After being absent for such a long time, I thought it is time for me to slowly come back! Step by step, Iâm planning on posting regularly again. What time would be better than the beginning of Aries season? âď¸ In celebration of that, I decided to revamp my Aries Ascendant Women post đ
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Ascendant Women series:
Aries Ascendant 2.0
Taurus Ascendant
eros was one of the oldest gods and one of the most powerful. in some older depictions of astrological myths he was older than jupiter and the son of mars and Venus, thus embodying the both, and representing two halves of the planets. the asteroid is most often seen in the context of romantic relationships, specifically romantic desire, or passion, or what turns a person on, and so on. on a general level, it discusses the way we form bonds with others and how we become intimate with others.
it's an objectification of love and desire, with a strong emphasis on sex and the sexual satisfaction of somebody. as a result, then, many interpretations are surrounded around love and sex, rather than the creative sides of things, which eros can also represent.
aries eros â spontaneous, intense, intuitive
aries is often depicted as an instinctual sign, always doing things based on instinct and impulse. naturally, then, an aries eros may be seen as somebody who is impulsive, instinctual, and overwhelming, as they plan little, do things on the whim, and can be very spontaneous or intense. aries rules the head, the first point of action, as aries act as quickly as a thought appears in the brain. the sign may struggle with things such as infatuation or moving too quickly, as they cannot, in most cases, sustain long drags of crushing on someone or liking them from afar. it's a very action-oriented sign, with aries going for what they want, even if it requires stepping on other's toes, and potentially ruining what they may already have. in a sense, aries eros may like disorder or chaos, which is why libra is often depicted as its perfect counterbalance, to balance the wobbly feet of aries and help aries stay grounded for longer.
this sign is very intuitive and closely links their intuition to their actions. if a thought appears in the brain, it won't be longer before the aries is gone doing it. it's the same in relationships and love. aries wants energy, passion, and life, which is why they just do things without thinking of the consequences. this means, then, that they want somebody who can be as spontaneous and random as them; somebody who wants fiery bursts of love and passion. they want somebody who can add fire to their fire. I think a similar analogy can be when we have sudden bursts of energy and we need something to quench it. it could be bursts of energy to go to the gym, random springs of motivation to fix our lives, or random thoughts that inspire us to do something new. if we linger too long on those thoughts we become dissatisfied and we become restless. to fix it, we do what we are inspired or motivated to do, and we feel the release that comes after. it's quite similar here. aries experiences quick bursts of energy they must release or they will become restless and very temperamental.
it may be a unique observation, then, that aries eros often sexualise their partners and attach their partners to them as an extension, rather than an individual. true, aries are very individual people, but they often fail to see another person's individuality, and can oftentimes sexualise them think of their partner as something to quench their random moments of thirst. they can be very superficial and lack depth in their relationships.
oftentimes aries loves a battle or a challenge, which is why they may go for things they cannot have. it's an internal manifestation of something more personal and deep, because aries don't like things that are too easy; they want something they can fight for, something they can crash heads with, something that gives them the chaos and disorder they look for. this is what turns them on. nothing easy or smooth-sailing, but something rougher, more intangible, yet sporadic and random. they love a good chase. this is what they see as erotic.
in general, an aries eros looks for somebody that is spontaneous, impulsive, and energetic as them. they rarely want something deep and all-consuming; instead, something that is a lot more simple, intuitive, passionate, intense, yet short and quick. this isn't to say aries eros are incapable of longterm relationships but even relationships have to be something different. to them, relationships are ideal when they can be independent, individual, and completely detached from their partners, whilst still in love with them. an aries eros can be in a longterm relationship so long as their personal needs are not misunderstood or negotiated with. lastly, aries eros loves attention and gratification, so somebody who worships them or sees them for who they are, or are dangerous and reckless are them, are ideal; additionally, someone as careless and present as them, as aries eros most likely will not settle for somebody too methodical or slow-paced.
taurus eros â methodical, materialistic, intuitive
taurus has always had the popular image of being materialistic, methodical, stable, and slow-paced. this is true, which is why they can oftentimes clash with fiery signs that demand power and speed, such as an aries or a sagittarius. a taurus eros can be very slow-paced and methodical as they are very detail-oriented and self-protective. they can be reserved and unemotional on the outside but are deeply concerned with their emotional and romantic wellbeing. they love anything romantic and constantly look for love and romance in their lives as a libra eros would. this can be in their daily routine of exercising or eating good food or always pampering themselves with high quality things. self-love is a pivotal challenge in the taurus eros' life as they must prioritise their wellbeing and only let in those who can align with their demands. it's why they may seem picky or uninterested. actually, it's because they are very aware with what they want out of somebody, that they may seem very reserved.
a taurus eros loves a good love story, particularly because this is a very dreamy and intuitive sign and they love the material facets of love. they love love with their physical body, i.e. through sex and lingerie and good clothing that can help them love their body. they love the sexier sides of money such as fine dining or they just have expensive taste. on a lesser material level, a taurus eros demands traits of loyalty or faithfulness, success in career and family, possessiveness, generosity, and emotional/spiritual wellbeing. taurus eros are very devotional and demanding partners and they want love to be deep and profound experiences. they do not want the shallow experience but the whole nine yards. they look for the same obsessiveness and intensity from their partner. they love to be touched, to feel sex and pleasure all throughout their body and soul, and they use their bodies as a vessel to achieve spiritual intoxication. this makes them very spiritual and internally attuned to the their personal needs and the needs of their partner as they become very intuitive and observant of their partner.
for a taurus eros, their intimate ideal becomes somebody that is consistent, strategic, structured, clean, loyal, and sensual. they need somebody that can acknowledge them and make them feel loved and appreciated. they love to serve for others inasmuch as they love being served by others. they love being spoiled. the need to really intertwine with their partners can stem from the need to own a person as a luxury item or as another spiritual vessel. consequently they can become overly possessive as they seek to add to their collection of fine things. alternatively they may have a fear of loss or failure and therefore become very obsessive and clingy with their partners as they become comfortable with their presence. they don't open easily so they choose to keep what they have at all costs. sometimes this can manifest very toxic and negatively.
gemini eros â creative, intellectual, different
as with all air signs, a gemini eros is a highly analytical, detail-oriented, creative, and spontaneous individual that searches for entertainment and variety in their lives. the need for uniqueness and chaos and disorder can become parallel with their need for variety and experiences in their life. they can have a hard time letting go as this sign can become very emotionally unstable due to a poor rapport between the heart and mind. what I mean by this is a gemini eros can focus on the mental stimulation and neglect the emotional matters until something catastrophic happens and they cannot connect with their emotional self because their focus is so stuck on understanding why it happened, how it could've happened differently, and how to move on. it can be a very chaotic placement as the sign searches for freedom in everything they can do. other than that, they are, of course, very inquisitive, curious, and intelligent, and value the importance of conversing with somebody, understanding their brain and thinking processes, as well as their personal beliefs and morals.
they yearn for somebody to understand them as much as they want to understand others. they are a very curious sign, oftentimes having a large network of friends or people they know. they could have relationships from work or school or put a big emphasis on school from their partners. maybe they want somebody educated and well-versed in a certain field of knowledge. maybe they love somebody who is good with their words. whatever it is, they crave mental stimulation from their partner, as they yearn and search for new ways of pushing their boundaries to learn more. they could be very kinky or very unconventional in the bedroom and try to explore different things with their partner. love and romance has to be thought-provoking to them; it has to give them inspiration and motivation. it cannot become complacent or predictable. instead it has to be something a lot more lighthearted and sincere. it has to become something a gemini can look back on and think, "I really did learn a lot from that", and move on.
the disconnect between the mind and heart can sometimes lead to a very persistent behaviour in which the gemini eros moves on too quickly or gets icked out easily. there is an obsession with wanting to know things or wanting to learn more, so the second they feel they know something very well, they may become bored or become chaotic to disrupt the smooth flow of things they find really irritating and overly complacent. they enjoy drama as much as the next person but may actively seek it to validate their need for variety in their lives. this is a small observation.
conclusively this is a very imaginative, creative, and spontaneous sign that searches far and wide for different experiences and can easily experience things without holding on too long. the depth of knowledge they receive from relationships is always just passed onto the next person, and they find themselves becoming wiser without realising it. it is therefore a turn on for a gemini eros to meet somebody smart or wise, somebody who is well-educated or informed on a lot of things, somebody that can hold a deep conversation, and somebody that can keep the lightheartedness going without plunging too deep into feelings.
