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A letter to you.

It’s been a week since we talked through text and a month since I’ve heard your voice. I’ve never felt this way about anyone until I met you. I love you. And I believe you love me. But I don’t think you are ready. You may not have said it but your actions speak for itself. I don’t know if it’s because you are afraid of confrontation or maybe it’s because you’ve fell out of love for me and afraid of hurting my feelings.

I will be OK. I love you so much that I have to let you go in order for me to heal what you left. I will never forget our time together because you showed me that I am able to be loved. As broken as I feel, I now begin to reestablish what I fell in love with in the beginning……myself.

Most women would wish you ill will (your past ex’s) but I do not. If anything I wish for your success and I wish for your dreams to come true because I forgive you. I forgive you for being proud of opening my heart but not brave enough to love it. In those moments where you feel alone and depressed, I pray that God comes down and fills you with so much joy and love because you are enough.

With that being said, I will always love you with all my heart and all my soul. Always.

-Hea

#AlphaFemalesLoveToo

I hate missing people.

You hear a lot about the other person that gets broken up with. So, we all know what that feeling is like when someone breaks up with you and we all know how to recover from that. Listen to music, read a book, cry it out, etc. But the side that never gets talked about is the one that does the breaking. Not breaking the heart. Breaking the relationship because it was toxic, not trust worthy, secretive, etc. This side sucks. It sucks because you had to do something that you didn't want to do but you had to. It sucks because you had to begin losing a best friend. You can't compare the heart break that you also feel with the other because you had to initiate it. Taking a step to leave is not the easiest because your mind is at ease while your heart still breaks. You can't sleep. You cant eat. All you can think about is the other person, even if they did you wrong. Your nights become 10 times isolated than when you were single. Especially during the holidays.......whats the point now. You want to message them and take them back but you know that things won't change and you will be going through the same cycle and the same heartbreak. So now I am stuck.....and it sucks. This is where I go to God......

theoneandonlylister

When you cheat on someone, you cut them out of your life for that brief moment. Don’t be alarmed when they cut you out of their life for good

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theoneandonlylister

When you cheat on someone, you cut them out of your life for that brief moment. Don’t be alarmed when they cut you out of their life for good

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heathernichoole

What happens when you cheat....

When you cheat on someone you ruin their outlook on more than just you; you ruin their outlook on themselves, relationships, and trust. After a person is cheated on, they will forever ask themselves why they weren’t good enough. What did they do wrong.? Would you have stayed faithful if they had done or said something differently.? If they had talked more or talked less.? Spent a little more time trying to look good for you.? Spent more time trying to be the person you wanted.? They will over analyze every thing they ever did or said. They will start to question every action they made, trying to figure out what they did to make you cheat. They will forever have issues trusting in relationships. When they meet someone new, they will be reluctant to let that person in, in fear of getting hurt again. They will question that persons every move and intention. They will have problems trusting a person who has done nothing to not be trusted. They bring the hurt of what you did to them into a new relationship. They’re not doing this intentionally; in their mind, they are just trying to protect their heart. They are just trying to avoid having to feel the way you made them feel. Because they don’t want to ever feel the heart wrenching, stomach turning, ache of feeling inadequate, not good enough, like something was wrong with them. You see, when you cheat on someone, you are changing their every thought process. You are making them question every aspect of their being. You take a vital piece of them. You change them forever.

pixieyeti

Relationship warning signs

Reasons not to date someone (all learnt from experience, unfortunately)

they speak badly about their ex(es), especially if it is in great detail and without being asked

they think other women are whores/dumb/only good for the kitchen/owe men sex for dates etc./ other men are dumb/all liars/need to be buff/shouldn’t show emotions etc. (trust me they’ll think/think the same about you)

they don’t like being too “public” with their relationship- on social media, walking on busy streets (they prefer to hide with multiple partners)

they don’t introduce you to their friends/family after a respected amount of time

they don’t answer your texts/calls for hours

they spend way too much time on their phone, especially if they purposely hide it when you try to look at it

they are wary of plans that are in the future even if it’s just a trip that would be in two weeks

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