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Physicist Proposes To Boyfriend Using Hexagonal Mirror
Ben Bartlett, a physics PhD student, proposed to his boyfriend of eight years by using a hexagonal mirror array to reflect the light from the setting sun onto the ground to spell MARRY ME?
Adorable.
“Beware of destination addiction: The idea that happiness is in the next place, the next job, or even with the next partner. Until you give up the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will never be where you are.”
— Unknown
Friendly reminder that fanart and fanfic is created for, you guessed it, fandom. It’s made by fans, for fans. Posted on whatever platform the fan artist or writer chooses to share their work. This is their safe space. Don’t repost someone else’s stuff where they themselves didn’t choose to put it in the first place. Don’t tag actors or show creators. It doesn’t matter if said actor or show creator is thrilled to see it. That doesn’t somehow cancel out the fact that you took something that someone else created and shared it to people it was never meant to be shared with. Don’t do that. Please don’t do that. Please don’t ruin the safe space that is fandom.
Eddie: [leaves Chris and Shannon for months on end for the first five years of Chris' life because he chooses to be a soldier, knows barely anything about his own son and clearly doesn't know how to handle him as a consequence, neglects Shannon and makes decisions without her to the point where she chooses to leave them, Chris wasn't a planned child and Eddie clearly expressed that he doesn't like children generally but only Chris specifically because he's his son, chooses to rip Chris away from all the people who have been the only constant in his life, unlike Eddie til that point, to work in LA as if there are no fires in Texas just to maybe reconnect with Shannon, goes street fighting which is illegal and is very dangerous and goes to jail for hitting a man which could have easily led to him losing Chris]
B*ddie fandom: OH POOR BABY 🥺🥺🥺 he is such an amazing father and obviously wants 10 children with Buck and always makes smart decisions that are never hurting anyone!! 😭😭💔🙌 Eddie is a man so he's allowed to abandon his family for a job and hit people, it's not like his past actions define him or anything so stop talking about it!!! 😡😤💢💢 Flaws™? Eddie doesn't have those 💅💁♀️
Taylor: [is shown to not be home one (1) time when Buck himself comes home from his 4-day-long shift because of her job]
B*ddie fandom: she's a selfish MONSTER!!!!!!! 😤😠😤😠 obviously she HATES all children and never WANTS any children and that is ILLEGAL for a female human!!!! ☠️☠️☠️ she wants different things from life than Buck, i deduced that from seeing how her hair is curled 😤🙌 the One Decision she made years ago about the firefighters that meant nothing to her at that point was WRONG, and we'll Never stop bringing it up to make sure y'all never forget that we have every reason to hate the selfish, children-hating bitch! 💅💅 we don't care whatever fucking development she gets, she's forever Evil 👿💥💣💥
THE ABSOLUTE TEA 🍵 HERE!!!
One of the fucked up side effects of purity culture that I’ve seen in fandom is people bending over backwards to morally justify a character’s actions instead of just admitting that a character they like did some fucked up things and accepting it’s okay to like them anyway.
Well-written characters, like people, are flawed. Sometimes they fuck up. Sometimes they’re problematic. This doesn’t make them unforgivable or unlovable. You can fully disagree with and disapprove of stuff a character has done and still be a fan of that character because you find them compelling and interesting and in many ways relatable.
But because of this warped purity culture bullshit telling kids that they’re TERRIBLE PEOPLE for liking X character because X character is problematic, they will do bugfuck insane mental gymnastics to argue that no, X character is a perfect pure cinnamon roll and everyone else is terrible and so mean to them and “protect X character at all costs!!!”
Because of this, you have fans who have now completely lost the capacity to acknowledge any of a character’s flaws, instead arguing in favor of some really atrocious stuff by trying to justify it. I’ve watched people argue in favor of torture, in favor of internment, in favor of genocide, in favor of terrorism, and in favor of murder, all because they were stanning for their fav and felt backed into a corner where they couldn’t admit that a character they liked was flawed, lest that somehow cast them as morally tainted in the eyes of this hellsite’s black and white ethical absolutism.
For fuck’s sake. Let people like problematic things. Let people like problematic characters. Let people enjoy things without telling them they’re horrible people and forcing them to defend everything they like to the death.
Because they will defend it, and we’ll wind up in a worse place than we started in.
