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Garielle Angela here, call me Yelle ayt? I have troubled thoughts and self-esteem to match. The modern Audrey Hepburn. I've dreamed of PARA-PARA-PARADISE~ Blogger since May 24, 2011 Hi there amusing superhero! Explore memories here! Ask me anything About Me Posts, thoughts & dramas Personal Dear Diary Random Facts Photos & Portraits Rants Overly Dramatic Blog

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Mga bagay na natutunan ko sa isang failed relationship

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  Hindi lahat ng gusto mo ay makukuha mo; Hindi rin lahat ng gusto niya ay gagawin mo. 

Magtira para sa sarili. Huwag ibigay ang lahat. Kasi, kung sakaling hindi kayo ang para sa isa’t-isa at naibigay mo na ang lahat, masasaktan ka ng sobra.

Matutong tiwalaan ang iyong boyfriend o girlfriend. Huwag siyang limitahan sa mga gusto niyang gawin. Pero bilang isang taong nasa relasyon, alamin rin ang iyong mga limitasyon.

Huwag magsisinungaling. As much as possible, be honest sa isa’t isa. Hindi mo alam, tinatanong ka niya dahil alam na niya, pero nagsinungaling ka pa rin.

Huwag magsalita ng kahit na ano tungkol sa ex. Trust me, walang maidudulot na maganda iyon. Magsisimula lang kayo ng away.

Kapag nag-away kayo, pag-usapan ng mahinahon. Huwag magsigawan. Maaaring makagawa kayo ng mga desisyong pagsisihan niyo sa huli.

Kapag sinasaktan ka na physically, umalis ka na sa relasyon. Hindi tamang magpapasakit ka dahil lamang sa mahal mo siya. Mahalin mo rin ang sarili mo.

Huwag magselos sa mga kaibigan. Bago ka, andoon na sila. Hayaan mong bigyan rin niya ng oras ang mga kaibigan niya kasi pustahan tayo, halos lahat ng oras kayo na rin ang magkasama o magkausap.

Huwag hayaang mawala ang komunikasyon. Kumustahin mo siya kung anong nangyari sa araw niya o anupaman. Iparamdam mo sa kanya na mahal mo siya at you care for him/her.

Intindihin mo kung hindi ka niya mabigyan ng oras. Panandalian lang iyon. Huwag mo siyang sakalin na itext ka oras-oras, minu-minuto. Kapag busy siya, hayaan mo siyang gawin muna ang mga bagay na iyon. Pagkatapos noon, alam mong sa’yo rin naman siya babalik.

Huwag maging paasa. Kapag nangako ka, panindigan mo. Gayunpaman, huwag ka ring umasa ng sobra. Nakakamatay. 

Hanggang hindi pa kayo sigurado sa mga nararamdaman ninyo, huwag munang papasok sa isang relasyon.

Sa simula ng isang relasyon, masaya talaga. Pero humanda na kapag dumating yung panahon na may mga problema. Huwag agad mawalan ng pag-asa. Ayusin ang dapat ayusin. Isave ang mga bagay na kaya pang isave.

Ang mga pangako, napapako. Huwag basta basta maniniwala sa mga katagang, “Di kita iiwan”, o “Tayo na forever”. Walang ganoon. Kapag umasa kasi sa mga pangako, masasaktan ka lang sa huli.

Hindi magiging sapat na mahal niyo lang ang isa’t-isa. Hindi lamang sa pagmamahal umiikot ang relasyon ninyo. Kailanman, hindi magiging sapat ang pagmamahal. 

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personal quotes to brighten your day!

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Dancing Superheroes :)

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Thank you guys for making my whole year ride awesome ♥

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Ang sakit naman nung wala kang magawa hahaha! Konting pag cheer up or lambing lang naman oks na ehh. Kaso wala hahahaha. Kakaiyak :'(

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I look for you in everything. I look for you in him. I think that’s how i know that you’re the one i should have held on to. I see you in everything. I see you flannel shirts, and cream-colored paper, and any pair of blue eyes. I see you in god-damned fruit loops, ‘cause that was your favorite cereal. Is. It is your favorite cereal. There’s no way you’ve stopped loving them. I wish there was no way you would’ve stopped loving me. But that’s not fair of me to say. It’s not all your fault. It’s definitely not all your fault. I think it might be easier to live with if it was, but that’s not the case. I’m sorry. I’m sorry I didn’t admit that I was wrong, too. I’m sorry I didn’t forgive you. Or give you another chance. I’m sorry I never called back. I’m sorry I spent two years hating you. And regretting you. I’m sorry you got away. I hope you can forgive me. But I’m not sorry I fell in love with you. and I don’t regret what we have. Had. What we had. I hope you don’t either.

