Iām still at a loss about how people can be so cruel and take out their own issues on others like itās acceptable to do. News flash, it isnāt. Your past of issues and negativity should make you more aware of how you should be kinder and more understanding of others.
My childhood wasnāt perfect yet Iāve learned you do your best to be kind to others even despite everything.
My father was an alcoholic growing up.
My parents fought a lot.
My parents were going to go through divorce.
My father got cancer and thankfully recovered.
I was sexually assaulted when I was younger and this is the first time coming out about it.
Iāve had horrible relationships and have been treated poorly by men my whole life.
I got hsv2 from someone I used to love and trusted.
Have battled mental illnesses since I was a teenager.
Those things can hurt you and alter you for the rest of your life but I donāt use them as excuses to treat people poorly. Be verbally abusive to people. Play the victim card and not take responsibility of actions Iāve taken.
Donāt be that person. Be kind and loving. Make closure where you can and try to just be better than what youāve experienced.