cancer eros â sensual, emotional, childlike
in a traditional depiction cancer is a maternal sign, protecting and loving those she loves, whilst having a nasty side of insecurity, jealousy, and resentment. indeed, this is a deeply loving and maternal placement, and anybody that has this or is involved with a cancer eros can count themselves lucky as they are deeply devotional and protective of their loved ones. in an ideal world the cancer eros looks for somebody they can baby or nurture. on the down-low they may have fantasies or fetishes about power dynamics whereby they baby their partner or they are babied in a sexual manner. it may be an innocent thing, to want to baby somebody and treat them as a child, but it may also become an addictive method of self-soothing that can cost the relationship's stability and disrupt the flow of normalcy in the relationship as the relationship may feel incestual and inappropriate. this is a very extreme manifestation of the sign, but is a potent manifestation nonetheless.
this placement is profoundly sensitive to the people around it. there is a spiritual and emotional yearning for something deeper and intense. as the cancer eros picks their favourite apple from the bunch, they begin evaluating how well they emotionally resonate with somebody, how well they can carry themselves, and their confidence, as well as their willingness to love deeply and faithfully. they are sensational partners as they provide the whole nine yards. they can be very family and career oriented and look for the same from their partner.
it's quite an emotional and sensitive placement, as this placement may depict a very motherly image. the cancer eros wants to serve their partner through their availability and empathy. they are very touchy and feely and dream of something they can have forever. they can be drawn towards sex for the emotional and romantic validation it gives them; it satisfies an urge within them to merge with their partner, as they become all-consumed by their partner. they are very dreamy and imaginative people and fantasise about breaking the spiritual and emotional boundary between them and their partners to reach some level of ecstatic love. it comes after the cancer eros can understand their depth and can express it in a way that is calm, consistent, and creative, rather than jealous or overly possessive. but they want to be possessed as badly as they want to possess somebody or something. they want to be wanted and they want to be understood and seen on a very deep level.
they are intuitive parters, often being guided by their intuition and feelings. thus they look for somebody of the same spiritual or religious calibre, where they can resonate with the same spiritual or religious frequency to feel as though the relationship is a lot richer and meaningful that way. additionally, children may be some sort of fetish, where the man fetishises getting a girl pregnant, or vice versa. this is all very unique to the person, of course. there may just be a very timid and childlike attitude towards love that wishes to be further explored and enamoured.
leo eros â dramatic, perfect, and performative
it may be of no surprise the leo eros enjoys attention, status, anything love and romance, ego, and children. when eros is in leo, your desires or yearnings are not mere whims but intense, vibrant emotions that demand to be acknowledged and expressed. when eros is in leo, the intimate ideal, then, becomes somebody that acknowledges these emotions and can connect with your need to be devoted to, wooed, and admired. leo eros are highly expressive people and don't confine their love affairs to the private sphere. they love to show off and be proud of their partner in many different ways. as a result, then, and similarly so, their feelings are rarely private, as they are highly expressive in their love languages, and are very communicative people. in a nutshell, leo eros seek someone who can recognise their uniqueness and make them feel admired and worshipped.
leo eros value intimacy and devotion. trust and loyalty are the foundations from which the leo eros builds on. because a leo eros seeks so much from a partner, they can become engrossed in a perfect intimate ideal, and therefore delude themselves into wanting a literal prince or princess charming, and can harm themselves when they search for ideals they cannot find. this can often come from a lack of self-esteem and realistic expectations from toxic relationships or inexperience in relationships. naturally, a leo eros will want the best of the best; somebody they can deeply relate to and have a childish relationship with, but they can be equally unrealistic and unreliable when it comes to bringing the same demands they are searching for. this can be a very aloof and inconsistent sign with a very shallow list of expectations.
in general, a leo eros' intimate ideal will be somebody who, at the very least, is honest, fruitful, loyal, and expressive. they cannot settle for shallow relationships and demand to be acknowledged emotionally, mentally, and physically; likewise, they demand a connection that is unique and special, and not like any other. love is an important thing to a leo eros, and their turn ons come from really masculine or feminine partners who are unafraid of expressing their sexual side and their masculine/feminine side. for ladies, for example, they may love men who are masculine and handy; men who take care of them, spoil them, make them feel like woman, are career or family oriented, and can acknowledge their femininity. similarly, for men, they may love woman who are feminine and take care of them and the house, are maternal, and know how to emotionally control themselves. in essence, confidence, self-esteem, and discipline really get this sign going.
furthermore, love is a longing and it extends beyond the physical. it needs to feel like it can intertwine with their identity and self-expression. it may be common, then, to see eros Leo as something that wants somebody to mirror their need for a dramatic, grandeur, and explosive romance, rather than a tame, shallow affair. if this eros is wounded or unhealed or undeveloped, an eros Leo can get off on drama or toxicity, leading others on, and using romance as entertainment rather than something serious and longterm. unfortunately if overly delusional they may trip over their own lack of realism and meet relationships that are unhealthy and toxic for the same of drama and something "big". does it come as any surprise, then, that their relationships may feel performative? relationships that have drama or some sort of chaos may be preferred out of a place of boredom. naturally the intensity of this may vary depending if you count this asteroid in your interpretations.
virgo eros â clean, meticulous, detail-oriented
it's a common belief virgos are clean freaks and perfectionists and this placement is no different. a virgo eros seeks for a pure or virginal type of love; something that is not smothered by chaos, disorder, or toxicity. they look for a healthy attitude towards sex as they see sex and love as something renewing and rejuvenating. it may become a method of healing and purification. in a partner they look for cleanliness, structure, routine, and perfection. the relationship may surround itself with the themes of emotional and mental wellbeing, physical wellbeing also, as well as spiritual health. it's a common fact virgo is the sign of health and looks to exercise, service for others, good food, and a positive network of friends to ensure peace/harmony, routine, and predictability in their lives. thus they look for somebody that can take care of them as much as they can take care of their partner. they can be very maternal or paternal figures depending on the gender but caring and loving nonetheless. they express their love in action and services to their partners and hate feeling misunderstood or unseen. their love is not in vain but in the subtle actions of feeding, dressing, exercising, and providing for their partner. thus, they like somebody they can baby and take care of, whilst promised the material, career, and status success of somebody. they do not want to mix with somebody that does not have some sort of achievements in their lives; they prefer somebody that can align themselves with the ambition and discipline they possess.
possessiveness is another thing. this can be a very emotionally reserved sign as mercury looks for things more tangible such as career, money, materials; food, clothing, etc., rather than the emotional satisfaction of somebody. they can be very hyper independent and completely closed off and very wary of new people. they can have strange tendencies other people may find weird or unconventional. it's a way of prioritising their own health and wellbeing, whilst also hoping for somebody that is like them. they seek for a mutual partnership rather than something all-consuming and devotional and intense and fiery. they want somebody that can bring stability to the table.
it can be noted that the sign suffers from negative traits as every other sign does. for example, being overly critical, negative, or obsessive comes from a place of inner dissatisfaction they cannot soothe. if their environment is deemed imperfect for them, they can become overly obsessive, clean, or hyper aware of details in an attempt to have some sort of control in their lives. it's why they may subtly say things to their partners to manipulate them into doing things or being a certain way to fit the virgo eros' ideal of perfect and clean and pure. the obsession over cleanliness and perfection can lead them down the rabbit hole of being too reserved and closed off as they become hyper independent to whatever flaws another person may have. it begins with the cleanliness of their room and extends into the cleanliness of the person. it becomes a weird fetish, then, to control somebody, or possess them, to self-soothe and validate the lack of control in their own lives. another general note: sometimes they fetishise cleaning somebody, and not literally (well, maybe that too) but spiritually; like baptising somebody out of sin.
it's easy to conclude this placement looks for a safehaven in their partner; somebody to retreat to, somebody to bond with, somebody to build a stable future with, but somebody to also help heal and rejuvenate them, as the virgo is a virgin woman that is clean and pure in all her ways. the intensity of this sign can vary depending on how much you consider this sign in your readings.
