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bodily 24, he/they/nym collectively, bi, single | neuropsych student, medical scribe, writer. autistic w/ hyperempathy. getting thru cptsd, depression w/ psychosis, anxiety, bpd, adhd, pots, hashimoto's disease, dysphoria, dysmorphia, & osdd but the last is not dx'ed yet. ask us anything or tell us about your loves n crushes (or squishes) even if they're fictional! love you ♡

[the-astropaws]

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🥝EMOJIC!

.✧ coined by us !! requested by anon

.✧ an emoji gender for the kiwi 🥝 emoji!! could feel connected to real kiwis as well :3.

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Inspired pronouns for the gender

🥝/🥝s , kiwi/kiwiself , ki/kiwi , soft/softself

fuzz/fuzzself , fruit/fruitself

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[haunted-thing]

flag id: two flags side by side both have six stripes and all horizontal. the left flags colors start: dull dark purple, dull pink, dull coral, dull light pink, dull blue, dark purple. the right flags colors are dark purple, dull blue, light dull green, light blue, dull purple, dark purple.

Sophian ♡ jamian

sophian describes having both queer and straight/hetero attraction to women.

jamian: having both queer and straight/hetero attraction to men.

both of these terms are purposefully vague so you can mess with them however you’d like!

[transfemme-sys]

Addressing A Racist Issue In The MOGAI Community (TW : discussion of racism, sexualization, and mentioned SA)

hey. this blog isn't active, and the part behind it isn't active in my system either, but i do still exist. this used to be a MOGAI blog, as i am someone who considered myself (and still do consider myself) a part of the MOGAI community. unfortunately, i kept losing motivation to make flags and the blog has since been abandoned.

that's not what i'm here to discuss. i'm here to talk about an issue i've noticed in the community that has been irritating me for a while : yandere related genders.

for those who don't know, a yandere is a japanese anime trope used to a describe an individual (most often, a woman) who is madly and unhealthily in love with someone, often going to extreme lengths to try and achieve that person's attention.

i am a japanese trans woman with BPD. those who self identify as yanderes most often claim its a label exclusive to those with BPD or OLD, but this is where i see an issue begin. out of everyone i've seen 'reclaiming' this label, *none of them are japanese*. they say the term yandere is harmful against those with BPD and OLD and romanticizes the disorder, which i don't even necessarily disagree with, but here's the thing; the term yandere, most often, is used to sexualize, oppress, and stereotype japanese women. i have experienced things like this myself, firsthand, and i'm sure i'm not the only one out there.

we are fetishized, treated like objects of nothing but attraction. every white weeb wants a yandere anime girlfriend, it'd be so cool to be loved like that to them, but they see a japanese woman on the street and catcall her and call her slurs. asian fishing white women love to cosplay yanderes, but constantly steal and appropriate japanese culture without a second thought to it. the white man may joke with his friends about his new japanese girlfriend, calling her kawaii and yandere and unique for showing even the slightest bit of affection and love for him.

i have never been called a yandere for my BPD. i have seen myself and plenty of others be called yanderes for being japanese. it is, in my opinion, not your term to reclaim. you are not viewed inescapably as 'nekos', 'lolis' 'anime girls', and yes, 'yanderes' in the way that we are. you are not sexually assaulted and harassed and hatecrimed for your BPD like we have been.

i ask, respectfully, that non japanese people stop self identifying with this term. please help spread awareness to this issue with me, share this post in any way you can. i am tired of experiencing constant racism even in safe spaces like the MOGAI community, and i ask that you help me bring an end to it.

thank you, and please be mindful of your actions.

[sakosai]

DELIDOLLSOFTIC

— a dollgender connected to the comfort one feels when being taken care of and being treated gently, and sleepy aesthetics.

Pronoun suggestions:

Stitch/stitches/stitchself

Dolly/dollys/dollyself

Frill/frills/frillself

Deli/delicate/delicates/delicateself

Cot/cotton/cottons/cottonself

Light/lights/lightself

Drowsie/drowsies/drowsieself

Coined by The Presence!

[aureolia-deactivated20231007]

GENDERTIED / TIEDGENDER

'a gender-system that relates to [blank] being directly tied with your gender! or feeling as if you're [blank] and your tied to it, it could also mean feeling as if your gender is tied like anything (a bow, ribbon, etc). this can also be a term by itself and not a system!' coined by callisto also please tag me if u coin something under this ^_^

notes. . an alt flag is under the cut! plus the symbol incase u want to make something under this system ^_^,, i also apologize that the ribbons lines are shaky my hands kept shaking badly when i was drawing it. terms i plan coining: madokatied, singertied, sillytied,, tagging @accessmogai for pt/image IDs~

[the-astropaws]

👹 Saw one of our flags on Pinterest. It was properly credited and that’s super amazing but we wish someone told us it was uploaded. We’re alright with things shared around we just want to be aware.. :D - Itto

[the-astropaws]

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FROGSQUISH!

.✧ coined by us !!

.✧ a gender related to frogs and squishmellows. could be frog squishmellows or real frogs and squishmellows. could be a combo of froggender and squishmellowgender :3c.

.✧ part of the ( gendersquish ) system!