OP here, and I want to make very fucking clear: This is not a “YOU HAVE TO ADMIT YOUR FAV IS BAD” post.
This is a STOP FUCKING TELLING PEOPLE THEY CAN’T HAVE ASSHOLE FAVS AND THEY’RE BAD PEOPLE FOR WHO THEY LIKE IN FICTION post. Stop fucking putting people in a position where they feel like they have to be this defensive just to enjoy a made-up character. Stop making people morally justify what they like in goddamn imaginary stories.
WHAT AN ABSOLUTE QUEEN FOR THIS
a tutorial on rescuing someone from an uncomfortable or dangerous situation
Damn. She did everything right. Yes, this is dangerous. But even a violent man is still human and can be outplayed. Predators rely on a pattern or routine. Disrupt the routine, and the predator freezes up. Once you disrupt them, don't give them time to develop a response. Be bold. Be decisive. Talk loud. Act fast.
How should I approach this as a man? I wouldn’t want to make her more uncomfortable but I also wouldn’t be able to physically intimidate anyone because I’m short and un-athletic.
Talking to the woman is going to be hit or miss, just because she won't know if you are an "out if the frying pan, into the fire" situation. BUT, you could still go with "thanks for waiting, you ready to go? Oh, who's this?" And if she walks with you, you can say that she looked uncomfortable. I had a guy once ask if I could help with his phone to get me away from a conversation. OR: talk to the dude. "Hey man, can you give me directions to this place? Don't I know you from somewhere?" Etc. Then she has time to escape. There are no set in stone answers, even if you don't handle it perfect, if she gets out of the situation safely, count it as a win
Thank you for the response!!
Talking to the dude works!
One of my colleagues spotted a woman facing slightly away from a man who was talking to her, who was scary close. She looked uncomfortable and made eye contact. He noticed the guy was wearing a Broncos jacket and nonchalantly passed them both by and started the sports speak to the dude, like "aw bro did you see the defense last night? Hell of a time to he a Bronco fan, right?" And stood slightly behind the guy so he had to turn away from the woman. She said a cheeky "I'm not into sports, g'night!" comment and slipped away to the elevator. The dude looked super pissed but just stalked away to his car.
What was he supposed to do, admit to bad intentions?
Sometimes you don't need to be the savior, but a distraction.
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gay men’s bodies aren’t jokes, twinks are awesome, bears are awesome, otters are awesome, hunks are awesome, unaligned men are awesome, top and bottom aren’t personalities, there’s no way to “act” like a top or a bottom, top doesn’t mean masculine, bottom doesn’t mean feminine, men showing femininity isn’t sexual, every feminine man isn’t a twink, gay men don’t have to want sex to be real gay men, gay sex is epic and holy and beautiful
gay men’s bodies aren’t jokes, twinks are awesome, bears are awesome, otters are awesome, hunks are awesome, unaligned men are awesome, top and bottom aren’t personalities, there’s no way to “act” like a top or a bottom, top doesn’t mean masculine, bottom doesn’t mean feminine, men showing femininity isn’t sexual, every feminine man isn’t a twink, gay men don’t have to want sex to be real gay men, gay sex is epic and holy and beautiful
There is a new Chrome extension that detects if a video you’re streaming has a strobe in it, will freeze the video and stick this warning up there until you approve it.
WHERE THE HELL HAS THIS BEEN ALL MY LIFE????
[image description: a screencap of the chrome web store, showing an extension called “seizsafe - epilepsy alert for youtube” and an example image of the extension, showing a blocked video with the text “warning: the following content may potentially trigger seizures for people with photosensitive epilepsy.” there is a toggle with an option reading: “don’t warn me again during this video. click here or hit spacebar to continue watching 👆”. end image description.]
chrome webstore link:
Prevent Photosensitive-Epileptic seizures while watching YouTube™ videos. We'll warn you before you see any flashy videos.
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Not sure who needs to see this, but if a Service Dog starts backing into you, pushing you away from their handler, or they sit down at a leash distance from their handler
You Should Move Away.
They are performing a task known as "spacing" or "blocking" that helps reduce or prevent anxiety in their handler.
They are NOT "asking for pets" or being disobedient or asking to be spoken to. All you have to do is stay back from the dog and handler.
This is not a capslock PSA because I'm not sure how many people that don't have a SD actually know this is a trained task.