libra eros â flirtatious, unique, harmonious
this placement may love the chase or treat love as a game or entertainment. it's a highly inconsistent sign - or can be, rather - as they learn to become accustomed to the realistic ways of living and loving. what I mean is this sign can have a "tit for that" attitude and can be very petty and delusional in love. on an intimate level, they crave somebody that can give them the lightheartedness of love without the extra baggage and can give them an unforgettable experience. the casualness of it all rather than the fiery intensity of relationships. I suppose they crave intensity as the next person but once the water settles and becomes still, they can grow quite bored and complacent, becoming mentally unstable, emotionally disoriented, and very rude and unfaithful. they have a yearning for a search to find the right thing from the right person, which is why they may have unfaithful tendencies. whatever promises them a good time can steer them away. it's why they need something that grounds them and can promise them a good time without the need of straying away too far.
conversations, words, poetry, writing, and the like, are what a libra likes anyway, but this placement loves loving words of affection and conversations that are flirtatious and mentally stimulating. there isn't a crazy focus on how crazy a person makes them feel but how they make their mind race or think. they want somebody that pushes their boundaries and lets them express themselves without the need to tie them down or expect too much. it's quite funny, actually, as this placement may demand quite a picture from somebody, but become aloof and inconsistent when it's demanded from them, as they may feel hesitant in intimacy if they feel it's too serious or has too many conditions attached. of course, if in a happy relationship, libra eros loves the commitment and the spiritual marriage of a relationship, and can be very generous and committed people. it still should be highlighted, though, that they are very restless, and can become very emotionally distant or reserved.
I have mentioned their tendency to treat love as a game. they can be very seductive in their mannerisms and are natural charmers. that means, then, they look for somebody that can upkeep the charm they exude; somebody that can keep the momentum going, and make them feel like everything is a game of love. they adore harmony and partnerships and it is not unlikely they will have many suitors or interest in many people. they love the aesthetics and uniqueness of a person; something that makes them think, "wow, I'd like to know more!"
lastly, this is a very sexual sign, and can be very restless and sexually demanding. these aren't sex addicts by any means but they very well could be. this is not to shade them or call them superficial but if a libra eros has a strong sexual self-perception they tend to get along with people better. if they don't, they may look at sex as something validating rather than something enjoyable and freeing. alongside this they may be turned on by femininity, whether it be feminine women or feminine men, and can enjoy certain power dynamics in their relationships.
scorpio eros â passionate, intense, controlling
unsurprisingly and inevitably this is a very intense and passionate placement, with scorpio becoming embellished with a strangely tragic beauty of love. in many old interpretations authors or astrologers have often associated scorpions as the one sign that constantly learns to morph into "one" with their partner, similarly to pisces. what this means is that they seek someone they can become consumed by and quite literally blur into to create some sort of euphoric or ecstatic love. on a more general note: pisces is quite delusional in love in a sense whereby pisces wants to recreate a fantastical or magical experience with their partner, but scorpio has a carnal need to consume something or someone to gain control over it as they yearn to possess something. this, of course, can become very toxic, as scorpio's obsession with wanting to "morph" with their partner can cause scorpio to neglect their own individuality and the realistic needs of the relationship. I believe it comes from a need to control and possess something on a very deep level to feel validated. it's why, in contrast, the important of taurus is often highlighted, as taurus initiates the path of individuality and self-esteem, rather than dependence on another person; to create a personal sense of power and strength, rather than power and/or control over somebody. oftentimes this behaviour is depicted as an action that's done out of insecurity and lack of self-esteem. instead of relying on a soulmate for love, taurus builds love from within, which an un-evolved scorpio may struggle with.
furthermore, you have a hard time being misunderstood or having your needs met, which is why you tend to be picky with who you choose to love. you need somebody who is willing to share all their secrets and trauma with you because you cannot entertain or settle for superficiality. you need something spiritually stimulating and something that makes your blood boil. so, your ideal partner needs to be someone who wants to be seen and exposed. for you, you tend you relate to others on trauma or abuse, which is why you may lean towards people who are heartbroken, hurt, or weak in some way; those with low self-esteem or a toxic past, etc. for you to be turned on, you must have a psychic/mental/emotional connection with the person you are dealing with. anything done without these connections will be unsatisfactory and you may feel emptier and a lot more misunderstood than when you met them. you value loyalty and trust above anything else; these are the foundations on which you build with your partner. on another general note: you may often find yourself trying to heal your own hurt through other people, often creating very profound, bitter, and forceful relationships. as a result, you may crave certain power dynamics.
the type of partner you yearn for must be as private or secretive as you. you are not one to share your relationship with others and instead keep it to yourself. you cannot settle for someone who sees sex and love as a game and will therefore seek for someone obsessive and loyal. you, too, provide the "gift" of obsessiveness to the relationship. one observation is that you tend to become engulfed in what love feels like to the point it becomes projected in a way that is overly jealous, envious, controlling, and protective. while you need someone confident, you tend to lack confidence or trust in others, thereby controlling what they do. negatively manifested, you tend to put others down to make yourself feel better.
generally, you look for intensity, power, and control. a scorpio eros' intimate ideal can be someone all-consuming, passionate, intense, and spiritual, religious, or somebody who believes in a higher purpose to doing things. it goes without saying different degrees, placements, and aspects can create a more harmonious effect on the eros. additionally, if eros is not counted in your interpretations, it may skew your opinion altogether.
sagittarius eros â foreign, different, and dramatic
sagittarius eros can be very unconventional, just as an aquarius eros can be. on a general note: their intimate ideal is somebody who is spiritual, religious, or has some sort of faith, has strong beliefs and opinions, is outdoorsy or loves travelling, has a deep and unique heritage to them, and to a lesser degree, looks different to others, maybe ugly, or just very exotic. this is a very dramatic and expansive sign and brings forth a lot of expectations from their partners as this placement looks for something that can challenge their beliefs and teach them more about the world. they may involve themselves in relationships at work like a capricorn eros as they look for power dynamics that challenge them to be more open. they love the unconventional stuff, whether it be through appearances, ways of living, or different cultures. it's why some of them may date outside their race or ethnicity or prefer a certain ethnicity altogether. they have an internal pull towards a certain culture or way of living because it fascinates them. maybe they like spirituality and religion because it allows their love affairs to feel a lot more rewarding and purposeful rather than a chemical process between two people. their relationships need to intertwine with their identity as they feel their relationships need to pull them closer to source or God or the universe. love needs to feel rewarding and educational.
they may be attracted to people who are spontaneous and generous. jupiter is a generous sign, always giving life to whatever it touches, expanding it a hundred times fold. as a result, love is a lot more dramatic than it should be; words, dreams, displays of love, etc., are all dramatic and meaningful. due to popular belief and to be honest this is more of a personal observation but sagittarians in general can be very picky with who they like but they can become all-consumed by somebody if they really do connect with them. it's why they go for people that look different or are of different ethnicity. it's also nice to point out their hesitancy towards intimacy as they wait to find someone they can have a deep and raw vibe with. maybe it's a common thing between all of them to be celibate or sexually shy. but when fired up and ready to go, they can really test the boundaries of sex and love, oftentimes going the extreme and really competing with their partner to see how far the relationship can go. their may be an unstable root to this, too, if the sagittarius eros is lacking self-esteem or realism in their partner. this is a very idealistic placement, by the way, and they can oftentimes have their head up in the clouds. they may have a list of very unrealistic expectations and fantasies that are very spiritual and emotional but not very practical and possible. their egos can be very brittle and their pickiness can be observed as something more perverse than trying to pick the best apple out of the bunch. it can come from a place of delusion and fantasy. in an ideal world they can find somebody who can ground them and give them the otherworldly experience they yearn for at the same time. most of the time, however, it's a matter of picking your poison, and choosing what to take with the cost of something else.
conclusively, their intimate ideal is somebody who embodies an otherworldly character and look; exotic, maybe, or foreign, whatever term you may prefer. additional to that, somebody that thinks on a higher wavelength, believes on a higher wavelength, and believes in more than the material world. they search for somebody they can express their love of education, learning, and travelling with, and it's a common thing to find them always trying to learn something new and push the boundaries of themselves and others. they are very generous and courageous partners who want to expand with their partners rather than having two separate lives. they want to do it all with the one person. they want to grow and think on the same wavelength. of course the intensity of this placement can vary depending if this placement is considered in the reading.
capricorn eros â consistent, realistic, experienced
I find this placement can oftentimes mirror a lilith in capricorn due to its need for power, control, success, money, career, the physical things of materialism, etc.. when eros is in Capricorn, I find themes of identity, the physical senses, and materialistic sexuality come into play, as this sign may find their intimate ideal to be someone who is successful, mature, wise, materialistic, and quite sensual. physical touch, gift giving, quality time, and the like, are all prominent themes here, as this is a very physical placement, loving anything earthy or realistic.
to this sign, their turn ons may be somebody with traits of hardworking, disciplined, self-motivated, realistic, mature, wise, consistent, and simple. someone who is precise, simple, career or family oriented also. this is a very grown up placement, with Saturn controlling the urges and desires of this individual and projecting them in a very tame and calm manner. some may fantasise about men or woman that have money and families as a way to establish success. it's attractive to them when their partner recognises their hard work and discipline and can also do the same. good quality things, consistency, and sustainable and achievable goals are their ideal. I always think they don't need much, but then think of just how picky and demanding they can be, because if they have a high self-esteem, they will be ungovernable, very independent, and very disciplined and controlled, thereby having a very materialistic and possibly unrealistic view on love many cannot mirror. they may be overly reserved or conservative with their wants and desires and can become overly controlling of others or themselves as they fear failure or embarrassment. it can be a very superficial and appearance-oriented placement, with a lot of wounds coming from lack of achievement, shame or embarrassment of not being "perfect" in life, or being unorganised in a certain area of life. perfectionism can be their achilles heel, but equally it can be their strong-point, as they like somebody routinely, grounded, and humble.
on a general note: sexually speaking, this placement probably prefers partners that are more experienced and older/mature. similarly they may prefer somebody younger as they wish to fulfil some sort of cougar/daddy fantasy. age may come into play, sure, but also roles that challenge the power dynamic. pleasure is not a taboo thing for this placement but it can definitely be a very controlled thing, whereby pleasure is only expressed at certain times or behind closed doors. so then it's there when their fantasies are expressed and they can finally confess and express their real feelings and fantasies. this has to be with someone they trust, though...
aquarius eros â unconventional, random, and spontaneous
have you ever met an aquarius placement and thought they acted a bit "alien"? that's what they're like, and that's what they like in others. unconventional, spontaneous, and dramatic is what they're after. a highly creative and open sign, they look for partners that can help stimulate their creativity and minds. intelligence, education, or taboo things are especially interesting to them, as they want something that broadens and challenges their minds, rather than agrees with their internal biases. they are not looking for something that validates their opinions or beliefs, but for something they can debate, learn from, and become inspired by. they love an intellectual challenge as much as they love a person's differences and uniqueness to others. in a nutshell, then, they love anybody who is confident, self-expressive, realistic but only to a degree, imaginative, and concerned with other people. they are very generous and loving partners in their affairs. they are not unemotional, as many people would assume, but express their feelings and desires in their actions, rather than words and promises. of course, a commonality between all three air signs is their elusive and dreamy tendency to imagine things and have their head stuck in the clouds but I believe aquarians are a lot more articulate than that, and look for uniqueness in a person, rather than just their mind. they don't want just anybody. they want somebody as weird as them, as funny as them, and somebody who does not fit into the societal standard. they don't want somebody normal!
to an aquarius eros, their intimate ideal is somebody different, expressive, and humanitarian; somebody who cares for others, is concerned about the bigger things, and showcases humanity in their actions. they may not necessarily get off physical displays of affection and they may be quite physically reserved. their minds, however, work like an umbilical cord, and can be quite telepathic once they establish a strong mental connection with somebody. for this placement, strange kinks, ways of doing things, and bold ideas are attractive to them. also pushing boundaries and getting as daring as they can possibly be. they want to challenge their partners inasmuch they want to challenge themselves to opening up more and more.
in an undeveloped placement this placement can be quite emotionally distant although the intention is not there. this is a very mental placement and feelings can be very shallow or superficial as the mind becomes the main focal point. it may be why aquarians in general are so hard to understand and connect with; it's because their mind is not a traditional mind, and because the mental sides of things are more important than the emotional business. it may become draining when an aquarius eros continuously challenges their partners to do more and more and to do different things in an attempt to entertain their own need for variety in their lives. they may become restless and mindless, as they lose their footing, and become very unstable partners. the intensity of this placement will vary of course on whether or not you count this asteroid in your readings, or how developed this sign is in the placement, when other aspects are considered.
pisces eros â romantic, generous, and caring
eros has a strong affinity with water signs, making this a very wholehearted and deeply sensual placement. as a pisces eros, your intimate ideal, or the type of person you yearn for, will be of an empathetic, sensitive, and confident calibre. with any relationship needs to be a psychic and an emotional connection before the initiation of sex or commitment. you cannot settle with someone who is superficial or lacks confidence in themselves. you also cannot settle with someone who doesnât want you for the long-term; for marriage, say. you experience romance and love on a psychically and spiritually elevated level and thus have high standards, many of which may be unachievable or realistic. you need someone who can truly resonate with you, and identically so. you observe and notice indifferences easily.
as with any sign, this sign can have its wonderful parts and its tragic parts. for one, there is a very soulmate-like ideal, with you fantasising about meeting your soulmate, or wanting your lover to be your soulmate, or generally having a very holy or divine perspective on love and relationships. in general, you look for spiritual meaning in how you love and who you love. you want someone with a spiritual significance rather than just a fling on the material plane. you believe you are not the type to invest your sexual energy into someone you know you cannot get more from. so, you are not the type to do fab or a one night stand without feeling empty or dissatisfied. you prefer something soulful, internal, and obsessive.
for two, you are strangely attracted to those who are unavailable to you, emotionally or literally (by distance). you tend to dwell in the promise of an ever-after with a person rather than appreciating their physical presence, the realities of the relationship, and just how boring real relationships can be. not every relationship is whimsical and flowery - we must see things for how mundane and simple they really are. romanticisation is the word for this. furthermore, you may quite literally distance yourself from your partner to keep yourself yearning from afar, rather than loving them up-close, further instilling a victim and hopeless romantic vision of yourself. you may fear being seen or feeling too much, too, which is why you tend to be very wishy washy with things. when you feel someone finally catching their grasp on you, you swim away. you tend to become a sacrificial lamb in your relationships in the name of love or because of a low self-esteem, and alas, you tend to let people take advantage of your kindness and empathy.
in general, you require a relationship in which you know your partner is confident in themselves. you are the type to want to be wholly swallowed by love. you have a deep obsession with your partner and thus want somebody who can be as intense and romantic as you. empathy, charisma, romance, kindness, and generosity are all key-words here. of course the intensity of eros depends on whether or not you count this asteroid in your readings and how developed or undeveloped this eros can be in your chart (if you count eros' interpretation).
