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DNI if you're queerphobic in any way, same with racism etc.

Enjoy my rambles and writing :)

I also reblog fandom stuff and honestly whatever i feel like

Writing and reblogs might be NSFW and i cant promise to tag stuff tbh

Fandoms: Arcane, The Locked Tomb, League of Legends, Valorant, Wednesday

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#sold to heartsteel

theconcealedweapon

himynameisemail

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so called "free thinkers" when there's a bug on the ceiling

graceofgosh

they/them punitive degendering of trans women is so wild bc if you point it out everyone who isn't a trans woman thinks you're crazy its flat out invisible to non transfems, bc "well they is neutral how can it be misgendering? stop being hysterical" and they look at you like you're going through a psychotic break if you try to explain the subtleties of how the they/them pronoun switch coincidentally always happens to "bad" trans women, and that you usually don't see cis women or men getting they'd the same way. and if you try to correct the person doing it that you're a she then you're going to be called enbyphobic by your own side. a terf and a republican are sharing popcorn on the couch in the distance and laughing at all our expense while this happens

itz-rainz-world

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piosplayhouse

14 year olds shipping discourse is inbreeding with itself to make the discourse equivalent of a brachycephalic bulldog at this point. They're inventing new extremely vague moral purity categories at a rate nearly equivalent to the Mormon church

* For the record btw a paraphilia by definition is just any sexual desire classed as "unusual" by the dsm, which can include anything from apparently getting horny about imagining yourself as a vampire (?) to being attracted to fictional characters, to being attracted to trans people. It's not an issue unless it has the capacity to cause real harm to yourself or others, at which point it becomes a paraphilic disorder

piosplayhouse

#this has gotta be like. really bad for your brain i think. like if this were about anything other than shipping i'd think it was undx ocd

It is indeed literally just a form of OCD!! I used to have these kinds of thoughts where I'd read a fic and immediately after have long depression spirals thinking that I would be arrested and everyone would hate me for being a terrible person! Now I am on medication! Please seek help if you're a teenager and deep into this way of thinking for real

by Zachary Appenzeller, Psy.D. & Patrick McGrath, PhD If you think about it long enough, it should not come as a surprise to you that some p

seaside-cave

one flesh one end, bitch ☠️

everythingfox

He loves club life

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spinhxara

blua

If you’re unemployed, it’s not because there isn’t any work.

Just look around: A housing shortage, crime, pollution; we need better schools and parks. Whatever our needs, they all require work. And as long as we have unsatisfied needs, there’s work to be done.

So ask yourself, what kind of world has work but no jobs? It’s a world where work is not related to satisfying our needs, a world where work is only related to satisfying the profit needs of business.

This country was not built by the huge corporations or government bureaucracies. It was built by people who work. And, it is working people who should control the work to be done. Yet, as long as employment is tied to somebody else’s profits, the work won’t get done.

somestuffidkidkidk

Was expecting classist bullshit, got the exact opposite

gourmetpunk

This is so ubelievably important and I hate that I have to keep re-explaining it to people.

thechekhov

Everyone, trying to warn me: Harrow the Ninth is so complicated and so hard to get through and you won't have any idea what the hell is happening!

Me: Harrow the Ninth is peak comedy if your sense of humor is fucked beyond all sense.

virtualtoybox

This pride we have GOT to stop making fun of bi women with boyfriends btw . I’m so so serious .

missphrog

Awww boohoo are some men sad :(

despazito

>hates men

>takes it out on women

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nolanhattrick

#as the bi women with the boyfriend i get tired of this discourse so i don't like to bring it up but it is pride month after all #and i am in fact a proud bi woman #it's the man hating rhetoric that pisses me off #i don't even care if you think i'm 'not really gay' but how comfortable some of you gays are with unconditionally hating men is gross #if i was dating a trans man no one would dare question if we were in a 'queer' relationship even though it would literally be equally het #bc u guys don't see trans men as real men and you don't think cis men belong anywhere near Igbt

sorry steph have to add your tags to this bc they're very relevant and some people need to be hit over the head with frying pans when it comes to this topic

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the idea of a privileged trans paradise, especially within the United States, is an absolute lie. There are places where violence is more likely and less likely, depending on the population size and political/cultural breakdown, but you can be killed for being trans in New York or Portland. You can be harassed or denied treatment or fired or evicted for being trans in Seattle or Los Angeles. Your legal ability to defend yourself against this will differ but the harm done to you will not change. Protection of trans people is less about where you are and more about who you're with. Trans people and queers in general have had to protect one another in a hostile world for decades. With the liberalization/capitalization of trans and queer spaces and greater dependence on online communities came a breakdown of this survival community. That's why we have shit like Plume eating up the airwaves with their subscription based bullshit giving you info you could've gotten at the local queer/trans support group before it disbanded. Isolation is your greatest weakness. No matter where you are or how safe you feel, get a fucking crew, people you're friends with or just people in the area who will have your back. Get each other's numbers, stay in contact, and ANSWER THE CALL WHEN YOU GET IT

that-butch-archivist

"I am a femme. I pined for women for more than a decade following that visit to New Orleans, agonizing for months at a time until finally I would write in my journal, "I think I'm a L-E-S...," only to begin the cycle again, and again. Some of my fears were the usual what-does-it-mean-to-be-a-lesbian kind, generated by a homophobic society. I also had another kind of fear, which was that being a lesbian meant giving up my flamboyance and my love of changing myself through makeup and costume. I was afraid that I would have to wear army surplus pants for the rest of my life. And I knew fucking was important to me. If tribadism was controversial (as it was in the seventies), would I ever have wild, passionate sex again? That was quite a conflict. All my fantasies were about women, but it seemed as though being with women meant leaving my passions behind. It was made clear to me by the lesbian community that my conventionally pretty features and hourglass figure were not considered lesbian enough (being pretty wasn't politically correct). And society told me I was too pretty to be a lesbian. So was I judged, based on the same societal norms, by both groups. Being femme isn't about what I'm wearing, although it can be. I don't understand why being a lesbian who wears a three-piece suit is considered a social radical, while a lesbian who wears a dress, her sexuality up-front yet unavailable to the heterosexual norm, is not. Why is that only men get to be flamboyant in order to be considered socially radical? From my perspective that is letting men have all the fun again."

- An excerpt from "Femme: Very Queer Indeed," an essay written by Victoria Baker and found in The Femme Mystique. (Emphasis in bold my own.)