transcript of my message to the one that got away for theartassignment, excluding names. // a.g. (via diffvse)

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do u ever miss a friend but u don’t want to tell them bc they’re probably doing perfectly fine without u and to them it probably doesn’t even matter and so u don’t want them to think ur annoying or needy

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To you, She’s not average. She’s moody. Grouchy. Happy. Loving. Indecisive and Eager. She’s kind hearted. She has lonely nights. Reassure her that you are there, even if she refuses to talk to you. She will come back in the morning. Sometimes she distances herself, let her have her space then pull her closer. Don’t you ever let her go. Her nose gets cold easily. Stay warm, you never know when she will need the crease in your neck to keep it from getting too chilly. She’s insecure sometimes. Tell her how she can take your breathe away. Tell her she’s flawless with her hair pulled up and sweat pants on. When you lay with her and you are holding her, pull her closer. Always pull her closer. If you rub her arm make sure it’s the bottom half because she’s ticklish on top. Don’t touch her ear. In any circumstance. She hates it. You will annoy her. Just stop talking and listen instead. Sometimes she just likes to be heard. The perfect cure to a bad morning is chocolate, an icee, or Starbucks. (Vanilla bean). And give her one of your hoodies. She likes to sleep in them. You will love her mom. They’re just alike. If she’s like her in the future you’re one lucky son of a bitch. She drinks. Drink with her. But don’t get drunk because you need to be the one who helps her into bed and makes sure she’s fully covered. Then plays with her hair until she falls asleep. If you think she’s beautiful without makeup, just wait till you see her sleepy eyes in the morning. Never fail to make her laugh. Anything you can think of. If you want to see happiness it’s her when she laughs. It’s contagious and you’ll fall more in love every time. If she ever feels unwanted you aren’t doing your job right. When she looks at you with those big hazel eyes, and it kills you a little bit inside, don’t you dare look away. If she leaves, your biggest regret will be not looking at them long enough.

-me. (via onestartotheleft)

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I’m that kind of girl who, no matter how hard you try to push her away, will always bring a smile to your face, grab your favorite food, take you to a walk to let you breathe, and most of all, stay behind if that’s all that could ever make you happy. I won’t fight for you if you tell me not to. I’ll quietly let you go if that satisfies you. But know that, still, I am the kind of girl who is always left to pick up the broken pieces. What else is new?

the kind of girl that I am // mg. (via escafeism)

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I wanna go on a roadtrip someday. Alone or with someone I love. I wanna get away. Explore places. Sleep in the car. Stop a lot just to admire the view. Visit museums and try out coffee shops. Listen to my favorite albums while driving. Have a polaroid camera. Take pretty pictures of the sunrise. Take pictures of myself. Run through a forest. Chase fog. Chase the sun. Spend hours on a field making flower crowns. Feel the wind in my hair. Buy souvenirs. Meet people. Take time to observe. I wanna make memories. I wanna feel alive.

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Kid: hey can I borrow ur nikes real quick

Other kid: yeah why

Kid: *fills it with ice cream* aesthetic

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Health:

Drink plenty of water.                                                                           

Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.

Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.

Live with the 3 E’s - Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy

Play more games.

Read more books than you did in 2014.

Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.

Sleep for 7 hours.

Take a 10-30 minutes walk daily. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:

Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

Don’t over do. Keep your limits.

Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.

Dream more while you are awake.

Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.

Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.

Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.

No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

Smile and laugh more.

You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:

Call your family often.

Each day give something good to others.

Forgive everyone for everything.

Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.

Try to make at least three people smile each day.

What other people think of you is none of your business.

Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

Do the right thing!

Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 

No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

The best is yet to come.

Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

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You feel so special when your significant other brings you roses on a random, out-of-the-blue, and merely ordinary day.

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Annoying. Di ko alam pero feeling ko lahat ng tayo ang annoying hahahaha puta eto na naman ako sa mood swings ko ehh. Ewan ko bat naiirita ko ngayon. Yung mga tao paulit ulit tapos ang daming pinagsasabi, nakakainis na hahaha! Tapos naiiyak na naman ako hahahahha puta naman! Yung tipong feeling mo walang nakakaintindi sayo, dart sa heart friend hahaha! Hay bwiset na buhay to, nakaka stress.