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Reece

A little info on him: He is a demon, more specifically the demon of no regret or guilt. He has been an assassin for 9,000 years. (He also actually has way more scars than just the ones on his face, I just didn't add them in yet whenever I took the photo, but just for reference, he is absolutely COVERED in scars) Ask him questions and he will answer the best he can! Whether it's about his sexuality, his past, his family, his job, anything! Also, Shay and Co. may answer some questions for Reece too, so be prepared for a lot of people to interact with here!

These people include: Sammy ("bestie"), Levi (coworker), Shay (sister), Mason (sister's boyfriend), Stalin (Friend), Dangour (magic-y person), and Opian (Friend)

Have fun and ask away!

#ask blog #my ocs #OC

pukicho

do you like all might ? (mha )

my hairy asshole is one of my favorite anime's of all time

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That's some of the most realest things you've posted

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Gojo for the soul

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GOJO :000

#OMG IT'S GOJO

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how to grow the fuck up

friendliness

Home

what the hell is a mortgage?

first apartment essentials checklist

how to care for cacti and succulents

the care and keeping of plants

Getting an apartment

Money

earn $50-$100 by taking surveys

how to coupon

what to do when you can’t pay your bills

see if you’re paying too much for your cell phone bill

54 ways to save money

How to do Your Own Taxes

Health

how to take care of yourself when you’re sick

things to bring to a doctor’s appointment

how to get free therapy

how to prevent a hangover

a list of stress relievers

how to remove a splinter

Emergency

rights when cops pull you over

a list of hotlines in a crisis

things to keep in your car

how to do the heimlich maneuver

Job

time management

create a resume

find the right career

choosing a major

job interview tips

how to stop procrastinating

How to write cover letters

Travel

ultimate packing list

traveling when you have no money

best way to pack a suitcase

how to apply for a passport

how to make a travel budget

Better You

read the news

leave your childhood traumas behind

how to quit smoking

how to stop skipping breakfast

how to stop micromanaging

ways to get better at asking for help

how to stop being a pushover

learn another language

how to improve your self-esteem

how to sew

reasons to stay alive

small daily goals

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Imma need this eventually cause they don’t teach you jack squat in school

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Ima schedule to reblog this when I’m 16.

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Ima need this eventually

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same fam.

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Pfffft i’m 32 and I still need some of this advice

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Reblogging now for future me

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I’m sure future me will need at least one of these links.

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This is a special tool that'll help us later

pukicho

I was gonna add text but I feel like that's too extra

That's gonna look good up there

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Yeah that's the one

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For sure

animentality

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All my thoughts exactly in order tbh

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this is a political compass of sexuality to me.

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So, I know that I've been gone a long while, but I would like to come forward with my story, specifically about being sa'd. It's not to put anyone down, but it's just to remind people that you are not at all alone ♡

So, my story starts at a very very young age, around 5-7. Im not sure where to start exactly, or how to explain the things that happened to me, so I'll start of blunt and get into details later. I was sa'd, physically abused, mentally abused and neglected. My cousin sa'd me and abused me physically and mentally, my grandfather abused me physically and mentally and neglected me, my mother neglected me and so did my grandmother, my father was not present and I was bullied my entire life and most of the relationships I've been in were heavily manipulative and abusive.

Now, some of my circumstances are very unique, specifically for how exactly I was sa'd. So, my cousin (C) would pester me with the same question: Can we go behind the bed and pull our pants down? My answer was no, but he would continue asking me until I said okay. I was not okay with it and he knew that. It was not consent, hell, I was in second grade, I couldn't consent if I tried. Now the reason he got away with it was because I was the older child, and "I should've known better" Age does not matter when it comes to sa. It doesn't cancel out, it doesn't determine who did what, it does not matter how old you are, victims are still victims and just because the victim may be older than the perpetrator, that does not mean that "they should have known better", it does not mean that their experience is invalid. Just because I was two years older than him, does not mean that I wanted it. It does not mean that I was the one who initiated it, nor does it mean that he is innocent. A case was opened up about it, but overall nothing happened and if I could go back and say yes to the restraining order, I would. He would hit me if I didn't go along with what he wanted and would constantly tell me that I'm useless, that no one wanted me, ect. He still tells me things like this to this day and when I retaliated, I was the one who got in trouble. Child-On-Child sa is still sa and I am genuinely so angry that I did not get any justice for what happened to me, hell, I was the one who got in trouble for telling my therapist what happened to me and getting them to open a case about it, which is extremely fucked up.

I might make another post going into the other things that happened to me, but I'm not sure. I might when I get comfortable with it. Remember, you are not alone and I hope this post can give other survivors of cocsa the courage to speak up about it. I'm sorry that this does not end with a happy ending, but hopefully one day we will all get our happy ending.

#my story #sa

God I haven't been on here in a while what's been happening

#sleepy