their battle against him (both Yamato and Sakura attempted to launch attacks against him). He simply chose to stare at Naruto. And that was Kishimoto chose to depict as Sasuke's downfall. Suddenly, Yamato had an opening to attack Sasuke.
Now once may be happenstance. Twice a coincidence. But three times is a deliberate pattern. And it's a pattern that Kishimoto continued to develop by showing the reading how Sasuke uniquely reacted to Naruto instead of telling us.
Sasuke and Naruto both stared at each other across Chapters 484 and 485. Naruto didn't pose a threat at the moment given that he was distant from Sasuke and holding Sakura. It would have been the perfect time for Sasuke to look back at Kakashi, who he had physically engaged with earlier in the chapter, and yet he didn't. And yet again, it was his downfall. It was through simply staring at Naruto that Sasuke's opponent was able to get the upper hand and catch him off-guard.
And this is just a partial list of moments where Naruto was singled out as Sasuke's weakness in battle. I didn't discuss every moment of Naruto being Sasuke's weakness (like Sasuke staring so hard at Naruto's name in Chapter 374 that Suigetsu had to repeat his question) or even every moment that Naruto was shown to be Sasuke's weakness in battle (like Sasuke's sharingan weakening because he felt pain in 698).
That is why it is no suprise that in Chapter 698, Sasuke stated he stared at Naruto continously, this continuous staring was narratively linked with Sasuke's weakness, and Sasuke had to train to attempt to get rid of this weakness. Everything adds up.
More than once, Sasuke specifically stated that it was important to stay on guard during the war arc. Sasuke is someone who takes his battles very seriously and believes in focusing even when the enemy may not actively be in sight. So it's significant that Naruto was specifically singled out as Sasuke's undoing several times.