If you’ve followed me before, you’ll probably notice this space feels different now. My life has shifted, and so has the direction of this blog. I’m still me, still single, but I’m choosing a more intentional, faith-centered path—leaning into my Catholic beliefs and trying to build a quieter, more grounded life.
This blog won’t be what it used to be. It’s softer, more reflective… but still honest. There may still be a little bit of “spice” here and there—but nothing like before. It's just a more balanced PG-13/PG-16 kind of space.
What you will see here:
Healthy patriarchy
Traditional gender roles
Tradwife posts
Some spicy posts but nothing too crazy
This blog is a space for me to grow into the life I feel called to live. I’m drawn to a more traditional path—embracing femininity, faith, and the idea of building a home, being a wife, and one day a mother. I truly want to get married and create something meaningful with someone.
At the same time, I’m still working through my own thoughts and fears. I sometimes feel like I wouldn’t be a good mother—but I’m trying to make peace with that idea, to grow into it instead of running from it.
I won’t pretend I have everything figured out. Sometimes, I feel lost, sometimes I doubt myself, and sometimes I struggle with thoughts that don’t reflect the woman I want to become. But this is about overcoming those patterns—not feeding them.
This blog may include personal reflections, ideals, and things I’m trying to internalize. Some posts will be aspirational, some will be messy. That’s part of the process.
If this space isn’t for you, that’s okay. Feel free to move on.
You’re welcome to send asks—I appreciate thoughtful perspectives and encouragement. Please keep things respectful.
Mostly reblogs, sometimes personal posts. I also interact from another account… so if you notice, just let it be.
Three words that will get me canceled... and set me free simultaneously.
Look at her face though.
That's not a woman who's suffering. That's a woman who found something most people spend their whole lives looking for... a place to belong, a person to belong to, a role that actually fits.
Serving E isn't beneath me. It's the most purposeful thing I do, and obeying him isn't a loss. It's a choice I make every single day because he has earned it and I have chosen it. Those two things together make it something the world doesn't have a flattering word for.
Feels good to have chosen this life of serving my man and letting him lead instead of the stress of suffering under feminism and trying to take a role that was not meant for me
btw hating on tradwifes is actually anti-feminist. because it's fine if you don't want that lifestyle for yourself, but she does. if a woman wants to be a stay-at-home mom and cook, clean, and take care of the kids, there is no reason she shouldn't be able to do so. women fought for us so that we have the right to choose and if a woman chose to be tradwife, then so be it. it's her choice, leave her alone.
" You know you don't have to check in with him? You don't need his approval, your body your choice. You can do that yourself this is the 21st century."
Like yes, that's all objectively true. But I chose to submit to Him because I think He's a great leader. It is a privilege for me to be able to relax under His Authority and be my softest and most feminine self. Why does that upset (You)?
I GET to ask for reassurance and validation in a way we agreed works best for us.
So I GET to check in and tell Him how my day is progressing.
Don’t ever wear men’s clothes. Always remember you’re a girl and dress accordingly.
There is a fine line between sexy and slutty. There is a time and place for both.
Never swear and don’t talk loudly. Keep your voice down and keep it pleasant.
Never interrupt a Man while he’s talking. Wait your time. If he cuts you off stop talking and wait patiently until he’s finished before continuing.
Never talk back. If you disagree say so but in a pleasant manner. Never bitch and never complain and never accuse. Recognise when he’s made up his mind. When he’s told you his decision accept it and move on even if it didn’t go your way.
Openly disagreeing with your Man or questioning him in public shows disunity and should be avoided. Keep your disagreements private (and remember 3-5 above).
Always check in with your Man before making any decisions. Saying “I need to check with my boyfriend/husband” is a perfectly valid answer to most questions.
Be happy and be positive. Do your best to please the people around you and especially your Man. Always ask yourself what more you can do. Look for opportunities to please and be of use.
Always be polite and respectful. Say “thank you” and “please.” If you’ve done anything to upset your Man remember to say “I’m sorry.”
A woman's truest adornment is the grace she carries in her soul and the modesty she reflects in her presence. True beauty lies in a heart that remains gentle despite the world.
I don’t necessarily believe housewives are the future, but I do believe it’d become more accepted and normalized! There’s nothing wrong with being a working woman. There’s also nothing wrong with being a housewife, especially a Trad/1950s housewife/Stepford wife! They’re equally valid! I can’t wait to be a housewife, but I’m definitely rooting for the women that want to have careers too.
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