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[konigstigerr]

you don't give up a king just because you lost your queen

[maluinks]

Another sticker I made, this one's Chappell Roan, i rly cant stop playing PPC in my head hehe

[maluinks]

Stuff I made for an Artist Alley! I wanted to make some cute Dungeon Meshi Stickers, I really liked the results. I have tons left so if anyone is interested hit me up! I'll probably be selling them at other cons and fairs.

[maluinks]

A bit late to the meme but my december was so full of other commitments :’)) i just wanted to draw my girl being happy and hope-pilled, like she makes so many of us ❤️

[maluinks]

hi!! i would love to get some of the dungeon meshi stickers you posted last month if you still have them!!

Hi! I still got some left, I can mail them to you if you want :D I would have to calculate the cost of the shipping, where do you live? you can tell me over at my email address [email protected]

[maluinks]

A bit late to the meme but my december was so full of other commitments :’)) i just wanted to draw my girl being happy and hope-pilled, like she makes so many of us ❤️

[maluinks]

Stuff I made for an Artist Alley! I wanted to make some cute Dungeon Meshi Stickers, I really liked the results. I have tons left so if anyone is interested hit me up! I'll probably be selling them at other cons and fairs.

[maluinks]

Another sticker I made, this one's Chappell Roan, i rly cant stop playing PPC in my head hehe

[maluinks]

Another sticker I made, this one's Chappell Roan, i rly cant stop playing PPC in my head hehe

[maluinks]

Stuff I made for an Artist Alley! I wanted to make some cute Dungeon Meshi Stickers, I really liked the results. I have tons left so if anyone is interested hit me up! I'll probably be selling them at other cons and fairs.

[maluinks]

Stuff I made for an Artist Alley! I wanted to make some cute Dungeon Meshi Stickers, I really liked the results. I have tons left so if anyone is interested hit me up! I'll probably be selling them at other cons and fairs.

[maluinks]

Stuff I made for an Artist Alley! I wanted to make some cute Dungeon Meshi Stickers, I really liked the results. I have tons left so if anyone is interested hit me up! I'll probably be selling them at other cons and fairs.

[depsidase]

[gothhabiba]

men make it absolutely impossible to practice humility

[gothhabiba]

what you say: “I think this is the case”

what men hear: “I have no idea whatsoever, but here’s a totally random guess”

what you say: “I’m not an expert on this subject”

what men hear: “I don’t know anything about this subject and need its bare fundamentals explained to me”

what you say: “I could be better read in this area”

what men hear: “I have never read anything in this area”

[gothhabiba]

like okay fuck it nevermind I’m actually an expert in every subject I’ve ever read or heard about. in fact I know everything.

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

If anyone's ever wondering why I come across as such an arrogant bitch on Tumblr it's because I used to work in science with a lot of men and never readjusted my communication style afterward.

[respectissexy]

This is one of my biggest seemingly low-stakes feminist soapboxes. Women are often encouraged to take hedging, consensus-seeking, and checking-in phrases out of their speech in order to seem "more confident". And listen, of course you do not need to say "I think" when you actually know for pretty damn sure, or double-check every little thing you say, or apologize for things that are out of your control.

But there are men in my life who I respect, who I think are generally good communicators, but who have admitted to me that if they do not know the answer to something they will just state their best guess in a confident tone of voice, with no hedging or clarification to warn the listener that what they just said was pulled from their ass.

I once asked my high school boyfriend what noise a platypus makes and he confidently told me "oh they quack" and I said "really? that seems like they'd have different noise-making structures than ducks since they're not birds" and he said "oh yeah you're probably right. I was just guessing." And had no idea why I was mad! I was like, so if I ask you a question you might just bullshit me?? What if I had believed you and gone and repeated that to other people? I could have looked like an idiot. I could have spread misinformation to a ton of people! But I have told that story to other men and had them say "oh yeah I totally do that."

This is so much worse communication than just saying "I don't know but I think..." There shouldn't be campaigns training professional women to sound "more confident," there should be campaigns training professional MEN to stop doing whatever THAT is!

[gothhabiba]

[ID: Chidi Anagonye from The Good Place saying “okay, but that’s worse. You do see how that’s worse, right?” End ID.]

[ikimaru]

accidental double date!

[maluinks]

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[ladyaldhelm]

HOW TO TURN OFF GOOGLE AI in GMAIL:

Open Gmail in your browser

Click on the Gear Icon ⚙️ in the upper right

In the General Tab, scroll down to "Smart Features" and UNCHECK THE BOX. It is about halfway down.

Then, right below that is Google Workspace smart features. Click on the "Manage Workspace Smart Features" and make sure both toggles are OFF