Well... What Now?

@loveyoursub

"For small creatures such as we the vastness is bearable only through love." - Carl Sagan I am questioning everything, including who I am, but I'll let you know when I find the answers. I can tell you that I'm: 21, a sub, still in school, and trying to find someone who will love me for who I am. (Rules: 18+ only, Please be nice.)

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How to be social when you don’t feel like it

1. Give your energy level a boost. It’s hard to be friendly, and to focus on others, if you’re feeling really tired and would rather be in bed. To keep going, grab some coffee or a bite to eat, or go outside for a few minutes, and get some cool, fresh air.

2. Have some tactics at the ready if you don’t know the people – or if you have to be with people you would rather avoid. For example, if you don’t like the people, ask a friend to go with you … and have a great excuse for leaving once you’ve done the minimum.

3. Plan ahead to avoid conflict. Aim to stay in control of your reactions and emotions – and resist the pressure to take part in arguments.

4. Control your contribution. If you’re quiet and introverted then value you who you are. Don’t expect yourself to be a party animal. Show respect for yourself by taking time out if you need to, and only talk to people that you want to be around.

5. See it as a chance to practices a few social skills. Take the pressure off yourself by practising your social skills. For example, ask a few open questions, and keep the focus on the speaker. Try and come across as friendly through your use of body language – like making good eye contact and smiling while you talk.

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I stan the princess of Tamaran 💖 Sketches super inspired by picolo’s drawing of Raven also getting ready for prom!! Y’all best believe that Star would doll the heck up!! And that their fearless leader would faint on site because hot dayum 😘😂💙✨