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Who I am and what I like like:
ā¢ 1996
ā¢ Aspiring scientist
ā¢ Language enthusiast
ā¢ Leo āļø Scorpio š Aquarius ā¬ļø
ā¢ Generally a mess
What I believe in:
ā¢ Woman = adult human female
ā¢ Anti-porn
ā¢ Anti-prostitution (the system and not the people trapped in it)
ā¢ Anti-BDSM
me: iām just working at a gas station :( im not doing anything w my life :(
my foremothers bc iām not working in a field or pregnant:
My foremothers because Iām focusing on myself instead of raising kids or getting married:
My TIF step-sister has repeated multiple times in graphic language that I deserved incestual abuse, has made my hand non-functional for a month on purpose (I am a musician!) by deliberately trying to break my finger because I put my arm between her and my mother after she hit my mother in the face, has spit on me, called me every sexist slur under the sun, called me a failure every day for a year first thing in the morning. All this, in full knowledge that I was at different stages of suicidal ideation (one of which was directly triggered by her).
Then, she turned around to LGBT associations and psychiatrists crying that I am abusive because I just donāt believe sheās a man because she claims sheās one. I even use her new name and pronouns when sheās around. I just do not believe sheās a man and she knows. Thatās it. I just refuse to believe her claims of being a man. Iām not physically nor verbally abusive, I do not try to impede her from getting treatment. I do nothing other than not believing sheās a man. Because I see a girl. I feel wholeheartedly stupid and die a little bit inside every time I have to act like sheās a boy but here we are. I go on with my life and stay out of the house specifically to avoid her. But thatās not enough. I refuse to believe the cultās ideology so I deserve abuse, apparently. I am committing an unforgivable toughtcrime. I must be punished.
And everyone believes her. Some people even justified her actions to my face.
This is the kind of person that thrives in āqueerā spaces. Abusive violent pieces of shit who use their hands because they canāt put together enough critical thinking to recognise a tautology or basic scientific knowledge.
Also you look like a freak, on top of it. 99% percent of yāall queer somethings & trans identified people look like absolute dirty pieces of garbage even on your best days. You look grotesque. It was important to me that you knew.
Thank you for coming to my tedtalk.
When I was young my dad offhandedly told me he thought people treated fish with so much casual cruelty because fish canāt scream.
The words branded themselves across my soul.
As an adult I think he may have been joking. He payed no especial attention to any indignities fish suffered in our household but I could never forget. I saw fish in a different light after that.
Fish kept in tiny bowls, breathing their own poisons, dying by inches. Fish kept in cold tanks, casually disposed of. Fish touted as being short lived when they could outlive the better loved family dog if only they could breathe. Fish casually won and discarded in cheap plastic bags, thrown away a week later.
How they would scream, if they could.
I'm once again here to tell you that eugenics is the study of how to arrange reproduction within a human population to increase the occurrence of heritable characteristics regarded as desirable. It is not women getting abortions because their child will be permanently disabled and or in chronic physical pain if they are born. It is not women deciding they cannot care for a down syndrome child who will need permanent care. It is not individual women making choices that effect their lives and bodies and families.
Women are not vessels for people to be birthed and cared for, women are people who deserve to DECIDE how to spend their short lives
My childhood sucked and my adolescence was even worse so now Iām going to wear ribbons and little flowers in my hear, glittery makeup and pink princess dresses, this way Iāll hear my inner little girl laugh inside of me in the morning. I will play video games and sing pop songs at top of my lungs and seventeen years old me will sing along, and Iāll pick the major she dreamed of even if it means I wonāt be rich, and sheāll be healed.
Their survival was brave and beautiful. I was brave and beautiful while I survived. Iāll spend the rest of my life celebrating it.
āGirlcockā you are like a terrorist to me
My cat is an enabler because whenever I get the afternoon sleepies and I get into bed sheās like OMG NO WAY ME TOO and curls up next to me ready for a scrumptious nap
Sorry Iām tearing up I suddenly thought about my beloved golden retriever who died at the vet clinic after a neighbour poisoned her right when I was waiting outside the door to see her because she was waiting for me before leaving this world and when she heard my voice she knew I had come for her and it was enough so she left in peace
Listen how come advertisers hoard my data but they canāt for the life of them give me ads on stuff Iād be interested in
Iāve gotten ads in French for baby diapers. Iām not French. I donāt live in France. I donāt have a baby.
I hate Shein. I hate polyester. I hate fast fashion. I buy selected pieces of clothing once in a while. And what ads do I get?? Fucking Shein!!!
I already use Preply and Duolingo and Asos. Why am I getting ads about apps I already consistently use???
