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Loch / Sai ♫ any pronouns ♫ selfship sideblog

[lochselfships]

lochselfships — introduction!

F/O list + tags ⋆ askbox ⋆ main/host blog

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General Tagging System:

🩷 || Darling Dance ⋆ original posts/rambles

🖌️ || Heartfelt Portrait ⋆ original art of my f/os

💐 || Love Letters ⋆ imagines, fics, etc.

♻️ || Reblogging! ⋆ reblogs from my other accounts (self-ship related)

୧ ‧₊˚ 🍬 ⋅ interaction-based tags:

💌 || Q&A ⋆ asks + responses

💕 || OTPs ⋆ other ppls selfships

🪽 || Cupid's Game ⋆ ask / reblog games

｡ ﾟ ꒰ঌ 🎭 ໒꒱ ༘*.ﾟ

Name: Loch (S/I name) or Sai (online alias)

Details: 20 year old brit, arospec/queer and nonbinary, full of autism and love, i go by any pronouns

Interests: currently extremely into Dandy's World (RBLX) — special interests (not really posted about here) include animation, online history, hermitcraft and slime rancher

Main F/Os: Alfur (Hilda), Matt (Eddsworld), Todomatsu (Osomatsu-San)

This Blog: I'll mostly be posting art of my selfships, general f/o imagines, and rambling with other selfshippers! It's unlikely I'll post anything NSFW, but if anything is suggestive it'll come with a warning and appropriate tagging. I largely encourage asks and interaction and adore hearing about others selfships/OCs/etc; tag me in any selfship post or game ya want and I'll almost definitely hype you up for it :D

— no specific DNI, i'll block/ignore as i see fit

* ੈ🌈‧₊˚ pinned last updated: June 13th, 2025

[ren-054]

Yayyy yippeee yayyy :D

Baby it’s [warm temperature in the northern hemisphere] outside 🎶

[comfort-character-central-deact]

Your f/o wants you to be happy. They want to see you succeed, to feel better, to reach your goals and achieve your dreams. Your f/o would be rooting for you in any and every way they could. Why wouldn't they? They'll always believe in you.

[angeldeleche-deactivated2025112]

if there is an age gap in your selfship(s), how big is that gap?

1 / 2 / 3 / 4 / 5 years

6 / 7 / 8 / 9 / 10 years

more than 10 years (please specify)

there is no age gap / i do not selfship

Voting ended onOct 16, 2025

[elvis-official]

Elvis, do you support selfshippers ? 👉👈

Woah mama of course I do

[uss-moonveil]

This is how I feel whenever my f/o is on screen >_<

[fiirstloves]

f/os who are openly jealous but don't want to be too "obvious." the ones who would wrap their arms around your waist and place their faces into your neck. the ones who hold your hand tightly and bring it up to their lips to press a kiss in front of everyone else in the room. the ones who will call you "my love" or "honey" or "baby" to anyone who dares to flirt with you because you're theirs. the ones who lean close to your ear to whisper secrets that only the two of you can share. when the person who dared take your attention away from them finally gets the hint and leaves, they finally feel safe enough to ease up. but they can't stop the grin on their face as they nuzzle against you.

divider @/enchanthings-a

[imagine-your-nonhuman-fo]

You and your F/O were sharing an animal crossing island and both of you are making separate islands what do you get in the island divorce

Are you splitting up money or tickets, are you fighting for who keeps what villager, is there a piece of furniture one of you insist one taking to your new island

[a-silly-bunny]

Repost with an F/O quote that occupies your mind 24/7

[fictother]

F/Os helping out with the pointedly unfun parts of self care, especially in terms of being chronically ill or disabled.

F/O holding your hand during blood tests, because ow. F/O soothing you from injection anxiety. Helping with disposing of lancets, injection needles, and taking the sharps bin to the pharmacy because you're too damn tired. F/O defending you in public when people start shaming you or giving you weird looks for enjoying ice cream.

F/O who keeps a close eye on you if you're not visibly disabled in the way most people expect. Who will adamantly defend you from anyone telling you you're not 'disabled enough'. F/O who doesn't care if they sound rude or off putting when they openly re-educate people on what it means to have what most consider an invisible disability.

F/O who cleans your glasses. F/O who always makes sure you put them in a safe spot. F/O who comes with you to the routine optometrist appointment for moral support.

F/O who is genuinely there for everything, even if 'everything' isn't always as fluffy or pretty or 'perfect' as some people think.

[mrstouchdown-deactivated2025091]

trying to lock in and finish that f/o fic like this

pr*ship dni

[uss-moonveil]

This has me genuinely losing it

[kittyplushy-deactivated20250825]

I love you selfshippers who stick to only one f/o for a looooong time bc it gives them comfort and because their f/o is so special to them. Although it can be lonely as the "novelty" of a new f/o may wear off to the greater selfshipping community or even to your mutuals, it doesn't erase how exciting it is to love love love a character so freely and for so passionately for so long.

[deathdetermineslife]

tomodachi life selfship userboxes !

has anyone does this bee four . i dunno , i was lookin at pngs and i was Inspired . okay i hope u like bye bye now

pro.ship make ur own pls thank u !

[apevincible]

You. Yes, YOU. Imagine your male / masc F/O in a skirt RIGHT NOW. Think about them twirling around in it. #propaganda

[girlballs-archive]

roommate is out of town for a week...i could walk around completely naked if i wanted. but that's scary. what if the creature gets ahold of my peanits

[darkmoonhyena]

*creaches*

[girlballs-archive]

[jessica-fitzgerald]

You are NOT ‘high maintenance’ for your f/o

You do NOT have too much emotional baggage for your f/o

Your f/o is NOT with you out of a mere obligation

You are NOT unattractive to your f/o

You are NOT a burden on your f/o

You ARE, however:

Enough for your f/o

Beautiful/Handsome to your f/o

Perfect for your f/o

The whole world to your f/o

Your f/o’s motivation for everything

A comforting person that makes your f/o’s day better

A beacon of hope to your f/o