As the Star takes center stage, so do these natives of this week in the middle of the Aries season. Comparing these individuals to toddlers during their terrible twos is the correct life placement for these folks; although that might sound like an insult, it isn't. However, it makes sense since they act similar to seeing a child experiencing the world outside their usual comfort zone as they start forming their first concept of self. One might say these individuals use "I" more often than "we," but that is because they are merely developing their sense of selves. đ§¸
As the sun starts moving away from Pisces and towards Taurus, these Aries natives lose their selfless qualities and become more assertive and success-orientated. Just like how a star attracts attention, these natives have an attractive aura that screams to notice them. Whether they are seen or not, they still can perform and finish their project using their innate strength and fortitude gained from Taurus traits, and sooner or later, they are still noticed by their accomplishments, a real star. â
Although they may accept the praise and the many followers they naturally attract, this devotion does not come with a hunger for attention. People who try to get close to these natives, a word of caution, they are usually successful people who disregard their own personalities; hence people looking for an emotional connection from these people should look elsewhere. Generally, this means these natives lack empathy and egotism, displaying a successful yet aloof and lonely persona. đ˘
In a way, their lonely lives can only be due to over-exaggeration of their own importance, pushing people away. As engineers of external solutions, you might have to start looking inward to solve these issues that you did not get the chance to at a younger age. Remember to welcome the person who is willing to help you understand yourself and your life role, else you might feel adrift. Life is a journey; although success is essential, it is much too dull to take everything for yourself, so allow others to shine too. â¨
When I think of Mars, I think of the Greek god, Ares. I think of the heart pumping blood throughout the body to keep it alive. I think of passion, ferocity, and rawness. Mars is the planet of emotion, similarly to the moon but with a more sinister twist. Mars wants you to feel everything and create with that energy, Mars wants you to be overwhelmed with emotion, so much so it consumes and guides you. Mars wants you to feel everything. It is known as a Malefic Planet because of its inability to be tamed and controlled but Mars isnât about having control, its about intuition and allowing yourself to be guided by the invisible force that encourages you to nuzzle into your most primal and authentic state and honor that part of you.Â
[Yes I will be using Hozier lyrics that represent the ferality of each sign]
Aries Mars [Mars in 1st]
When I picture Aries Mars at its most feral state, I visualize a forest fire consuming everything in its path, absorbing nature to feed as fuel. With Mars in its rulership, Aries Mars has no issue releasing, guided by their heart throughout it all to overcome whatever may stand in their way. They move quickly and harshly, striking first and questioning later. You mold life into what you want it to be so there is no need for you to even plan right? As an unstoppable force, you have to let your heart take control.Â
âThereâs no plan, thereâs no race to be run
The harder the pain, honey, the sweeter the sun
Thereâs no plan, thereâs no kingdom to come
Sit in & watch the sunlight fade, honey, enjoy its getting late
Theres no plan, theres no hand on the reign,
âŚAs Mack explained, there will be darkness againâ
Taurus Mars [Mars in 2nd]
When I picture Taurus Mars at its most feral state, I imagine a bear tearing its way through a beehive, grasping at the honeycombs and devouring it in a matter of seconds. With a venus-ruled mars or mars in detriment, you all look for the sweeter things in life and insist that you are worthy of goodness and donât mind taking it for yourself. Conflict is stupid to you because you have your own morals and studies and firmly believe in what you desire and if anyone steps to you, you have the power to throw it right back in their face. You are the raging bull, undefeated once youâre committed. But you represent the tamer, earthy side of Mars.
âI have never known peace like the damp grass that yields to me.
I have never known hunger, like these insects that feast on me.
When I picture Gemini Mars at its most feral state, I picture the rebirth that spring offers. The energy of this mars sign matches the intensity of the rising sun and falling rain that causes the flowers to blossom and fill the earth with its aroma. It is quite impossible to stop a determined Gemini, they want to leave their mark on this earth and do so in many different ways as they are indestructible, powered by the combination of their mind and their heart which creates an explosion upon collision. To get in the way of this placement is to stand in the way of the changing seasons, impossible.Â
âEach day youâd rise with me, know that I would gladly be the Icarus to your certainty.
Oh, my sunlight, sunlight, sunlight.
Strap the wing to me, death trap clad happily, with wax melted, Iâd meet the sea,
Under sunlight, sunlight, sunlight.â
Cancer Mars [Mars in 4th]
When I picture Cancer Mars at its most feral state, I visualize the crumbling of the earth into itself, only to grow back in a healthier form. A resilient placement that can have the worst thrown at them and come back only more beautiful. In the introduction, I discussed how both Moon and Mars share a common goal but the Moon goes about it a different way, as Cancer Mars goes about martian energy in a different way as well. With mars in fall, Cancer takes the soft approach to ferality, embracing the harsh energy and converting it into tenderness.Â
âAnd I love too, that love soon might end,Â
be known in its aching, shown in the shaking,
Lately of my wasteland, baby.Â
Be still, my indelible friend, you are unbreaking,
Though quaking, though crazy
Thatâs just wasteland, baby.âÂ
Leo Mars [Mars in 5th]
When I picture Leo Mars at its most feral state I see a blinding white-hot light overcoming anyone and everyone in its path, forcing others to bend to its will simply by doing what it does naturally. As a fixed mars, Leos energy is continuous and bold, quite difficult to escape if a Leo Mars has you in their eye line. They are everywhere, they rule the heart so they rule ferality in a way, diving back into their lion roots and fully delving into the fact that they are the rulers of the jungle and rulers of the world.
âBe love in its disrepute, scorches the hillside and salts every rootÂ
And watches the slowing and starving of troops
And, lover, be good to me.
Be there and just as you stand or be like the rose that you hold in your handÂ
That will grow bold in a barren and desolate land
Oh, lover, be good to me.â
Virgo Mars [Mars in 6th]
When I picture Virgo Mars at its most feral state I can clearly gaze upon an open field, a deer nosing at grass only to be pounced on by a random predator, yet Virgo represents both the predator and the prey, enforcing balance and really honoring nature fully. Virgo Mars is one of the most ferocious and determined martian placement because they understand how to use the life around them to their advantage. Failure is impossible because they are always ten steps ahead of everyone else. They understand balance, both aggressiveness, and peacefulness.Â
âWith the war of the fire, my heart moves to its feet
Like the ashes of ash, I saw eyes in the heat
Feel it soft and as pure as snow, fell in love with the fire long ago
With each love I could lose, I was never the same
Watch it still live in roofs, be consumed by the flame
I was fixed on your hand of gold, laying waste of my lovinâ long agoâ
Libra Mars [Mars in 7th]
When I picture Libra Mars at its most feral state, I see a person walking into a mossy lake only to never come out again. There is a slight underestimation when people first get to know the Libra Mars. This martian placement matches up with tricky Aphrodite, Libra mars has secrets they dont want unturned, they have a hidden past that they want to be kept to themselves because they are never the people they were a few moments ago. They are evolving and healing, rubbing soil on their open wounds to grow into a new version of themselves.Â
âI had a thought, dear, however scary about that night, the bugs and the dirt.
Why were you digging? What did you bury before those hands pulled me from the earth?
I will not ask you where you came from, I will not ask and neither should you.Â
Honey, just put your sweet lips on my lips, we should just kiss like real people do.âÂ
Scorpio Mars [Mars in 8th]
When I picture Scorpio Mars at its most feral state, there is a black burning tree in the middle of the falling snow, crackling and popping and falling to the pieces onto blankets of snow only to keep burning. Mars takes a different approach in this rulership, it is calculated, ready, and sure of whatever move is to be made as if it has been practiced for quite some time. There is no defeating a Scorpio mars, only succumbing, bending to its will, and praying that they will take mercy on your soul.Â
âIf I was born as a blackthorn tree, Iâd wanna be felled by you, held by you
Fuel the pyre of your enemies.
Ainât it warming you, the world gone up in flames?
Ainât it the life you, your lighting of the blaze?
Ainât it a waste theyâd watch the throwing of the shade?
Ainât you my baby, ainât you my babe?â
Sagittarius Mars [Mars in 9th]
When I picture Sagittarius Mars at its most feral state, I see the serpent in the garden of Eden sliding on its belly and offering an option of freedom, going against the grain of submissiveness. Sagittarius Mars tends to ooze this raw sex appeal that stems from their confidence & their need to question the life around them, never satisfied by what is given to them, instead they leave their own mark on the world before them by embracing individuality and moving along their own path.Â
âIâd be the voice that urged Orpheus when her body was found.Â
Iâd be the choiceless hope in grief that drove him underground.
Iâd be the dreadful need in the devotee that made him turn around.
And Iâd be the immediate forgiveness in Eurydice,
Imagine being loved by me.âÂ
Capricorn Mars [Mars in 10th]
When I picture Capricorn Mars at its most feral state, I imagine the fall of an empire, a civilization, a society, forced to come to terms with the fact that its reign has come to an end. Mars in exalt, arguably one of the most powerful placements to have in the natal chart, there isnât a way to prevent the energy of a Capricorn Mars, they are backed by Saturn, two malefic energies combining to create an unbeatable power and manifesting as strength in the native who claims this energy.Â
âItâs the light, and itâs the obstacle that casts it
Itâs the heat that drives the light, Itâs the fire it ignites,
Itâs not the waking, itâs the rising.
Itâs not the song, it is the singing.
Itâs the heaven of a human spirit ringing.
