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[glossedchaos]

you can usually tell a lot about a person by the type of music they listen to. put your favourite playlist on shuffle and list the first ten songs then tag ten people!!

i was tagged by @bbtmdeluxe ♡

rules - doja cat

rude boy - rihanna

funeral - miguel

you right - doja cat, the weeknd

sex story - ar’mon & trey

the hills - the weeknd

big ole freak - megan thee stallion

how many drinks - miguel

we both know - bryson tiller

freak in you - partynextdoor

tagging: @clairedoe @champagne1221 @mind-of-tavia @mywaysoons @too-haught-haught-damn @bluuesmoana @magikbitch @slightlybiohmy @cuteboycamacho @1-800-chosen-jacobs

[aexims]

1 acid trip ~ rejjie snow

2 its about a girl ~ ryan trey

3 strawberry skies ~ kid travis

4 score ~ isaiah rashad, sza, 6lack

5 angel dust ~ mac miller

6 pressure ~ bree runway

7 why i love you ~ grent perez

8 i.y.b ~ nle choppa

9 bill$ ~ destin conrad

10 doja ~ $not, a$ap rocky

@mal-evolent101 , @honestdeeds , @acciopepperimps , @stillwritingpagez , @blorbofrommyshows , @thotify , @ninibears-erigom , @little-crow-corvere , @hugenottes-world , @masterofpretending

[mal-evolent101]

1. indigo- 88rising

2. lie to me -queen naija

3. boys boys boys -lady gaga

4. i think he knows -taylor swift

5. psycho pt 2 -russ

6. chateau -blackbear

7. still be friends -G-eazy, tory lanez, Tyga

8. for the first time -Mac DeMarco

9. dancing with your ghost -Sasha Alex Sloan

10. like that -doja cat

@soulmvtes @bakwaaas @glossedchaos @eliminated @ingenue-xx @acciopepperimps @feministism @lohver @darkmacademia @compulsive

[bakwaaas]

chocolate desserts 🍫🍨

[ryebreadgf]

god said let's give this bitch so much self awareness it's going to stop her from doing literally anything

[jewlian]

Dumbasses who have never talked to a non-christian in their life will say that religions are cults because they preach salvation and give you rules to keep you in line like y’all do realize that hell isn’t a universal belief???? That Judaism teaches that god wants his people to be just and compassionate??? That Buddhism is about liberation from suffering??? That Hinduism teaches reincarnation? That Islam believes in a just and merciful god? That there are an endless number of diverse and nuanced beliefs that various indigenous peoples struggle to reclaim every day? And you all have the nerve to lump us all in together with the likes of catholicism and jehovah’s witnesses just because you’re too fucking smug and lazy to get off your ass leave your own bubble and read a god damn wikipedia article?

[cikero]

[lammergeier-spitfire]

Heaven

[thoughtkick]

“I think I might always be in some kind of love with you.”

— F. Cabanes

[nohohankerotomania-deactivated2]

[guerrillatech]

[commander--salamander]

Anti war activist Harvey Milk. That Harvey Milk. Cool cool cool cool cool

[big-pizza]

Fun fact. Harvey milk was dishonorably discharged from the military for being gay. Years after his death, the military sought to make amends and change the status of his discharge, however, Harvey Milk’s family refused. They preferred that Harvey’s dishonorable discharge stay on record indefinitely so no one would forget the military’s history of discrimination.

[romantic-musings]

Sarah Sedwick // Hillary Whitaker

[jenlog]

if any minors are following me

always make sure to start forging parents' signatures on the first day of class. that way, your teachers won't know that you've been forging signatures for the rest of the year

[kehinki]

I want an inverse spy flick. The spy is a woman. Her whole team is made up of diverse women. All the villains are women. There is only one man in the entire movie and he is a Strong Male Character who is like 25 and decently ripped and has a scene where he slowly steps out of a pool wearing speedos because he is Confident and In Control of His Sexuality. We see his ass when he has to tug down his pants to get at the knife strapped to his thigh. His nipples are always erect for no fucking reason.

