Today I felt like doing a love reading :)
Please keep in mind I’d rather be honest with you than sugar coat any messages - I’m sorry if your reading could be a bit harsh. I’d much rather you know the truth than continue the loop of suffering - the truth can set you free. Take what resonates, leave out the rest.
Here are your choices :
Pile 1 - I see you're in your queen of swords era currently - you've totally frozen your love life for the time being. Your last relationship ended out of nowhere and it was shocking and painful. This hurt you so much you've shut yourself off love. And I see things were going pretty well actually, slow and stable, for some of you on the brink of getting engaged or married. I see you really loved your person... I'm sorry to hear that... Believe that this is what was meant to happen, rejection is god's protection. You've cut the ties with this person and I see it was a long and hard battle to get on your feet again, you've got scars now... But you survived. I see you've moved on from that and it's been quite awhile since you've had a relationship. Currently it's hard for you to read people's intentions, you don't know whether to trust them or not (classic queen of swords - holding her weapon and protecting herself). It's hard for you to open up. You've shut off all emotion, just to protect your heart. Your intuition is all over the place, it's hard for you to connect with it. I pulled some advice cards for you and what came out is the hanged man and the queen of cups - this continues the message about intuition, saying you need to take the time and connect with your emotions - simply surrender to them. Your emotions are showing you what's wrong, what's right and they're guiding you to your intuition. Being vulnerable is a strength, it's not making you weak. Don't ignore your emotions, you're just a human after all. I'm hearing ''forgive and forget'', also ''live and let live''. Forgiveness will give you peace. There's also something about finding softness and love in the little things - love exists where you least expect to see it :) Be thankful for life's simple gentleness and beaty. It could be your parent's message of saying ''be careful''. It could be a child giving you a gift or telling you a compliment. It could be a bird or dog following you. Take a walk in the forest, breathe and you'll feel closer to love.
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Pile 2 - I see either you or a partner has been struggling with addictions for a while. Most possibly alcohol, could be something else too but with Temperance I feel it's mostly connected to drinking. I have a feeling for the majority of you the one struggling is a masculine. I see it's been a long and painful road making it out but you've made it together. I see one party has helped the other with their addiction by talking to them, possibly physically stopping them from taking their dose also. They've tried everything possibly to help their person with the addiction. They've done all the research to be prepared for the fight. I see the person who's struggling is coping currently, they're in a better mindset, successfully saying ''NO'' to what they've been abusing in the past. I see they're still being tempted sometimes but they haven't stopped working on their discipline, so far having their victory over the addiction. I see love truly helping this person and I have to tell you they're so thankful you're in their life. They're doing it for you, sunshine. They know how much you love them. Their love for you is as pure as a kid's love, they remember all the fun times together with you and they'd hate to lose you. You're the only one they've taken down their walls for, you've seen their real, vulnerable side. The lovers came out for you guys, your union is true and if you've helped each other get through an addiction, then you'll get through all life's hardships successfully. You're a divine union, believe it's blessed and sacred.
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Pile 3 - I see you've been dealing with someone who's a runner. They're scared of getting into a real connection and would much rather keep their true emotions and personality hidden. They've got the reputation of a serial dater - a player. Perhaps they've shut you off numerous times. They've turned off genuine connections, they'd much rather keep things surface based. I see you don't think that way about them, your opinion of them is quite pure. You believe other people's opinions aren't true for your person. You've been defending them in front of others. Perhaps you've known each other for a while and you see this person's positives, possibly shutting off the negatives. You're hopeful for the future with them, you believe there's a happily ever after. Maybe there's a dash of idealisation here. Let me tell you something - they're a manipulator and would deeply hurt you. Possibly they're already taking advantage of you. I'm sorry to say that sunshine but they'll break you down... I think it's time for you to see the red flags and show yourself some gentleness. I pulled some advice cards for you, what came out is the queen of swords and the chariot. I think you should view this situation with logic, control your emotions, no matter what they say. Compose yourself, breathe and stay detached, no matter how hard it could be. Cut things off with them. Don't buy into this person's lies, think logically and protect your heart - no one else will do it for you. Take back your power. You can't fix them but you can show them you're grounded and emotionally independent. Let your strength and emotional discipline lead, instead of worry or longing. Do it out of self love and respect. You deserve someone who will come towards you with the same passion and pure intention, you won't have to beg for anyone's attention. Your love is honest and deep, that's rare. Do some shadow work, you'll learn why you've been attracted to them.
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That's it for today little bats :)
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