It is the bringing of the line, It is the bearing of the rhyme
Itâs not the waking, itâs the rising.â
Aquarius Mars [Mars in 11th]
When I picture Aquarius Mars at its most feral state, I visualize a group of nude women, dancing around an intense fire, the full moon shining only for them as they howl out into the wind. Aquarius Mars is a placement that understands how to honor their roots and get back in touch with themselves to move to the future. They use their past to propel them into new opportunities and to become a higher version of themselves. There is no obstructing this futuristic placement, eyes steady on the prize that remains up ahead.Â
âWhen you move, I can recall something thatâs gone from me
When you move honey, Iâm put in awe of something so flawed and free.
So move me, baby, shake like the bough of a willow tree,
You do it naturally, move me, baby.âÂ
Pisces Mars [Mars in 12th]
When I picture Pisces Mars at its most feral state, I envision a floating sailor, sinking in with each song that leaves the sirenâs voice only to realize that it is too late as the last of air leaves their lungs and they now become one with the siren. Pisces Mars has the gift of âinnocenceâ that people project onto them and they understand how to use it to their advantage and come out on top. Deception is a mastered tool but doesnât negate the fact that they are simply seductive and persuasive and hold power that many are unaware of. They should continue to move carefully and use their âfaultsâ to their benefit.Â
âFeeling more human and hooked on her flesh,Â
I lay my heart down with the rest at her feet.
Fresh from the fields, all fetor and fertile
Itâs bloody and raw, but I swear it is sweet.Â
In leash-less confusion, Iâll wander the concrete,
Wonder if better now having survived.
The jarring of judgment and reasonâs defeat.Â
The sweet heat of her breath in my mouth; Iâm alive.â
đ§ Mediator + King of Wands: As you are more achievement-oriented than usual this month, your negotiations may have an ulterior motive or hidden agenda. Even though you are following personal motives, in a way to establish your own Self, it does not have to be an entirely negative thing as long as you do not harm anyone else in the process.
đ The Hermit: I got the feeling that for many of you, relationship and love matters are not a priority. You have plenty enough on your plate already as you are looking for something that is hidden from you. Even if you are in a relationship, you prefer to withdraw from your significant other to get in touch with your inner Self.
đź The Lovers: You could form important relationships this month career-wise. Someone new might enter your life who will be quite beneficial to you in the long run. Cooperation at work/university/school is more important than ever - being agreeable can sometimes bring you very far and I feel like this is the month that this is especially true for you.
âď¸ Gemini Moon â˝
đ§ Child: Wounded + Six of Wands: If you have been feeling your Inner Child being hurt for a long time now and you have been working on healing it, this month might be a real break-through. You understand yourself better, know what you can do to soothe it and learn what you really need in life. Furthermore, this important step awakens a huge compassion in you for people who share the same pain as well as a need to help those. You might be an excellent leader for them.
đ The Lovers: A very good month for you love-wise. You feel like your relationship is advancing and it is more harmonious than ever. There is a strong mutual attraction between you and your partner!
If you are single, but dating someone, you guys might be ready for the next step as you feel a real kind of intimacy growing between the two of you. However, do not forgot how important it is to openly communicate with each other.
đź Seven of Cups: Many opportunities are presenting themselves to you career-wise. Some offers are more tempting than others and it might be hard for you to decide. Be careful of having too high expectations both of yourself and the choices at hand.
âď¸ Gemini Rising â
đ§ Mediator + The Star: Just like people with their Sun in Taurus, youâll be involved in arguments more often than youâd like to â but not as an antagonist. You are taking the position of a mediator, negotiating between two parties. With your serenity you can purify arguments easily and people around you feel that. While you are respecting both sides, you still like to be the spokesperson for someone as you try to be beneficial to humankind. You are seeing right through people and situations.
đ Four of Swords: You need some time-out. Things are not working out the way youâd like them to so it may be a good idea for you to retreat to get some healing done. If you are in a relationship, this might be because of recent quarrels with your partner and you need to heal from things that have been said and done.Â
If you are single, it is a good idea to concentrate on yourself now. Perhaps you have been giving it your all to establish meaningful connections to others, but it was like chewing on stone. Organize your thoughts, think about what you want from a relationship and from a partner - perhaps get advice from other people. But most importantly: recover!
đź Three of Pentacles: One word: teamwork. It will be an important theme for you this month as you realize that certain projects and things are just easier done with the help and support from others. Perhaps you need to hold a group presentation at school/university, or you need to work with others on a big project at work. Try to combine forces and donât think you have to do things on your own to get proper results.
đ§ Mediator + The Star: Youâll be involved in arguments more often than youâd like to â but not as an antagonist. You are taking the position of a mediator, negotiating between two parties. With your serenity you can purify arguments easily and people around you feel that. While you are respecting both sides, you still like to be the spokesperson for someone as you try to be beneficial to humankind. You are seeing right through people and situations.
đ King of Wands: Your relationship is about to enter a new phase as both of you mature. You are both establishing your own selves, your individualities â and at the same time respect each other as separate beings.
If you are single, you are enjoying yourself realizing that you do not necessarily need another person to complete you. As you concentrate on self-expression, you are feeling the excitement of freedom.
đź Justice: You are asked to make a big decision relating to your career or education â as long as this decision has not been made, it will be difficult for you to take further actions. Once the decision is made, you will be rewarded justly and fair. Justice is here to remind you to stay true to yourself in this process.
âď¸ Taurus Moon â˝
đ§ Addict + Ace of Cups: There are two possibilities: either, you have trouble controlling yourself and your addictive behaviour, because you simply do what is making you feel good right now with no limitation when it comes to indulgence. Or you can recognize your addictive behaviour and you are able to break free from it by expressing and accepting love and nurturing from different channels.
đ Seven of Swords: A difficult situation as you keep sneaking around each other, both of you avoiding confrontation. In a relationship setting this might mean you are long due talking about an issue but none of you want to address it - both of you are already establishing strategies on how to disarm the other.
If you are single, but have your eyes set on someone, you might need to figure out how to drop your defences and to open yourself to that other person. Probably it is better for the both of you to play with open cards.
đź Eight of Wands: You are fast-thinking, delivering any kind of solution quickly and efficiently. This is a huge step in your personal growth, as you near a certain goal that you have set up for yourself. Be careful of not rushing too much as you might oversee something crucial.
âď¸ Taurus Rising â
đ§ Damsel + Strength: This month is very important for you as you finally find a way to empower yourself fully and truly. As you find your own strength you are taking important steps to becoming an independent person that knows exactly how to take care of yourself. You are enduring and mastering situations you did not think you could until now. Be proud!
đ The Wheel of Fortune: Good luck and fortune are coming your way as your love life is about to go through major changes that are already set in motion. If you are in a relationship, issues you two had are about to be resolved as you improve your connection.
If you are single, you have a good chance to meet the love of your life! Keep your eyes open for signs or use divination methods for clarity.
đź Seven of Wands: This month you are asked to assert yourself at work/university/school as you need to defend your own position and your standpoint. Competition is big. As you prove your own value, there is a high chance you will be successful â the Seven of Wands may indicate that you are gaining some sort of advantage. Be careful of gossip though.
A very well-liked and charming public image -> Venus is in the house of social status so its obvious that people see you as someone attractive, very beautiful and with very charismatic movements.
You are very well received by people -> they naturally feel the venus influence in your social image so they are charmed and automatically drawn to you.
You may notice that most people are very warm and kind with you at first ->Â People approach you on their own and as i said above the venus influence in your image, gives them a sense of familiarity with you. They feel very nice vibes by you.
You have so much potential to have a talent in some type of art -> Venus is beauty and we all find beauty in arts. Venus expresses creativity, harmony, comfort, stability, compromise, pleasures, fashion, good taste, style, friendships, procrastination, kindness, luxury, glamour, wealth, money, clothes, relationships, love affairs and social life. So you can see that a person with Venus in the house of social status is seen as someone with artistic and creative tendencies.
Your self image and if people view you as someone pretty/handsome, can be a main focus in your life -> if you have a stellium in the 10th house, be careful for it not to get toxic and turn to self hate. We all care about our image and appearance but with this placement, you may go a bit overboard with the overthinking. Calm down. You know very well how beautiful you are, you dont need people to reassure you for it.
Its obvious that you would do amazing in an occupation that resolves around beauty, fashion or arts -> at least try to develop a hobby around these fields if your dream job is droven towards another path. Believe me it will give you so much harmony and wellness in your soul, you will feel peaceful with activities that involve art, beauty or fashion. Great for your mental health.