AI is a stupid tool that canāt even do the one thing it has been created for smh
I want to like. Forget I was a victim of incest. Be delulu about it and pretend it never happened. Never talk about it ever again and live like it never happened. Can you do that? Are you allowed? Like. Just drop the weight of it. Normal girl with no trauma from now on. Hope this new approach works
āstop traumadumping to your friends tell this to your therapistā my god they paywalled human connection
A lot of Social Justice ideas aren't even that bad lol, they've just been adopted by people who don't understand anything. Take cultural appropriation, for example. People were very very reasonably like "it's kind of uncomfortable and weird when people use important cultural/religious symbols of cultures/religions they don't belong to for fashion or other frivolous things" and somehow tons of people just heard "white people buying pocky at the Vietnamese grocery is an act of violent racism."
Tried to fit this in the tags but it wasnāt happening.
Thank you for putting this into words because I havenāt been able to figure out how to say āno, cultural appropriation is not fake, but also idk what happened in the last few years but it seems like woke white people completely took over the conversationā
When I used to plan luxury events, I worked a ton of Indian weddings, Pakistani weddings, and in general a bunch of Muslim/Islamic/Hindu weddings of varying levels of faith. That meant wearing hair coverings, sometimes all day, sometimes just for the ceremonies (if youāre under the Mandap or at the Mehndi or Heena ceremony, you wear a hair covering. If itās during or after the Baraat, you wear a hair covering, but again, sometimes you just wear it all day depending on the family. A lot of families provide hair coverings of their color choice to anyone who is working the wedding, or any wedding guests who wouldnāt own one). You know who was giving me dirty looks on the days I wore my covering? Woke white people.
Two of my all time favorite brides were both Indian brides that I was lucky enough to work with for all three days of their weddings. We bonded a lot and, idk sometimes itās just āIām working for youā and sometimes itās āwe are going to be best friends by the time your wedding is overā. These brides were the latter. The first bride chose a Bindi for me on her third day because she said it matched my eyes. The second bride had her hair stylist undo my bun and braid some of her jasmine into my hair, and then also chose a Bindi for me. I was so touched that she wanted me to wear these things that were specifically chosen for her wedding even though I wasnāt family. Her whole family was so sweet/excited about it, and again, guess who was giving me weird looks all day? Guess who approached me to talk about cultural appropriation as if I hadnāt been in this industry for years? Two woke white people. Like, Iām not putting on a bindi and fake āsexy sareeā as a Halloween costume. I was given a really sweet gift by two women on one of the most special days of their lives.
Something me and my girlfriend say all the time: American āleftistsā are running in circles so tight theyāre biting their own tails off and ending up right back where they started.
Get so into trans ideology that we end up right back with hardcore traditionalist gender norms.
Get so into the concept of cultural appropriation that we end up right back to people giving dirty looks for any culture-sharing
Get so into the concept of womens sexual and body liberation that we end up back to women being purchasable sex objects, and makeup and non-functional clothing being a good and empowering thing
Get so into the concept of "Karens" that it no longer means "a boomer white woman throwing a very generation-specific tantrum and abusing her privilege", and is now just another word for "bitch" and a way to tell any woman with any opinion you don't agree with to shut up.
Wild.
Yāall donāt give therapy time to work.
You get a month worth of sessions and say āthis isnāt helpful at allā and just leave.
The two years mark for therapy is for people who are there for like. Mild anxiety. You and I bestie? The girlies with severe debilitating trauma? With personality disorders? You gotta sit your ass on that couch in your therapistās office for at least a couple years before you see any results. Two years is what it took me to understand how bad my issues were. Four years to get to the worst trauma. Seven years to feel like I can manage my symptoms on my own and I have a chance at life.
You cannot heal trauma of sexual assault, parent neglect, several years of childhood abuse, several years of relationship abuse, an entire personality disorder and all that shit in a few months. Therapy takes time.
Unless your therapist is being grossly unprofessional you have to grind through at least six months before you make a decision.
DBT and talk therapy DO work, but you have to be consistent, patient and hardworking. Itās never going to work if you always quit because youāre not seeing immediate results.
"ohh what if my kid starts identifying as a CAT because of the trans agenda we have to proteā" well they've always done that. do you remember the psychological effects of h2o on young girls. of warrior cats on autistic children. i believed i was a demigod because of percy jackson. twilight came out and kids were telling their friends they were secretly vampires. this is just a thing kids do. worry less
Yeah but girls who identified as mermaids didnāt get prescribed life altering medications and getting entire body parts amputated.
Yāall are dense as fuck.
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I love it when animals have tiny hands. Like. Raccoons grabbing cereal? Hamsters holding sunflower seeds? Amazing. Makes my day every time I see an animal with small hands. Natureās best work so far