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Inspired pronouns

🐸/🐸s , 🪷/🪷s , frog/frogself , rib/ribbit

ribbit/ribbitself , squish/squishself

squish/mellow , 💚/💚s

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[the-astropaws]

💬 Can tumblr stop removing our alt text when we add it to images 😭 ??? Are you okay tumblr - U-san

[the-astropaws]

💎 happy disability pride month to every type of disability. both mentally and physically disabled people deserve awareness and support not just this month but every month. you deserve to feel safe and supported. we’re a disabled blog owner, and we’re going to talk about our disabilities since it’s a time we can. we’re in the process of attempting to get a wheelchair and other physical support for our chronic pain and lung problems. we have DID, Autism, and Schizophrenia that all make daily life too much at times. we aren’t able to get a job or drive. its extremely difficult to handle food shopping and getting clothes because of how much energy it takes us. we rarely get the opportunity to be heard in person so this is us being able to open up about why this blog is so special to us. why we’re grateful for the side of tumblr we’re on.

being able to create things for others makes us feel like we have a purpose. it may not seem that interesting or life fulfilling to others that we make flags / terms. but it’s sometimes the most we can mentally handle doing in a day, sometimes even thats too difficult. so seeing others love what we create, seeing our terms shared, seeing the followers we’ve slowly gained over time. reaching 100 followers was a huge achievement for us. thats 100 people.. 100 individuals who like what we’re able to share. it makes us happy. so thank you to anyone who comes across our blog and who took the time to read this post. we hope every disabled creator or any kind, feels supported by those around. - chongyun.

[thealternates-deactivated202511]

👹 A headmate of ours (He Who Wanders) doodled cats based off a silly cat doodle post we saw :3 Wanted to share for anyone needing free serotonin!! Little blue cats!! Look at them being so silly - Itto

[the-astropaws]

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GIRLBOYHACKER!

.✧ a gender under the genderhacker system in which one’s gender is related to hackers and being a girlboy, and/or feels as though it is hacked with the term girlboy.

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BOYGIRLHACKER!

.✧ a gender under the genderhacker system in which one’s gender is related to hackers and being a boygirl, and/or feels as though it is hacked with the term boygirl.

note: boygirl and girlboy are not different in definition but some prefer one placement over the other like us so we made both versions. the flag colours were based from this girlboy flag!

tagging @bloodygendersystems

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[dolliecworpse]

💥 ⋆˙⟡♡ GENDERDESTROY 〰️

╰┈┈➤ GENDERDESTROY: a gender system in which your gender is related to liking __ so much that you want to destroy it with your mind. you just want to bite it, maim it, tear it, and rip it because it means so much to you. this gender system is likely not meant literally, but it’s up to the users of the individual genders under the system to decide.

╰┈┈➤ this gender system was made with media and characters in mind, but it can be applied to anything.

💥 ・❥・term, flags, and gender system by the lady in red ｡｡｡ requested by no one ｡｡｡ lightly inspired by @revenant-coining ‘s -normalic genders ｡｡｡ tagging @accessmogai for a flag id !

💥 ・❥・the flag above is a template ｡｡｡ the emojis on the flag were found on openmoji ｡｡｡please tag @bloodygendersystems in any coining posts ｡｡｡ planning to coin bsddestroy, dazaidestroy, chuuyadestroy, sigmadestroy, tecchoudestroy, akutagawadestroy, ranpodestroy, cowboybebopdestroy, spikedestroy, eddestroy, and eindestroy (might take a few days or weeks) ｡｡｡ all i ask is that you don’t coin these unless i later state that i’m overwhelmed and that you can !

💥 ・❥・template with explosion and heart ｡｡｡ template without explosion and heart !

pt: genderdestroy

genderdestroy: a gender system in which your gender is related to liking __ so much that you want to destroy it with your mind. you just want to bite it, maim it, tear it, and rip it because it means so much to you. this gender system is likely not meant literally, but it’s up to the users of the individual genders under the system to decide.

this gender system was made with media and characters in mind, but it can be applied to anything.

term, flags, and gender system by the lady in red…requested by no one…lightly inspired by revenant-coining ‘s -normalic genders…tagging accessmogai for a flag id!

the flag above is a template…the emojis on the flag were found on openmoji…please tag bloodygendersystems in any coining posts…planning to coin bsddestroy, dazaidestroy, chuuyadestroy, sigmadestroy, tecchoudestroy, akutagawadestroy, ranpodestroy, cowboybebopdestroy, spikedestroy, eddestroy, and eindestroy (might take a few days or weeks)…all i ask is that you don’t coin these unless i later state that i’m overwhelmed and that you can!

template with explosion and heart…template without explosion and heart! /end pt.

[fall-asleep-7]

[the-astropaws]

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CHICKGENDER!

.✧ coined by us !!

.✧ a gender that feels soft and small like a baby chick. it could be connected to real chicks or the baby chick emojis 🐣🐥🐤.

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Inspired pronouns for the gender

chick/chickself , 🐤/🐤s , 🐣/🐣s , 🐥/🐥s

chirp/chirpself , cheep/cheepself

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[himeknight]

💭 . . boyishgirlthing : an identity in which someone may feel like a boyish girl && a thing !

[rosenlita]

✧. ┊  SERAROSE ♱ ♱ a gender relating to angels, roses, and being an angel made of/representing roses  ‿̩͙‿ ༺ ♰ ༻ ‿̩͙‿ ♱ coined by: Uriel ♱ requested by: nobody

 ‿̩͙‿ ༺ ♰ ༻ ‿̩͙‿ [PT: Serarose - a gender relating to angels, roses, and being an angel made of/representing roses. Coined by Uriel. Requested by nobody. END PT.]

[the-astropaws]

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KUROMAIDPLUSHIC!

.✧ coined by us !!

.✧ a gender related to the Kuromi maid plushie. could also be related to Kuromi, maids, and plushies in general, anything involving all three in some way :3

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Inspired pronouns

plush/plushself , plush/plushie , rib/ribbon

maid/maidself , pur/purple , 💜/💜s

ribbon/ribbonself , bow/bowself

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