Relationships in your life may actually bring you success and opportunities that you wouldnt have on your own, its like a lucky charm -> im not saying go and date the first person you find and that this way you will gain success. Deep emotions and connections is sth Venus represents and along the way of your relationships, you can benefit a lot in your carrer.
Its a fact that most people with this placement are blessed with great looks -> its everything basically, not only the looks. Your kindness, your warmness and your caring personality draw in so many people towards you. But sometimes you may just get unwanted attention that you wish it would be different.
This is placement can bring you money from turning your hobbies into a carrer, especially if Venus is in mostly good aspects with other planets -> yes yess, its true, you can naturally get more attention by others so people would easily support your artistic side.
Most people assume by their own that you have a special talent -> You give off those vibes to others. Just like the stereotype of how every kid with glasses looks smart, yeah youre exactly like that but instead the venus influence in your social image gives the impression that you are artistic
Even if you may not be the most confident person, people view you that way -> you just have a very outstanding aura. People notice and mesmerise your presence. They see someone that is proud and confident of themselves, your stance screams that.
Lastly, romance ends up not being your biggest focus in life even though you are actually a very romantic soul -> this happens cause you can have a bit too high standards luv. These standards dont ever get satisfied so you get disappointed in your love life and the partners that passed by your life. Slowly throughout the years though, you will thankfully lower your standards a bit down and you will realise what truly matters in the partner you search.
Hope you enjoyed reading, personally i believe it is a very beneficial placement for your way to success since you are so well-liked and welcoming to other people. Venus in the 10th house is people that have their own tricks and a deadly charm, where if they ever used this charm against you, believe me, you would all fall into their trap without even realising. SMART ASF.
Decks used: Archetype Cards, Mystical Manga TarotÂ
âď¸ Aries Sun âź
đ§ Child: Divine + The Tower: You find yourself unable to defend yourself and your Inner Child against negative and destructive forces from both the outside world and from inside yourself. With that I mean your own emotions that might burst out, causing harm to your body or a situation. Prepare for unnecessary drama.
đ Seven of Pentacles: If you are in a relationship, you have been putting a lot of effort into it lately, while patiently waiting for good results. Well, the good results are about to show themselves soon! In case things are not going as you planned, learn from your mistakes by observing the process.
If you are single, but might date someone, be patient with that other person. They still might need their time and while progress might be slow, if you have done all the right things, you have no need to fear failure.
đźÂ Page of Swords: At work, university or school, you might find yourself in situations that require you to face your fears - probably in a project setting. Do not give in to your cloudy and heavy thoughts and take risks in communication. Make yourself heard! What you have to say is important and right - if it is the truth.
âď¸ Aries Moon â˝
đ§ Victim + The Emperor: You sure as hell will not allow yourself to be victimized. You are strong, confident, confrontational and exude authority in a way that other people cannot. As you are striving to win and achieve your goal(s), you are, however, in danger of victimizing others. Especially if you are in a place of high responsibility, this can be a problem.
đ The Hanged Man: This may indicate that, if you are in a relationship, you are sacrificing too much and you are drawn to playing the martyr. For what reason? What do you expect will happen if you keep on sacrificing? At this point, you might lose yourself in the process.
If you are single, you might feel frustrated because things seem to be stagnant and there is nothing you can do except for waiting â anxiously. You feel blocked, like there is nothing you can really do. However, you might be the one who is blocking yourself and you are the one who can change that.
đź King of Swords: At work, university or school, your mind seems to be sharper than ever. People notice this as you take charge, thinking three steps ahead. However, you might act ruthlessly with your words, being all condescending if not careful, and intimidating others.
In case you are still searching for the right profession for you and have already considered one of the following: writer, lawyer, diplomat, philosopher, journalist â this might be the sign you have been waiting for!
âď¸ Aries Rising â
đ§ Alchemist + Knight of Cups & Nine of Cups: Beautiful - everything you touch has a high chance of turning out to be something bigger, something better than expected. Especially when it comes to dreams you pursue this month. There is a high chance your wishes will be fulfilled! You can achieve this through visualizing the things you wish for clearly and precisely.
đ Ten of Swords: If you find yourself in a painful and toxic relationship, you might have to realize this month that it might be better to let go of things that no longer serve neither you nor your partner. This might be the relationship itself, or behaviour and patterns the two of you seem to be stuck in - because this card can also signify the ending of a problem - and hope.
If you are single, you feel paralysed. And eventually you might conclude that you must accept the situation as it is for now. Concentrate on something else, a project, friends, something that makes you happy. Keep in mind that this is only temporary and better days are sure to come.
đź The Empress: You are thriving with good and creative ideas. Seeds that are planted in your mind are quick to grow into a good and inspiring outcome. You have the desire to create something extraordinary and the chance you achieve that is great. An especially good draw if you work in the fashion industry, as any kind of nurse (though especially one that takes care of children), or in creative professions.
1. Whatâs falling away and what do we need to forgive?
New Moon in Virgo â A time to give rather than take
There has been a situation lately where we we might have felt somewhat blocked, and improvements could not be seen for some time. Thatâs because we sometimes tend to over-analyze and being too critical of ourselves and of others. Instead of wondering how somebody else could improve our situation we should think about what we can do for others.
2. Whatâs the illuminated Full Moon showing us?
New Moon in Gemini â Communication is key
Thatâs an easy one: the Full Moon is showing us how important communication is, especially for relationships. Talking things through can be so helpful and prevent major drama from happening. That should make us wonder why people do not communicate more. Even if we are not able to communicate with someone, journaling, writing about our feelings, might bring some much needed clarity.
3. What comes next?
Full Moon in Aquarius â Show the world the real you
Changes are about to come, whether we like it or not. Sometimes it helps to detach from certain situations. It is important that we learn to allow life to progress even if it might scare us. The changes we are about to experience might be very unexpected.
However, the main message is be yourself.
Deck used: Moonology Oracle Cards
In a way, this period is called Child week because natives of this period emulate what one would call a child stereotypically. With characteristics such as wonder, awe, curiosity, and primal energy, these natives symbolize the period in which a child absorbs impressions and integrates itself to become part of their environment with their individuality intact. đś
Natives born during this week often display characteristics like being open, honest, and dynamic. They often exhibit spontaneity and liveliness in themselves but also look for these traits in other people. As a rule of thumb, these natives have a low frustration level, but these flares usually pass on quickly. Often criticized for being naive or superficial, they are susceptible to criticism, and when they feel misunderstood, they often walk away from the situation or withdraw to brood. đ
To those who wish to get along with these natives, it is essential to understand that direct expression is necessary. One of their most significant difficulties would be getting along with others in mundane situations, and probably an ideal situation for them would be for these natives to be left alone with few restrictions. Often they can make positive impressions, though with their charm and innocence. However, they are stubborn when it comes to their beliefs, and their idealism, more often than not, acts as a roadblock to possible compromises. đ
As a word of advice, remember to assess a situation before you take the initiative because, at times, your emotion could get the better of you, and you may make a mistake. Cultivate a quieter approach but do not neglect your aggression by bottling them up. There will be times when you need affection and support, so acknowledge it and do not hesitate to ask for help when you require it. đĽ°
Security and stability are very important for Taurus Ascendant ladies. They are loyal, dedicated and persistent. Once they have set their eyes on something (or someone!), nothing will stop them from completing their goals. Since Venus is their chart ruler, they can be quite artistic.
In love, they believe that relationships are supposed to be long-term (even eternal). They expect loyalty and intense feelings from their partners. These ladies tend to be slightly possessive, because whatâs theirs is theirs!
Physically, their appearance can be described as sensual - they have very sensual lips and features. Venus, the planet of beauty and harmony, is doing her best work here. Taurus Ascendant women are usually shorter than Aries Ascendant women, but their bodies are strong. Their faces are squares or ovals. Their nose might be a little bit wider, roundly shaped. The complexion of their skin is fair and they tend to have darker, thick hair and darker eyes. These women look really soft, their clothing is stylish and classic.
Fruit: Pears symbolize prosperity, good health, fruitfulness and femininity.
Gemstone: Rose quartz is one of the gemstones associated with Taurus (another popular one is emerald). They symbolize love, friendship and fertility.Â
Flower: Poppy - a symbol for resting, imagination, eternal life, beauty and luxury.