[saskawitch]

They are undercover in a nightclub. In order to keep their cover from being blown, he has to kiss another man. 

He knits to relieve stress and to keep his mind sharp. It is never discussed by any of the characters. 

[maluinks]

after kicking some bad guy’s ass, he fixes his hair and mentions to the lead he grew up with five older sisters

[kaedien]

americans think ABSOLUTELY NOTHIN of driving 7 hours. they’ll drive 7 hours just for dinner. they’ll drive 7 hours just for chips and dip

[roarykooper]

i went to england to visit the family of this boy im dating in birmingham. one of his sisters lived in manchester and his whole family kept being like we wish lila was her you would love her blah blah blah lila would just lobe you blah and I was finally like well why couldn’t she make it? everyone was like lol as we said she’s in manchester??? that’s it. i looked up the distance and it’s like less than two hours away and when me and my dude went to grab a beer later that night I was like so does Lila not get along with your parents like what’s up? again, he’s like babe I told you she’s in manchester. I was like are the villages at war????? he goes “it’s too far. this isn’t holiday.” I was like babe we’ve drivin 4-5 hours for weekend trips to the beach Im just confused- and he cuts me off and goes “that’s American me. We don’t do that here”

[enjoloras-deactivated20220821]

The amount of parents I’ve met who’ve told me, as a soon-to-be father, how much kids ‘ruin your life’ makes me so fucking sad.

These are all people who had kids because it was ‘the next logical step’. Like they have this mentality of ‘Marriage? Check. House? Check. Well, guess we better have kids!’ And then bring small dependant humans into the world…and get upset when their lives are inconvenienced or changed as a result.

It really saddens me because there’s this damaging culture of children being part of the standard. So people who shouldn’t be parents (and I mean that in the simplest of terms - not in a judgemental way, but a ‘it’s just not for you’ way) feel pressured to have children and regret it. And then the poor child grows up feeling like a burden.

It’s not fair on anyone. The parents, the children.

As a post on this site once said - children and the decision to parent should be ‘hell yes or hell no’. If you think for any reason at all that you might not be big on raising kids, do not actively go out of your way to have kids. Having them won’t magically make you want them.

All the people I know who wanted - really wanted - their kids and to raise kids have said ‘it’s difficult but I LOVE it. I love being a parent.’

Can we please eliminate the idea that parenting should suck? And that having children is a necessary part of adulthood?

And can we please eliminate the idea that people who don’t want children are somehow lacking? And that those who do want children are doomed to misery?

Signed, a very excited father-to-be who understands it’s not something everyone wants or should want.

[skittles-rainbow-cat]

saying “i love you” is so freeing though, like your best friend does a silly dance in the parking lot so you say “i love you” or your partner says something rly dumb but it makes you laugh so you say “i love you” or one of your parents brings you some of the food they cooked so you say “i love you” it’s so freeing and pure and human so maybe we should say “i love you” a little more often

[abuse-support-posts]

I really don’t like how society demonizes crying. You’re seen as weak or manipulative if you shed any tears at all about anything. People look down upon you if you cry, or think you’re “faking for attention.” Even in the media, a character learning not to cry is considered good character development, and a character who does frequently cry is portrayed as weak or cowardly. 

The truth is, crying is one of the healthiest coping mechanisms humans have for stress. It’s been scientifically proven that the chemical composition of emotional tears (compared to basal and irritant tears) purges stress hormones from the body and produces a relaxing effect at a biological level. It’s also nonviolent (more than can be said for the more socially acceptable anger response). Humans evolved to cry for a reason. 

If one isn’t allowed to cry (if they would be shamed/abused for it), the stress hormones will build up and cause illness later on. They will have to force themselves to cry because their first instinct will be to repress the tears. They wouldn’t be able to cry in front of people anymore, either. 

Go ahead and cry if you need to, for whatever reason. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. 

[finndamerons-archive]

you've heard of cotton eye joe, now get ready for

polyester foot bob

[starei]

you make my best days even better