God wants me dead & the devil wants me on her dick

[charl0ttan]

whats everyones favorite cocktails. i totally adore a sex on the beach. no rum and coke okay i want your favorite gay ass colorful fruity tasting type of drink okay? okay. i trust you. i love you

[sluttynurse]

imagine if public transit ran 24/7........ in my beautiful world

[renegadeer]

[holy-leapin-splits-batman]

[ranaeley]

Obligatory truck I don’t trust reblog

[vampire-loving-vampire]

hey white people . if u dont know how to pronounce an ethnic persons name *google it* or if its someone ur talking directly to *ask them*. dont fucking do that "erm i dont know how to pronounce but __" or "im gonna butcher this haha" or "im not even gonna bother trying" . ur not funny. do u know what poc think when they hear u saying that ? u sound like a loser asshole and we dont want to spend time with u . im so fucking tired of watching youtube videos about media from my country and hearing those phrases. im tired of people saying that to my face . i respect someone who clearly looked it up and is tryong but says my name wrong over someone who just goes with whatever bad first guess they had without trying. u have too many resources at ur disposal to keep doing this. for the love of god just Fucking Try. if ur confused Just Try.

[despair-tea]

I highly recommend Forvo.com, the website where native speakers of a language contribute their time and voices to read words and names in their own language. It is a fantastic way to expand your world, open up your ears, and it's way more likely to nab a hit than just googling.

[vampire-loving-vampire]

wow , I didn't know this existed, thanks so much for sharing the resource !! I will absolutely be using it now too 🖤

[literallyeltonjudas]

This advice is more useful for some folks than others, but if you interact with specific groups frequently, your life will get 1000% easier if you learn just the basic phonetics of a language/region. In my line of work, I interact with a lot of South Asian folks, and at some point I did maybe an hour of research on how Indian and Nepalese languages generally sound and how they get Romanized. I still have to double check myself now and again, but I'm pretty close if not dead on with my first stab like 90% of the time.

Had a coworker whose name was really not that hard to pronounce, and after years of working on the same team, I was the only person who said her name correctly :( everybody just gave her a one-syllable nickname because they were too afraid to fuck up.

Echoing OP--just try. Even if you have to ask, you'll feel stupid for like, 6 seconds, and then you'll be correct for the rest of forever, and nobody has to awkwardly answer to "Bu" for their entire career. Don't be afraid of somebody's name.

[robogrind]

hi milk looker!!

[sexygaywizard]

FUCK AMERICA HAPPY 100TH BIRTHDAY CEASAR SALAD 🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽❗❗❗

[kaban-bang]

[romancerepulsed]

i keep seeing misinformation about this, so: queerplatonic relationships do not have a set definition. the name comes from the idea that it's "queering" the platonic relationship, tailoring it to the individual relationships' own desires. it isn't necessarily romance lite, but it also isn't necessarily whatever definition you want to impose on it. the point of queering the platonic relationship is to break away from strict allonormative views on friendship, romance, and sex, not to make a new categorical box to fit in.

the answer to "what is a qpr?" is "whatever you want it to be." sometimes that is romance lite. sometimes it's a deeply committed friendship. sometimes it's friends who have a sexual relationship. sometimes it's based on an entirely different mode of attraction. sometimes it's fluid and impossible to put into words. it's whatever you want it to be. it's queer.

[aurca340]

deltarune chapter 5 weird route lake scene but instead of snd_ominous playing and getting louder its buzzing of bees and instead of flashing white its flashing bees and at the end the crt says "insert chapter 7 side bee"

[crocmoss]

kris: if i chug the entire vial of t i will become a man faster

susie: good idea dude

[lelif]

on survival

-// @aridante // @orivu // @buzzkillgirls // ? // ? // richard siken// @cemeterything // moomin, tove jansson// @disenchanted-killjoy // isn't that enough, shawn mendes// @ prettytheyswag on twitter// @ coletyumuch on twitter// ? // ? // bird by bird, anne lamott// undertale// @strawberrycircuits

[ryebreadgf]

my dad is very intensely involved a battle with his city’s public administration over a playground they have tried to forcibly remove like five times in the past 20 years and DID remove once in like 2005 but then had to rebuild because my dad was such a pain in their asses and came through with undeniable receipts of the zoning plan from the 60s/the historic/cultural value of the urban planning…. like there’s a woman in the city office who is his arch nemesis. he is literally the daredevil of urban planning

[literallyeltonjudas]

Being weapons-grade annoying IS our civic duty 🧡

[cutecipher]

as a feminist i support recreational abortion

[cutecipher]

i have mixed feelings about competitive

[cutecipher]

*maddest ive ever been, eye twitching* thats baseless. its something else actually.

[ohcorny]

sleep paralysis demons HATE him. this cartoonist discovers one weird trick to make them go away every time.

[toastyspider]

wan wan krissy cutie 🐕

[st-dionysus]

The dom shortage is fake. The top shortage is fake. The masc/butch shortage is fake. You just have bad vibes.

[pingintech]

no but literally tho its like the one constant also idk if this happens to trans men/trans mascs a whole lot but if youre a trans woman on the apps you get a LOT of cis dudes trying to explore crossdressing/gender with/through you every single time

[pingintech]

also from talking with a black gay cis man friend of mine it seems like he also gets some pretty insane messages on the apps which is not surprising tbh

[st-dionysus]

In reply to first reblog: in my experience cis dudes in trans men's DMs are either trying to convince us to bottom for them (even if we have stated super explicitly that we only top) OR it's a "heterflexible" cis dude who wants to take the strap (and will almost always use the term pegging) and ~explore~ his sexuality with someone he can aknowledge as a dude when being fucked but then refer to as a woman after sex to re-affirm his heterosexuality.

In reply to second reblog: That doesn't surprise me at all. I've had multiple friends who are cis Black men and bottom exclusively (and will state this their bio) and they tell me that they get endless DMs from people who want them to top becouse the person in their DMs has some sort of BBC fetish. I imagine for Black tops those sort of dehumanizing DMs are even more common. (And my own experience as being a top who is Latino on the apps has been...interesting. A fascinating number of DMs will start off with calling me "papi" and it's like...I didn't say you could call me that white baby.)

[pingintech]

sometimes i wish there was a button on the apps certain marginalized groups could press in order to send the person sending them weird dms to the shadow realm just like...... for a day at least

trans women tend to get the inverse in the sense that you could put bottom on every piece of your profile every third word and ppl would still try to get you to top but then ofc the ones who prefer a transfemme who bottoms are the "straight men" experimenting with being gay by topping trans women and femboys and then saying theyre still straight because it was a woman (even if they dont remotely treat you like one) and like these sound like opposite experiences but theyre also remarkably the same thing no???

ppl just love only accepting or ignoring a trans persons gender when convenient and treating us like sex toys to experiment with

[st-dionysus]

Thank you for sharing this!

I think ultimately it's the same result/experience that's being reached by a different methodology.

I think we can say that the experience of being viewed by cisgender men as a flexible gender that can be used for gay sexual exploration while still permitting cis men to affirm their masculinity/heterosexuality, is shared by trans people across the gender spectrum. The methodology of that involves misgendering trans women and transfem people during sex and misgendering trans men and transmasc people after sex, with the knowledge that these cis men are only "affirming" our genders when they do for their own personal gain, which is ultimately dehumanizing us.

Similarlly, the experience of being reduced to or assumed to be top/bottom based on presumed genital configuration. The experience is the same: people use bioessentialism to dictate how trans people should have sex.

For trans women and transfem people this shows up as "we except you to top, becouse we have assumed you have a penis, and people with penis's top." and for trans men and transmasc people this shows ups as "we expect you to bottom, because we have assumed you have a vagina, and people with vagiana's bottom".

What I find very fascinating about this specific phenomenon is that it's not at all exclusive to cishet people, but cis gay people (and even other trans people!!!!) will also make this assumption about trans people! I once had a cis lesbian ask me "How can you be a top, if you're a trans man? You don't have a dick." this was a woman that I know for a fact owned a strap on. 🤯🤯🤯.

[scramratz]

as far as im concerned, everyone is a part of me and i am a part of everyone unless proven otherwise