Metal: Copper is associated with beauty, love, art and sensuality.
Examples of Celebrities with Taurus Rising: Halle Berry, Dakota Fanning, Gigi Hadid
â Disclaimer: None of the images used above are mine. â
Aries Ascendant Women are fierce, strong, youthful and independent. In love, they have high standards for their partner; in no rush to settle down with anyone, because they are very self-reliant.
Physically, they tend to be of middle stature to tall. Their bodies are lean and athletic, befitting to vitality and youthfulness associated with the sign of Aries. They often have a long or thin face, usually broader at the temple area, narrowing down at the chin. Their complexion might have a beautiful and healthy looking hue of red. It is also impossible to miss their sharp and intense eyes.Â
Their clothing is not traditionally feminine, but usually very sexy and bold. Their clothes need to fit to their lifestyle full of action and fun. Since Aries is associated with the head, some Aries Ascendant Women like to wear hair ornaments of some sort.
Fruit: Apples are known to portray love, youth and beauty (perfectly fitting to the Aries Ascendant), but also sin, lust and the forbidden fruit.Â
Gemstone: The Ruby is one of the gemstones commonly associated with the sign of Aries. It stands for passion and courage. Other gemstones are diamond, bloodstone or the red jasper.
Flower: Tiger lily â a symbol for confidence, nobility, virtue of mercy and compassion. Also a symbol for the lack of arrogance or vanity.
Metal: Iron â a metal commonly associated with power, courage and protection.
Examples of female Celebrities with Aries Rising:Â PenĂŠlope Cruz, Rihanna, Shakira.
â Disclaimer: None of the images used above are mine. â
The cusp of rebirth is a combination of Pisces and Aries, the end and the beginning of the new astrological year. Interestingly, this period in the zodiacal calendar can be equivalent to the beginning of human life on earth when a child is born. With the mix between two different adjacent signs of sensitive Pisces and willful Aries, people born during this period could be seen as puzzling to others. They can be both dreamers and doers, often lacking stability and mental objectivity, resulting in a life with much conflict and flux. â¨
People born on this cusp are unashamedly direct in their approach to life. In fact, so much so that their outspokenness can garner immense admiration. Easily misunderstood due to their pure intention, they wonât back down no matter their position because they rarely see anything wrong with their actions. Dealing with failure could have them often baffled or bewildered, though, through insistence, they usually get what they want. đ
It is perhaps better for others to not urge for deeper reasons or ulterior motives behind these nativesâ actions because they resent being analyzed and self-analysis. For these natives to learn from their mistakes, it is better to encourage them from time to time. What they openly showcase to the world is who they really are. Their success in life is directly correlated to their objectiveness about their actions and their sense of self. đĽ
As a word of advice to these natives, remember to weigh alternatives and consider consequences before speaking/acting. Once they achieve this, their logic could be remarkably persuasive. Be patient with others and yourself, develop social skills by working with others, and get to know yourself better. Learn to listen to othersâ suggestions, slow your tempo, and follow the groupâs rhythm so that everyone could catch up. đź
If you're still doing them, I would please like a reading from you. I am a Libra and my url is my name. I would just like to know what message the universe has for me about trying to become a professional editor, if that is right for me or if I should try to go for something else. Thank you!
Hello dear, itâs nice to see you again in my Ask box đÂ
Unfortunately, the cards did not give me a definite answer 𤧠it is unclear whether this is the right path for you or not. Following it seems to be neither positive nor negative. Therefore I think it highly depends on what you want. Do you want to be a professional editor? Then go for it! Are you feeling unsure? Well then... to be fair, you are young! Try different things, do stuff that makes you happy! There does not seem to be a right or wrong in this case. Everything you do is adding to your life experience! đ Iâm sorry if this is not the answer you were hoping for.
Wishing you all the best, Lili đ
hi can i ask if anyone is entering my love life soon? my name is abby and im a libra sun, gem moon, cancer rising. thank you!! đ
Hello Abby â¨đ Yes, someone is going to enter your love life soon, perhaps a Sagittarius or someone that is showing that signâs characteristics! It is not something that will come easy though and the fact that the cards said âyesâ does not mean that it will guarantee what you are hoping for.
Therefore, they ask you to give it your all, your passion, your confidence, your ambition and your will to fight and overcome challenges. If you are able to use your inner fire, you are being rewarded with a loving and passionate relationship.
Iâm keeping my fingers crossed đ~ Lili
Hi Lili, thank you for your reading! âĽď¸ (LR anon here). Your advices are so great!! In fact, a new beginning is on the horizons because I will graduate uni soon lol, so you were almost right ! I struggled a lot this summer because I failed my finals, but had the chance to re-do them in september. I will keep this in mind ; I feel it as a confirmation I made the great adjustments lately (asking for help, lowering my expectations, as you said) 𼰠I hope you'll have a wonderful day âĽď¸ Much love đ!
Hello, dear đ thank you for your great feedback, I appreciate it 𤊠itâs really nice to hear that you made adjustments - sometimes that is the hardest thing to do and I can feel a lot of motivation coming from you! Iâm keeping my fingers crossed that things will turn out to be awesome <3 sending you much love back đđ
The Self & Spirituality - The Hanged Man
This card is associated with Neptune and I can imagine you are portraying some of its well-known characteristics, like dreaminess, martyrdom and indecisiveness. You might be a bit more introverted and you tend to withdraw to rethink about your past mistakes in order to not make those same mistakes again. Perhaps you also feel a bit tied in your actions or even somewhat trapped.
Spiritually, you should try to take care of yourself better - be kinder to yourself and refrain from negative thinking.
Love & Relationships - Page of Wands
This is indicating that you should leave your comfort zone together with your partner because your relationship might feel somewhat stagnant at this point. This break you both can take from your day-to-day routine is something you need in order to give passion and love a good boost.
If you are single, you should put yourself out there, if you are looking for a new romance or relationship. Take risks and do things youâd usually not do, step out of your comfort zone. You will be quite surprised.
Career & Finances - King of Pentacles
Someone at your workplace might act as some kind of mentor or teacher. They might have your best interest in mind, however, their criticism can turn out to be quite too harsh. You might not even want to get any tips or help from this person. For some of you, this might be a sign for a promotion.
Financially, your situation might get more stable. There might be some kind of windfall.
âď¸ Leo Moon â˝
The Self & Spirituality - The Star
This card suggests that you will be very creative. Some of you might even discover some artistic abilities and talents you didnât know about until now. It is indeed a really good time for you to start learning to play an instrument or to draw or really anything that has something to do with the arts.
Spiritually, you have a great connection to your inner self and the universe. Your intuition is really strong and now should be a good time to get into energy and healing work.
Love & Relationships - Ten of Wands
You are neglecting your significant other because of how busy you are and how many responsibilities you have both privately and at work. Find some opportunity to spend some quality time with them. If your schedule is packed, make some time. Not being there for them might make them walk away from you sooner or later - people need attention!
If you are single, you might find yourself being âtoo busyâ to date anyone.
Career & Finances - Nine of Cups
You are aiming high - and with good reasons. All the effort, all the work have been worth it. You are finally very close to your goal, both financially and career-wise. Even your higher-ups are noticing this - be ready for some praise!
âď¸ Leo Rising â
The Self & Spirituality - Knight of Swords
Making decisions will be an easy thing to do for you. We are talking about major decisions, and your ability to do so will surprise many people around you - making them wonder what your secret is.
People will also admire you for your very charming side and your quick wit.
Spiritually, you will meet real opportunities to advance your own path and big changes to your spirituality will come your way. Be prepared!
Love & Relationships - The Hanged Man
The relationship you are currently in might leave you having to reconsider it. You might be feeling unhappy and discontent. If you are happy with your relationship, there is a chance your partner is the one being unhappy. It doesnât have to be a bad thing as long as both of you are willing to work things out together as a couple.
If you are single, you will have to learn to let go this month. Let go of your ex-partners and situations that are still in your mind after such a long time. Donât let things from the past let you down.
Career & Finances - Nine of Pentacles
The many sacrifices you made for your career will finally pay off, making you reach new peaks. You might also be able to lay back for a bit, in form of some vacation or just taking it a bit slower at work.
Financially, you are very close to independence.
