♡ you have my heart ♡

❦ She/They ❦ Triple A? (Ace, Aro, Agender?) One wish: get a pet duck and live comfortably

[cardinailed0]

shes literally me in the worst ways.

[mumblingsage]

This was a kind of sweet dashboard coincidence.

[i-love-my-gays]

I have said this so many times but I think I need to say it again FRIENDSHIP IS NOT LESSER THAN ROMANCE

[yelledwhispers]

"Don't you want your own family?"

Of course I want it. Just another kind of family.

My dream is to have a house full of friends, where we can eat all together then playing cards until late in the night, laughing and singing. Or where we can have a hot chocolate and a deep conversation. A safe and welcoming space for me and my loved ones.

I want an additional bed to host those who come from afar and a big kitchen table for lunches and dinners.

I want someone to cook pies with, to travel with, to spend the Christmas holidays with.

I want to be loved and to love. That's a simple dream, really. That's my concept of family

[aroace-ed]

every so often, i think, and it might be so selfish of me, but i crave to be someone's first choice. i want to be the person that someone sees fun things to do and their first thought is to ask me to go with them. i want someone to be willing to inconvenience themselves a little bit sometimes for me as i would do for them. i want to be looked at in a list of people and to have someone pick me out of all of them. i want to be held at the same level as a romantic partner in terms of effort and closeness. i want someone to want me as much as i want them, even though it's not in a romantic sense. i want to be important to someone.

[theloverislost]

*staring into the bathroom mirror, gripping the sink* i will not spend the rest of my life lonely because i'm aroace my boundless joy swag and whimsy will ensare an amazing queerplatonic partner and even if that doesn't happen that means i get to decorate my house however i want and have whatever pets i want

[lovesickmoron]

no wait this was my exact thought process

[sunbloomdew]

do you ever see a person and you are overcome with incredible fondness? and you just think "oh." but not in a romantic or sexual way you are just filled with warmth and it makes you happy, it just does. and you think "i'm so happy you exist. i'm happy you are somewhere out there in the world, doing your thing". it's love but also not entirely

like people are lovely and i feel it in my entire chest like a burning candle that smells like roses and a sunny day

[foreststarflaime]

Sure sure romantic pairings are fine and all. But more people should perhaps consider two characters loving each other to the point of incomprehensibility. To the point that there is no simpler way in english to define or describe it than just to say those characters’ names together, joined eternally by the vague conjunction ‘and’. There’s so many types of love and dependencies and emotions in general thrown in there that you can’t tell what colors they are anymore, they’ve just joined into a giant blobby mess that’s almost black, but when you look closer glistens with more colors than there are names for. Just a thought

[lovesickmoron]

I love this so much. It's basically the feelings for someone just being so open? Or it not being in a specific label like everyone likes to do. It's not platonic, or romantic, or sexual, or aesthetic, or anything like that, and everyone knows that. They're soulmates but also that's not quite it. It's so much more. It's something more than words can describe or say. So simplying using someone 'and' someone is enough, because really, what else is there other than the two characters?

[genderfluid-rat-god]

i dont want kids. "well you might change your mind!" no i wont. "well you could help infertile parents and do surrogacy" pregnancy is a part of why i dont want kids. i dont want that. "then do adoption" still dont want kids. "but what about your partner" im aromantic. "but if you had a partner" im aroace. "you might still change your mind" no i wont. "you might meet that one person who'll change your mind. trust me" I! AM! AROMANTIC! AND! ASEXUAL!

"how can you have dated people if you're ace" shut up shut up shut up shut up

[lovesickmoron]

I think I might like them romantically but that I'm afraid of many things

[lovesickmoron]

lol, no. everything's fine, there was no romantic attraction at all. i told them i might like them and it just vanished. i think it was just a strong platonic connection I was feeling 'cause i now feel that way for most of my close friends, so definitly no romantic feelings were involved. also the fact that i might be aroace (or on the spectrum) helped figure this out so that's nice

[lovesickmoron]

ah, the desire to slam someone against the wall (softly ofc) and make out with them till we’re both breathless

[lovesickmoron]

the picture that really made me want to do that

Wrathion × Anduin | Гневион и Андуин в 2023 г | Милые рисунки, Эскизы персонажей, Мультипликационные иллютрации

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[lovesickmoron]

ah, the desire to slam someone against the wall (softly ofc) and make out with them till we’re both breathless

[kageyuji]

do you ever look at someone and just for a moment you’re like “i wanna write lovesick poetry about you and make warm hibiscus tea and wake up next to you and see the sunlight shine in through the spaces between my window blinds and across your face”

[lovesickmoron]

you definitely want to do this @mintmelodies

[lovesickmoron]

omg, me:

[lovesickmoron]

it's been a shit ass day and i just know it's going to be a shit ass long last year and i can't do this shit. it's just so horrible. they say it's great, the best school, but it's the worse. the curriculum i'm apart of is even worse. i feel like it's just a bunch of depressed little children following orders in hopes of getting into a good college.

[lovesickmoron]

i really just want to push someone into a wall and kiss them dont come at me, ik you want to do that too

[lovesickmoron]

i hate my life 😐 i was doing a buzz feed quiz party with a friend and i got this: