beautiful princess discourse

• neurospicy • audhd/bpd princess • in the process of becoming

[foryoureyesonlyyours]

i'm destined to waste away trapped in my own mind

[irlitgirl]

[sawed-on-shotgun]

the human body when you use it and exist in it

[bonivers]

going on a guilt trip do yall want anything

[secondbeatsongs]

if you really cared about me you wouldn't have to ask

[perfectfeelings]

“At some point you just have to let go of what you thought should happen and live in what is happening.”

— Unknown

[meluneira]

[artistformerlyknownasbutttrumpet]

i was training a young person at work, and she referred to sexual assault as "SA" out loud, and i immediately was like, "no, it's sexual assault, call it what it is," bc idgaf if the algorithm overlords have taught y'all that you should fear direct language, how tf do any of you expect to ever address real issues with any amount of seriousness if you can't even say the words? imagine an advocate looking a sexual assault survivor in the eyes and asking "did he grape you?" it's absolutely fucking absurd, but these young interns and new hires are coming into an environment where we deal with survivors of all different kinds of abuse, and they're coming with the mindset that the words are as bad as the actions, and that makes them shitty at the job and look juvenile af

i HATE self-censorship for a lot of reasons, but being in crisis work makes it even more frustrating. who are you censoring for? like i am being so fr, WHO are you censoring for? have you even thought it through? people who have been raped know that they have been raped. if someone attempts suicide or is grieving someone who did, saying "sewer slide" isn't going to protect them from any of the feelings. a murder victim's family isn't going to feel better bc you said "unalived" instead of murdered. if anything, it's just extremely invalidating and othering. it's saying "what happened to you is so bad that i won't even say the word," which is NOT trauma-informed care. you are not protecting survivors/victims when you self-censor. the ONLY things you protect when you self-censor are the puritanical ideologies that are being encouraged by rich fascists who want your money and obedience

say the fucking words, guys. just say the goddamn words before i go insane!!!

[innerchildabortionclinic]

getting kicked off love island for just swimming in the pool and not talking to anyone

[pupisized]

[mildmayfoxe]

1) any stretching is better than no stretching

2) any vegetable is better than no vegetable

3) statistically you will never be the worst person at anything, there is always someone in the world who is worse at stuff than you are

[maladapt3d]

What doesn't kill you leaves you bleeding for the rest of your life wishing it did

[draconym]

It's nuts how common it is to not allow children to be angry, even (especially) in households where adults are angry all the time. As a child I knew my own anger was unacceptable--not just expressing it outwardly but feeling it at all. So now as an adult my immediate reaction to my own anger is often to feel guilt instead of like. Noticing when someone is being rude or unfair or my boundaries are being violated or whatever. fucked up.

[lunavenusjupiter]

i feel like i could sleep forever

[lunavenusjupiter]

i feel so dumb for being so soft in such a manipulative world.

[lunavenusjupiter]

i feel like i am trapped in a shell

[i-am-a-fish]

don't be mean to yourself that's you

[i-am-a-fish]

you live there

[thoughtkick]

“Trust yourself. You’ve survived a lot. And you’ll survive whatever is coming.”

— Unknown