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One tells the truth, the other only lies. You may ask one question

got a crick in my neck and a frog in my throat and a chip on my shoulder and a stick up my ass and now you're gonna stand there puttin words in my mouth? haven't I been through enough?

i-defy-categorization

Constantly torn between loving bloodymary because it's a fun crackship that allows Simon to get a happy ending and Grace to have another human and being really annoyed as an aroace person. Completely understanding the frustration a lot of others feel in finally getting a story that is 100% about strong platonic relationships and yet. And yet. Every allo person ever saw it and then completely threw out the obvious aroace coding in favor of shipping. Like they literally always do. (*cough cough* remembering the *canonically* ace character of Jonathan Sims and look. He can have sex. There are authors/artists who show him having sex and still being ace, and try to be clear about how that affects things and I love them. But so many of you don't even consider how his ace-ness would change the way he views it and it's kind of pissing me off--okay sorry for the derail.)

So I am once again asking all allo people who write bloodymary to make it just a little bit less strictly romantic and/or sexual.

Look, you don't have to stop shipping. I don't like telling people what they can and cannot enjoy, because I think that trying to decide what is "acceptable" to enjoy sucks so much joy out of fandom. But please for a moment at least consider an aroace lense to this.

Make them platonic. Make them a qpr (and I do mean genuinely changing how they interact with each other, not just throwing the label on it and calling it a day--like for example maybe kissing is fine but they don't make out. Or maybe how open Grace is to physical affection changes based on the day and they figure out a rhythm.) If you're dead set on romantic feelings--weird hill to die on but okay maybe you just want to write/draw them being intimate--you could make Grace demi and highlight how unusual of an experience this is and how out of his depth he feels. I'm also a fan of Simon being some flavor of aroace too, and I can only imagine intimacy was something he never really got to experience at all, or pushed down in favor of his other duties.

Just. Please I'm begging you. Look, I love shipping. I'm here with you guys. But don't have that be the end all be all, because it can be really disheartening to be constantly told "you'll find the right person" and "it'll happen eventually" and to have every where you look be filled to the brim with romance and sex, as though just a few experiences could somehow be the pinnacle of human experience. I am enough on my own, but it's hard to remember that when all of society tells you that you need another person to be fulfilled.

i-defy-categorization

Reblogging with my comment on another post because I had a lot to say. And I'm honestly scared to post this because I don't want to rock the boat or ruin anyone else's enjoyment of the ship, frankly feel free to ignore me and move on with your life. But this is also my Opinions Blog where I can say whatever the fuck I want.

Can you guys see how this is annoying for aroace people? I guarantee there are many of you who don't even see this as aphobia, because it's not intentional. But it is a noticeable pattern that everything needs to be about love and sex and I'm not going to pretend that that messaging doesn't get to me sometimes. Just something to consider.

wifegideonnav

gonna be honest i don’t know how many more ‘enter the 6 digit code we sent to your phone’s i got left in me

noob-handler

Gooseworx didn't deactivate, she was banned

Recently, you cannot access Gooseworx's blog anymore, and people thought she deactivated her Tumblr. However, she was actually banned. When someone deactivates their main blog, a string of numbers and letters is attached to their username: "-deactivated[year][month][day]"

When you look at posts made by Gooseworx, there's no "deactivated" and no numbers

Some speculate that this might have been a sideblog, since there's no "deactivated" string if you delete a sideblog, but it was her main blog. You can't use sideblogs to like posts. If you search "Gooseworx liked this" on google, you will find proof ithat she liked multiple Tumblr posts.

All of this adds up to one thing: Gooseworx was banned from Tumblr. And why? Gooseworx is a trans woman, and Tumblr staff hates trans women and bans them for no reason, and also, there is an ongoing harassment campaign against Gooseworx, so I bet they must have mass-reported her blog and gotten her banned. Fuck the "tadc critical" community, anyone in the "anti tadc" or "anti gooseworx" tags is NOT to be trusted!!!!!! They weaponized staff's transmisogyny to ban a successful trans woman off the platform all because the show didn't end the way they wanted it to.

YOU SHAVED THEM?!?

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nvtxl

cause when we're creaming and popping...

likepeaches

we’re cropping?

nvtxl

we're peaming

amvs

there’s not a star in heaven that we can’t reach

bloodanddiscoballs

The thing about the r slur is that people who are using it again are indeed using it as a slur. This isn't a word that is being reclaimed. This is a word that is once again being used 100% as a slur. You're being a bigot if you're using it against others. Straight up. There isn't another argument to be made. Knock it tf off.