She is strong, confident, kind and caring
She can have her own vulnerable moments but that doesn’t mean she can’t overcome it
I believe true strength is when we can overcome our own fears and face them head on
Life is about gaining experience that can determine & affect our own growth & mentality
We either change to be stronger & better or to be weaker & worse
It all depends on oneself
Tushan Honghong has faced all things all alone and carried the burden on her own as well
She didn’t once in her life confide in anyone even to her own two little sisters about her own circumstances
So when she finally has found someone who has saved her from her shackles, let her be free and live as the “True Tushan Honghong”, it was at this moment that she was finally able to confide to someone about her troubles
She has showed him the most vulnerable side of her that no one knows
She used to hide her emotions very deeply inside of her heart not letting herself show any sign of weakness nor vulnerability
She did it in order to protect what she hold dear to her
She has forbidden herself from a chance of happiness and expressing what she truly feels
She just focused on protecting her two little sisters & her clan
She wanted to achieve her lifesaver’s dream of peaceful coexistence between Humans & Yaoguai
She has forbidden herself from the feelings of love & falling in love because of her guilt that she wasn’t able to forgive herself from killing her lifesaver accidentally at that time
She has lived for the seek of the world but not for herself
All that has changed when Dongfang Yuechu has entered her life & has brightened her dark life
He told her that she doesn’t need to be “perfect” anymore she can be true to herself & live for herself, she can be the “True Tushan Honghong”
She doesn’t need to carry all the burden all alone anymore
She doesn’t need to face all the hardships all on her own anymore
She can express what she truly feels
She doesn’t need to restrain all her emotions deeply inside her heart anymore
Tushan Honghong is not perfect, no one is perfect & there is no such thing as perfect in real life
Everyone can have their own vulnerable moments, weak moments, fears, etc
There is nothing to be ashamed about it
Everyone can breakdown at some point in their lives but that doesn’t mean they will stay broken forever
Everyone can overcome their vulnerability, their weakness, their fears with their own will
They will not stay down forever, they can move forward & beyond these obstacles
No one road is clear of obstacles, because that’s life
We can become much stronger by overcoming those obstacles & thats shapes our own futures
This is the same case for Tushan Honghong
She can have her own vulnerable moments, feelings like the other girls, fears, etc
And she can also be strong, kind, confident, etc
The moment she overcome her weakness is the moment she is the strongest
Because it is never easy to overcome our own hardships and move beyond it, is it?
So, the moment we overcome those problems is the moment we are the strongest I believe
Life is never easy but it is not hard either
Don’t give up no matter what
Believe in yourself & be true to your self
The result of your struggling will not go to waste at the end
Everyone has their own journey & how you walk through it is on you