I know this is long af, but believe me, reading through this whole post won’t disappoint you and I promise that. I hope you end up smiling after reading this.
okay so first of all, I just wanted to make it super clear to ya’ll that no one, and I mean no one is ugly or unattractive or bad looking okay? your appearance is amazing, gorgeous and beautiful, more than perfect and I promise you that. and I’ll give you the biggest reason as to why you’ve been lied to this whole time. it’s simple, the answer is tHE FUCKING MEDIA anD SOCIETY. from a very long time ago, beauty has been standardized and has been given labels and what not. you know what this world needs more of? more of unity and less of division. because if we look at it with our eyes actually open, we are fucking divided by either where we come from, or our skin color, or our sexuality or just how we look to begin with! we are all one, regardless the differences. because in my eyes, before you’re straight or gay or bi, before you’re a “black” or a “white”, before you’re tall or short, before you’re fat or skinny or curvy, YOU ARE A HUMAN BEING. and all of us human beings are fucking beautiful. we can’t do anything about our appearances no matter how hard we try to impress or satisfy other people because fuck them, you don’t live and breathe for other people’s expectations, you do it for yours. under all that makeup, under all those man made products you’re using to cover and hide yourself from the world, you’re beautiful and if no one thinks so, I think so, I know so and I believe so. people have standardized what beauty is supposed to look like. but that’s not the truth, they’ve fucking brainwashed us all into believing that a particular size or weight, or eye color, or height, voice or any aspect of the body is going to define how you look in front of the world. and ONLY if you have blue eyes or any color that’s not brown, or you’re fucking 6 ft tall, or have the fit; so called “hot summer beach body”, or have a sharp jawline, you’re beautiful and if you don’t, you’re just another average human being. AND I CALL BULLSHIT ON THAT, because no matter how you look, you’re unique and no one can take that away from you. your eyebrows, your beautiful skin color, your eyes even if they’re brown, brown is beautiful as well okay? your nose or lips, height and weight, fat or skinny, curvy or not; yOU ARE BEAUTIFUL OKAY? every single thing about you is fucking beautiful, not one thing about you is anywhere even close to unattractive. you don’t have to be someone else or hide yourself away with cosmetics to show your beauty; and it’s only and only because you’re beautiful.
you are you and you’re the best at being you and that’s exactly why you’re perfect. human beings aren’t perfect because we all make mistakes and it’s a fucking fact. but as individuals, as who we are, we are all unique and beautiful inside and out. those things about you, your physical aspects and behavior and everything just everything about you, is something the next person or anyone in this world doesn’t have and that goes out to each and every one of you.
and one of the most fucked up things that has been existing from a long ass time ago is GENDER ROLES AND JUST GENDERING THINGS IN GENERAL. like to be very fucking honest, our first biggest example is FUCKING PERFUME. WHY IS THERE A MEN’S AND WOMEN’S PERFUME AND NOT JUST A PERFUME FOR EVERYONE??? like seriously, so you’re telling me that if I apply this Dior perfume for men, I will smell like a manly male human being?? HELL NO. why does scent and smell have to be given a gender, just fucking why?? IT DOESNT MATTER IF YOURE A BOY OR A GIRL OR A TRANSGENDER OR ANY GENDER, BEFORE ALL OF THAT GENDER NONSENSE, YOU ARE A HUMAN BEING AND YOURE BEAUTIFUL AND YOU HAVE FEELINGS JUST LIKE THE OTHERS. it’s not a man loving a woman or a woman loving a woman, it’s a fucking HUMAN loving another HUMAN!
to conclude this, you are loved. you are not alone. because if you think you are alone and not loved by anyone and all the signs have put you down to thinking that, tHEN FUCK EVERYONE BECAUSE I LOVE YOU. I LOVE YOU FOR YOU, FOR WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU ARE AND HOWEVER YOU ARE. and ONE MORE THING, sTOP LABELLING EVERYTHING, let it be the wAY IT IS.
