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Game of Thrones Daily
Misplaced Lens Cap
"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
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Andulka

if i look back, i am lost
Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
One Nice Bug Per Day
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Peter Solarz

pixel skylines

Kiana Khansmith

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祝日 / Permanent Vacation
Not today Justin
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@lovegoodluna
i’m too insane for this
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Sabrina the Teenage Witch – 3.19: The Big Sleep
You're not friends. You'll never be friends. You'll be in love 'til it kills you both. You'll fight, and you'll shag and you'll hate each other until it makes you quiver, but you'll never be friends. BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER 3.08, “Lovers Walk”
William the Bloody eloquent 🥰
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I had my first feeling of being old the other day when I saw a 13 year old girl wearing a my chemical romance shirt and I was like “Damn I was watching them perform at a shitty venue before you were even an idea”
FREAKS AND GEEKS
Making new friends
Edward Gorey scenic designs, invitations and conceptual art for Bram Stoker’s Dracula (The play); directed by Hamilton Deane at the Martin Beck Theatre, New York City, ca. 1977.
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If you’re struggling with accepting and overcoming the abuse you have faced with a friend, partner, or family member, it’s important to remember that you are the only narrator for your life. Nobody else knows the exact experiences you have had in the exact settings you have been in.
Often people who have abused others(intentionally or not) do not think what they did qualifies as abuse. The problem with this is that there is no qualification of abuse and often a tactic of abusers is denying that abuse was present. Abusers often believe that what they did or still do is not “real” abuse and often try to explain away what they did by using comparisons.
Abuse does not always happen in ways that are easy to identify, explain, or show to others. A lot of the time abuse happens in the form of continued manipulation, continued denial of others experiences/feelings in relation to things the abusive party has done, and the abusive party not taking responsibility for their actions or changing them.
Other, often not talked about, signs of abuse:
Cheating
Lying
Withholding (this includes the “silent treatment,” refusing to listen, and withdrawing emotionally)
Telling the victim that their thoughts, feelings, ideas, interests etc are wrong/bad
Blocking a doorway/exit
Refusing to communicate
Gaslighting; denying the victims experience and making them question their reality or perception, denying that something happened when it did
Invalidating the victim
Insinuating that the victim is “crazy,” “hysterical,” or otherwise not capable of understanding situations
Using mental health issues the victim has to blame them for the abusers behavior or deny that certain things happened
Spreading rumors about the victim
Interfering in the victims relationships in any way
Talking over and/or interupting
Sources/resources: 1, 2, 3
The abuse you have faced does not fail to exist because your abuser doesn’t recognize or validate it. By continuing to invalidate your experience, they are perpetuating abusive behaviors and tendencies.
Your experiences are real, your narrative is not made up, and you are not wrong for recognizing what happened to you.